Ndandisazi ukuba kufuneka ndifundise intombi yam kakhulu, kodwa yile nto ndingayilindelanga, ngoko yinyani yokuba yena ngokwakhe, ukusuka kwimbiza ezimbini, uza kuphanda. Ufundise, kwaye ufumana ngcono kunabo nawuphi na ababhali boqeqesho "banokuphucula njani ubomi." Yile nto sele ifundise yona - kodwa waqala nje!
Umonde. Ewe, ufuna malunga ne-thale ngonaphakade. Ewe, kwivenkile ekhulula isherifu nganye. Ewe, ikhefu kwindlu yethu yolule iyure, kuba umntu uthathwe kwiplate. Kodwa ikratshi ukusuka kwi-InterpeEind, uyolo lokujija ezandleni zebhegi nganye kwaye iphule iapile nganye - kubalulekile. Kwaye kufuneka ndithintele impembelelo yokuhamba ngokukhawuleza, nceda, uyikhuphe iphupha. Kuyanda kakhulu unyamezelo.
Hlala ngoku. Kwakukho ixesha, ndandiziqhelanisa ne-mantra, ndaqhuma iilitha zeoyile eziyimfuneko kwaye ndabaleka e-Yoga, kodwa umntwana waza waba yeyona ndlela isebenzayo yokufunda apha kwaye ngoku. I-fubbble yesepha ayizukubhabha ngonaphakade, iicookies, zikhutshiwe kwi-oveni, emva kwemizuzu eli-10 iya kunuka kancinane, itshintshi yesanti iya kubumbela amaza okuqala. I-ephemeli yazo zonke ezi zinto zothuso zabantwana abancinci (kwaye ziqhubeka kakuhle "kakuhle, nooms, kulungile, khangela !!") Undifundise ukuba ndibone yonke imbonakalo yakhe.
Ukwazi. Yintoni le nto iMnyama yandilandelwa ngeentsuku zelanga? Kwaye ukuba ndizama ukubaleka kuye? Kwaye ukuba uyamqhuba? Unyamalala phi, goduka? Ungakanani umnyhadala, zingaphi iimvavanyo! H Ukuphendula imibuzo yakhe, nam ngokwam kufuneka ndimkele, ndikhangela ulwazi kwaye ndibuze imibuzo endingasokuze ndikhumbuze.
Yiba lapha i-100%. Xa intombi yam idlala nam, ifuna ubuvi kum. Yonke ingqalelo yam ifanele ibe yeyo. Kwaye inengqiqo kakhulu. Xa ndithetha naye, ndicela ukuba undijonge, ndiphulaphule (kwaye ndivile) kwaye ndiziva ndisodwa. Ke kutheni ungafuni okufanayo kum? Kwaye kutheni le nto ndingafanele ndiyinike, kuba kungekudala iza kukhula le midlalo, kwaye i-Facebook nge-tweet iya kuba ibaluleke ngakumbi kunexesha elichithwe nam. Ke ngoko, andiyi kuyijonga kwifowuni xa efuna ingqalelo yam.
Biza izinto ngamagama akho. Sonke sizama ukuthetha inyani, kodwa ngakumbi kwaye rhoqo sicinga ukuba sibe sezidongeni ezibukhali kwaye akenzakalise ikratshi lomntu. Xa intombi yam ithi, "Ityiwa kakhulu" okanye "kakhulu", oko kuthetha ukuba kunjalo. Ungathembeke, ungathuki, ukuba ndiqhelanisa, ndiza kusebenza.
Ukuzithemba. Xa ejonga amangenelo ethu amadala ukusuka ekuhambeni, wayehlala esithi: "Ngexesha elizayo ndiya kuya apho. Kwindiza. Oko kuya kuba mkhulu! ". Akukho zizisolayo, akukho mibuzo, kutheni engazange afunwe kwimihlaba enkulu ye-tulip eHolland kwaye engaqubhani kulwandle lwaseJamaica. Kuphela "kwixesha elizayo." Ithemba nokuzithemba ukuba, kunjalo, kuyakwenzeka. Yile nto ngamanye amaxesha siswele ngokwenene.
Ukukwazi ukwaneliswa zincinci . Xa wayesemncinci, wayedla ngokudlala ngewotshi ene-spuen kunye nesitya, okanye edlala idrama ngokuthatha inxaxheba kwerhamncwa le-teddy, okanye ukuqokelela elunxwemeni lweeprojekthi zabo. Sinabahlobo abakhulisa amagumbi abantwana babo kunye neethoyi zetekhnoloji enkulu ephezulu, kodwa akazange abonise umdla. Qho xa, ukudlala ngohlobo oluthile lweenkuni, kundibonisa ukuba ulonwabo aluxhomekeki kwinto onayo, nobuchule abunakuphela ekunqongopheni kwemali.
Xolela. Bendisoloko kunzima kakhulu ukuxolela, ndiyeke ndilibale. Ndiyaqonda ngokugqibeleleyo ukuba indoyikisa nje, kodwa andinakwenza nto. Kodwa xa ndijonga intombi yam, ndiziva kabukhali, hayi indlela ngokukhawuleza, indlela osisidenge ngayo ukuze achithe amandla kwinto eyonakalisayo.
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