Andisoze ndibaxelele abantwana bam ukuba ndiyabathanda ngokulinganayo. Kuba ayinjalo. Ndinodade, kwaye kubukho bam ongumntwana bahlala besixelela ukuba uyasithanda ngokulinganayo, kodwa bendisoloko ndizama ukumsika kwinto yokuba uthanda kakhulu udadewethu - kunam.
Wagalela ijusi ethe tyaba (ndilinganiswe). Usuku lokuzalwa kwakhe yayiyinto enkulu kwi-Grandiose yam. Kwelinye icala, umama wandibetha ixesha elide kwaye amaninzi aqhayise ngokuziphatha kwam okuhle. Yayingengolu khuphiswano nje lwemihla ngemihla, kodwa lubusuku benene.
Ngoku ndingumama wam, kwaye andifuni ukuba abantwana bam bakhuphile. Ke ngoko, ndibaxelela ukuba ndibathanda ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, njengabantu abohlukeneyo.
Sukuthelekisa impumelelo
Ungaze uthi: "Nanko udadewenu, yonke into sele inoyolo, kwaye uhleli ngaphezulu kweplate." Ndingathanda ukukhankanya impumelelo yabo - inkulu, kodwa ayifani. Bantwana, njengabo bonke abantu, njengayo, xa impumelelo yabo iphawula kwaye ayithandi xa imiswa.Khuthaza ukubonakaliswa kweMntu ngamnye-kuyo yonke into
Bayeke benze izinto abazifunayo, negumbi labo okanye iimpahla. Mababe nomdla kuyo nayiphi na indawo - kwaye bangabi naliphi na intengi yokuthintela ukuba inkanuko yabo yedinosaurs okanye i-Hip-Hop ayisiyongxaki kunye nobume. Ekugqibeleni, ufuna ukuba bakwazi ukukhula kwaye bengaboyiki ukuba bazodwa.
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Xa imeko iqaqamba, ndifuna nyhani nyhani kwaye uqale ukuqonda ukuba ngubani olapha, ngubani obekek 'ityala. Endaweni yoko, banike ithuba lokusombulula ukungqubana. Kwiimeko ezigqithisileyo, macala onke athethe, engavumeli umdlali welinye iqela, kwaye mabafumane isigqibo soxolo. Ewe, isenzo siya kufuneka. Kodwa ukuxoxa ngaphandle kokuthatha inxaxheba kukaMama yisakhono esiluncedo kakhulu.Hambisa iilebheli ngengqondo
Xa usitsho ukuba iVasya ngumntwana onobuchule, kwaye uMama yilebheli ebalaseleyo, uxhoma iilebheli. Nokuba uthetha into elungileyo. I-Masha sisifundo esihle kakhulu? Ipholile, ke ngoko unika abanye abantwana ukuba baqonde ukuba isithuba sokugqwesa sele sixakekile, kwaye kuya kufuneka bazame ukuqonda i-mama ngenyawo. Ekuphela kwendlela emfutshane onayo ilungelo lokuxhonywa ngu "udade olungileyo" kunye "nomzalwana onomnqweno." Akukho monakalo apha, ngaphandle kwesibonelelo.
Guqula "i-akhawunti yebhanki yabo"
Ukuba nayo yonke inzala ubuncinci imizuzu eli-10-15 ngemini - yeka libe kuphela. Okanye akukho dade, hayi dade, akukho the maphithiphithi, akukho fowuni ezandleni zakho, okanye i-telecale - kuphela wena wedwa. Abantwana banqwenela ukukhuphisana ingqalelo. Ngelixa umntwana ezazi ukuba une-100% ye-it-ayidingi i-gorigunter kunye nezinto ezinomdla zokutsala ingubo kwicala lakho.
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