Mhlawumbi akukho mntu owayengakhathazeki malunga nomhla wokuqala. Zininzi iingcinga entloko, uninzi lwazo malunga nendlela yokungajongi ukuba sisidenge kwaye unamandla phambi komntu okhethiweyo. Ngapha koko, ekuphela kwento ekufuneka uyenzile kukuthatha nje ezandleni zakho kwaye uzolile. Phosa zonke izinto ze-stereotypes uphume entlokweni yam, kuba umhla wale mihla awuyiyo ukuba yayiyintoni ngaphambili, kwaye imidlalo emininzi kudala iphelelwe lixesha.
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Amantombazana kunzima ukuzama ukwenza umfanekiso womhla wokuqala kwaye uzame ukunamathela kuzo zonke iilogo zefashoni - ukuba isithende sisezantsi, ukuba kukho i-fack, ke ngokungafanelekanga, njl njl. Izithintelo ezininzi kakhulu, kwaye azinamsebenzi. Kwaye akusekho kwakhona inani lemithombo ebonisa ukuba amadoda ayithandayo / akazithandi izikhonkwane ezinde / ezimfutshane, i-varnish, i-varnish, njlsish.Kwaye ngoku, ingqwalaselo - amadoda, nabantu, abantu abanokuthanda izinto kunye nezinto abazithandayo, kwaye wonke umntu unezabo. Inye amadoda afana nabafazi abaziingubo eziqinileyo, abanye - abanye - abangenamsebenzi. Kwaye ukuba ayisebenzi kwi-salon ye-man, akasayi kujonga umbala wevarnish. Ngokuphathelele izithende, ukuba ayikhuli phantsi kwaye ayinantsundu ngeli cala, emva koko izithende zingumbandela wokungcamla.
Kodwa ayikwanayo malunga nayo. Isiseko somhla wokuqala yintlanganiso enomntu ophilayo wokwenene onesitayile sayo nesimbo, indlela yakho yokuphila kunye noluvo lwakho. Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba senze imvakalelo yokukhohlisa i-chager, izama ukuphosa ukhetho lwakho kwaye luziqhelanise nendlela alunge ngayo, ethi, ngendlela, ayicacanga? Ke ngoko, impikiswano engaphantsi kunye nemincili-faka into oziva ngcono.
Isidlo sangokuhlwa sihlawula kuphela umntu
Le ndoda iqala indawo yokuza kuthi ga ngoku, ukuze le inenekazi linokwamkela isicelo okanye inkunkuma. Ukuqwalaselwa kwendoda ibonelela ngendawo efanelekileyo yokukhetha, umnxeba ophakathi kwi-cafe, kwaye iinyawo okanye eziphakanyisiweyo zikumema ukuba uhambe epakini. Kodwa ukuba umhla uhlelwe ngabantu abadala abazimeleyo, ke isigqibo sokuya sihlala sisamkela kunye, ngokuchanekileyo, njengalowo nokuba ungahlawula njani ityala.
Ngendlela, lo mthetho ungamangalisi, kodwa uthandana. Kuba Abafazi abaninzi babuza iiforamu: "Ngaba kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuzihlawula?". Izimvo zoluntu zihlala zahlulele- Abanye babonisa indoda ene-jori, abanye abantu ababengumfazi basasaza ilebheli ethi "Umxholo" welebheli. Kwaye akukho mpendulo ichanekileyo kulo mbuzo-ngamnye ugqiba izigqibo ngokwakhe.
Kwakusitya ukubhekisa kwi-Equiquette, ke akukho nto icelayo kuba indoda iya kuhlawula iBhili - isenzo esivela kwinxalenye yakhe asinyanzeli umfazi. Sele "engcikiva" kuye noluntu kunye nexesha elichithwe emntwini. Kodwa ukuba ukhululekile ukuba uzihlawulele, emva koko uyenze - kwaye uvumele umntu afune, ucinga.
Izihloko zencoko kufuneka "zilungele" kuphela "
Yintoni enokuba sisidenge ngakumbi kunokucinga ngesicwangciso sencoko yomhla? Ezopolitiko- akunakwenzeka, inkolo iyinxalenye, ihleba kunye neengxaki emsebenzini-akukho ndlela. Kancinci njengodliwanondlebe. Ngokuphathelele kwincoko, unokulandela imigaqo-nkqubo ngokubanzi: Ungayihoyi indlela yokujongana nomnxibelelanisi wakho kule nto uyithethayo, kwaye uzame nje ukuthetha, kodwa makamamele enye. Zonke, kuzo zonke izithintelo ziphela.I-Taboo kwi-kisses kunye nezesondo
Imigaqo yesondo kunye nokuqabula kuyaphila kwaye unanamhla, kodwa ngaba bafanelekile? Ukuba utsiba ebhedini ngaxeshanye-le ndoda iyakuthathela ingqalelo ngokulula, ukutsala ixesha elide - uya kuphulukana nomdla. Yonke indawo iminqweno ithathelwa ingqalelo kuphela, kuthekani ngomfazi? Ngaba akukho nto ingekhoyo ibuthathaka yomgangatho kunye 'nonqwenelela amanqindi "?
Ngapha koko, esi sihloko sinciphile kakhulu. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu akanazinjongo zinzulu, aze azibeke usukelo lokulala nomfazi othile, nokuba uyayiphumelela eyakhe isiqingatha sonyaka wolwalamano lwakhe, uya kushiya inenekazi. Kwelinye icala, ibali lazi iimeko ezininzi zomtshato owonwabisayo, apho kusenzeka khona ngesondo ngomhla wokuqala.
Ke ngoko, akufuneki ubeke izithintelo ezicacileyo ngalo mbandela, kodwa yiva nje imeko nendoda. Ukuba uziva ngathi ukusondelelana kongokuhlwa okokuqala naye kuyinto eqhelekileyo, uyayifuna, emva koko wenze ngokufakelwa kwakho, kwaye ngokuchaseneyo.