Ukuba ucinga ukuba wenza nje into ongayiphumeleliyo uzama ukujamelana neepysteri zomntwana wakho, cinga ukuba azinantsingiselo na ngumoya. Ukuba akukhange kubenjalo, uya kubulawa ukuba ukuphakama komntwana akubangelwa yimeko yempilo yakhe, kwaye uzame ukusebenzisa iingcebiso kuluhlu olungezantsi.
1. Zama ukuqonda iphethini:
• Leliphi ixesha i-hysterical
• Akalambile ngalo mzuzu
Ayidinwanga
• Yeyiphi i-hysterics yenzeka
Phambi kokuba bathini abantu. Lungisa umntwana ukuba atshintshe kwangaphambili ("Siza kuhamba") 3. Khetha, ungazithethi (umzekelo, usetoto, ngoku ufuna umntwana ahlale ngokuzolileyo, kwaye umnike ipipi) .4. Umntwana makaphendule njengoko efika emotweni kwaye kufuneka abaleke. Ndiyazi ukuba awuyithandi, ndiyazi ukuba awuyithandi le bhanti, ikhwaza , indlwana, umama kufutshane ").
5. Nciphile ulindelo lwakho kunye namabhongo de umntwana akhule (ngokufuthi abantwana abancinci basekwe kumacandelo aliqela, kwaye abalindelanga ukuba bangenzi imithwalo enjalo) .6. Kungekudala ufuna into yokwenza into, i-chite kufuneka ihambise kwaye isezantsi kwaye ithole, ivakalise, ityhafise, izwi elikhulu ivelisa inkcaso) .7. Zithanda ("Yonke into ilungile", "uphefumla nzulu kakhulu, uya kuhlangabezana", njl njl.).
8. Zama ukuthobela ingqalelo yendawo yokwamkela, ukucula, ukuqhwaba .9. Zijoyine iingcinga ezivakalayo malunga nokudandatheka kwi-hysteria yabantwana: "Owu, ndiyayibona ayisebenzi. Ewe, akukho lula. Kulungile, masizame ngokwahlukileyo. "
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