Ngokokuba ngumntu omdala, wonke umntu uyaqonda ukuba akukho nto ifanelekileyo kwindalo, kwaye nangaphezulu nje abantu abafanelekileyo abahambi emhlabeni. Abasetyhini kunye namadoda bahlukile kakhulu kwimikhwa yabo kunye nengqondo. Ukuqala ukwakha ubudlelwane, le nyaniso kufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo kwaye ibonise ukunganyamezeli kwiqabane. Ukusuka ecaleni kwakhe, abafazi banokuphonononga ukuba yeyiphi imikhwa ecatshukiswa ngamadoda ukubabonisa kancinci kwaye ngaloo ndlela asondela kwi-corever kwinenekazi lenenekazi elililo.
1. Amabali aneenkcukacha malunga nolwalamano lwangaphambili
I-Psychology ye-psychology ilungiselelwe ngendlela yokuba inganyamezeleki kubo ukuze bathelekise nomntu, nangakumbi kunjalo. Ukuqonda ukuba kungathandeki kangakanani, kwanele ukuba nomfanekiso ngqondweni wakho iingalo zakho ngentliziyo ethobekileyo, kwaye yonke into iya kucaca.2. Ukuqiniseka ukuba ngesondo eyona nto iphambili ilala ebhedini
Inkwenkwe ithanda xa ibhinqa libonisa inyathelo lokuqala lebhedi - liyaphuma. Kodwa "i" starfish "ebhedini okanye, enye kwenye indawo," i "Log" ayitsaleli mntu. Kwaye nantoni na umfazi onomtsalane yayingeyiyo, nokuba yinto eninzi into ebinayo, ukuba isalala naye iya kuba nesidlo, indoda iya kuhamba ngokuzonwabisa.
3. Yakha izicwangciso zekamva elidibeneyo emva kwe "xesha lokuqala"
Isondo kunye nothando ziingcinga ezahlukeneyo, kwaye nangaphezulu ikamva elidibeneyo. Ngokugqibeleleyo, ukuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle kwaye imbonakalo iya kuba yinyani, kodwa yenzeka njalo. Ke ngoko, akufuneki ulindele into engakumbi ekufuphi nendoda, ukuze ke ingenzi buhlungu kakhulu kulindelo olungafezekanga. Kunye neengxoxo zayo kumxholo womtshato othi ngokukhawuleza, indoda inokuba yi-sage konke konke.4. Yenza ikhwele elikhethekileyo kwindoda
Kumona, akukho mntu uyakholiswa, kuquka nabafazi. Le asiyomvakalelo imnandi kakhulu ephakamisa ingqumbo nomsindo. Ezama ikhwele lokutsala umdla wamadoda, unokungenisa ukuthuthuzela kunye nobukrwada kuyo, kwaye kwezinye iimeko intanda inokuhamba.
5. Uku-odola kwivenkile yokutyela kuphela
Landela le nto ilungile, kuba yenziwa ngokwakho, kodwa neyakho intanda, uya kumnandi kakhulu ukujonga umfazi omuhle nombulala. Kodwa umema indawo yokutyela ukuba nexesha elimnandi lokukholelwa kwizitya ezimnandi, ngakumbi kuba iivenkile zokutyela azihambi mihla le. Kwaye malunga nento ohlala kuyo ngokutya -kufanele ukuba uyazi wena, iintombi zakho kunye nesono, kodwa ingenguye umntu wakho.6. Umona kwindawo yakhe
Kunzima ukuba umntu obhinqileyo aqonde ukuba izinto eziphoswe kwisibini esinye zinokuba ngumyalelo, kodwa amadoda anezimvo zawo kule nto. Kwaye ukuba kusekho yinto eqhelekileyo ukuyithoba iingubo zakhe ezishelufa, emva koko ingezele ukucoca i-hobby yakhe inokujika ibe yintlekele yokwenene. Ke ngoko, ukuza kuthi ga ngoku ebusuku khange ujonge ikona yakhe, kungcono ukuqaphela apho.
7. Hlala igumbi lokuhlambela kangangeyure
Ungayimi njani ukuchaza, kodwa amadoda akaqondi ukuba umfazi usenyuka kwigumbi lokuhlambela ixesha elide. Kutheni uphumelela kuphume, ukuba ungayenza ngemizuzu emihlanu, indlela ayenza ngayo. Ewe, mhlawumbi, oku kukuphela kokungaqondani okungasoze kusonjululwe phakathi komgangatho.8. Thetha ne-UNEA
Ingqondo yamadoda ihambelana ngqo nokuthe tye-badinga ukuthetha ngayo yonke into esebunzi, kungenjalo abayi kuqonda. Ngapha koko, bayacaphuka xa bengaziqondi ukuba bafuna ntoni kubo, kwaye basibi ngakumbi xa umfazi ekhubeka. Khumbula, la madoda alobantu abafanayo, abayazi indlela yokufunda iingcinga-ukuba ufuna into - buza ngokuthe ngqo ngayo, iya kuqhuba kakhulu ngayo unxibelelwano.
9. Imfuneko yencoko ngeyure
Abasetyhini bathanda ukuthetha kwimiphefumlo, bekhalaza ngesibetho kwaye bakhala kwi-vest, amadoda awayazi indlela yokwenza le nto kwaye akafuni-kuba yimbonakalo leyo buthathaka. Ke bakhuliswa bubuntwana. Kwaye ukuba ndisafuna ukuzisa umntu kwincoko yengqondo, mayithethe, ke kufuneka ikwenze ngobunono, ngokuthe ngcembe kwaye incinci. Okokuqala uyayifuna ukuze uthembele ngokupheleleyo kwaye kuphela ungaqala ukulandela inyathelo elilandelayo.10. Ukuhlala ugxekwa
Hlala uxoxa nendoda yakho isenzo somntu, indlela yokuziphatha, ukuba "i-mashka namhlanje yayinxibe ngokungafanelekanga ngokupheleleyo" - hayi olona luvo lufanelekileyo. Okokuqala, uninzi lwentsebenziswano elithi indoda nje ayiqondi ukuba kutheni le nto ibaluleke kangaka, kodwa, okwesibini mamela ayinyamezeleki. Amadoda, ngokubanzi, angaqhelekanga, anikele ingqalelo ngakumbi kubomi babo, ngelixa abanye bengabalulekanga kubo.
11. Isimo sengqondo esinobutshaba kubahlobo bakhe
Le ndoda ikhokelela ebomini bakhe kubudlelwane kunye nomntu obhinqileyo, uya kuyifumana isangqa sonxibelelwano, unabo abahlobo bakhe abavavanyiweyo ngexesha kunye nomlinganiso. Ubuhlobo bamadoda bungcwele kwaye akukho mfazi unokumchaphazela. Ngapha koko, amadoda athanda ukumamela izimvo zabahlobo, kuquka nesihloko sabo. Ke ngoko, ukuba ekuqaleni uqala vuka ukhuphiswano kunye nabahlobo bakhe, ubudlelwane bunokuyeka ngokukhawuleza. Khumbula, awusoze uvuke phakathi kwentanda kunye ne "Korea" yayo - iya kuphelela kakubi.12. Kukhokelele indoda ekuthembekeni
Yenza ixesha kunye lilungile, kodwa hayi kwivenkile. Yenza ukuthenga ngcono kunye neentombi ezabelana ngovuyo lokufumana. Kumadoda, uhambo lokuthenga, ngakumbi kumabhinqa, i-akin yoxinzelelo olomeleleyo, kwaye ayilolonwabo. Bamnandi kakhulu ukuvavanya iziphumo zokugqibela kwaye babone ibhinqa labo lezinto zesondo nezesondo kunye nengubo etsha enomtsalane, kwaye ayiboni ukuba yenzeka njani inkqubo yokhetho neyokuthenga.
13 Mbeke phezu kwakhe
Maxa maxa maxandeke ndityumza incwadi esongwayo kubo bonke: "Kulungile, ndikuxelele!" Kodwa akuthini nokuba bengakufuni malini, nokuba kungakukhupha njani esi sibetho, akunakwenzeka ukwenza oku. Ibetha ikratshi lendoda, kwaye le ndoda ifuna ukuba nayo i-knight, ayisiyonto yokudlala ngokwakho. Ngamaxesha am, ufuna ukuwa emhlabeni, uyayiqonda yonke into, ngenxa yoko akukeli.14. Idingo kwiNgxelo
Nokuba ungakanani na, yindoda, nawe, nawe kufuneka ube sisithuba sakho, kufuneka kubekho imeko yokuzimela. Kumadoda, oku kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngendlela, kukulahleka kokuzimela kwaye ukoyikisa umgangatho onamandla ngokujonga umtshato. Ke ngoko, akufuneki ubhence ulawulo oluthandwayo oluninzi, ufuna ingxelo yenqanaba ngalinye kwaye ulungiselele ukuncinwa malunga nendlela ababanjiweyo ngayo imini. Kodwa yonke into ikhoyo - ukuba uthe, uphuma kwimizuzu emihlanu, kwaye yena ngokwakhe wanyamalala iiyure ezininzi, ke unelungelo lokubuza inkcazo.
15. Ukuze uqiniseke ukuba "onke amadoda ayalingana"
Vumelana, abafazi bakonwabanga ukuva ukuba "bonke abafazi ...". Umntu ngamnye ngumntu ngamnye, akunakwenzeka ukuba uqwalasele ngokubanzi isigama esinye kuphela. Eli binzana liyakwazi ukurhoxisa, kutheni ufuna ukohlwaya okukodwa kunye nohlalutyo lweenqwelomoya?