Sonke sihlala eluntwini kwaye sixhomekeke kakhulu kwizimvo zabantu abasingqongileyo. Ukuncoma okumnandi, uthe ngokona kwasekupheleni kwentsasa, kunokuphakamisa yonke imihla, kwaye intetho eqhelekileyo malunga nezinto ezingalunganga zingaphembeli kuphela, kodwa zinciphise ukuzithemba kwethu.
Ukuzithemba kwabasetyhini - I-phenomenon ibuthathaka kakhulu. Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba umntu obhinqileyo uyaziqonda ukuba akakwazi. Abantu abakufutshane bakhe bazenza ukuzithemba kwakhe. Ukuba awonwabanga, ugxeka rhoqo kwaye uzibone kakubi, esi sisizathu esivakalayo sokucinga nokuqonda ukuba ingxaki yokuzithemba okuphantsi ikhoyo. Ukuthatha ingxaki - inyathelo lokuqala ukuya kwisisombululo sayo esiphumeleleyo. Ukuqonda ukuba ukuzithemba kwakho kwawa, qalisa ukusebenza. Ukuqala, uphonononge indawo osondele ngayo.
Imeko enesidima somfazi-isiqinisekiso sokuzithemba kwakhe!
Umfazi kufuneka anxibelelane kuphela nabo bamthandayo. Abahlobo, izalamane, abaphathi, abaqeqeshi, abahlali, abazali kufuneka bathande kwaye bahlonele umntu obhinqileyo, bavule, bakukhokele indawo epholileyo okanye bakhuthaze amadoda. Akunakuze kubekho naziphi na iimeko umfazi obhinqileyo anxibelelane nabo bakugcobayo kwaye, ngaloo ndlela, behlisa ukuzithemba kwakhe. Iyatshabalalisa. Kwangelo xesha, indlela yokuba "abagxeki" ayinamsebenzi. Iingcebiso, izimvo ze-ilcer, iziqhulo okanye ii-abhorisms ze-ironis zonke ziyingozi ekuzipheni kwabasetyhini ukuya kwinqanaba elifanayo.
Nokuba loluphi uhlobo lolwalamano umfazi oquka nendoda egxeka, kuya kufuneka ayikhuphe ngaphandle kwisangqa sonxibelelwano. Akukho ndoda okanye umqeshi okanye intombi ekufutshane ayifanele igxeke kwaye ihlambe umfazi. Okanye ngamazwi okanye izenzo. Kuya kufuneka ubandakanye naye wonke umntu othobela ukuzithemba kwakho. Nxibelelana kuphela nabo bakuthanda! Kwaye uya kuqaphela ngokukhawuleza ukuba isimo sakho sengqondo sitshintshile.
Ziyekeleni ngokwakho!
Umfazi ufanele aphulaphule. Ukuba ufuna ukuncokola kunye neentombi okanye utye itshokholethi, kufuneka ufumane ezi zinto ziluncedo zincinci kwaye ungayifeli i-thsuth elutres ye-Watches ezisetyenzisiweyo kunye neekhilogramu ezongezelelweyo. Nokuba yintoni ubude bakho nobunzima bakho, umbala wamehlo kunye nobudala. Kubalulekile ukuba uzive wonwabile, kwaye oku mamela iminqweno yakho kwaye uzikhulise rhoqo!
Zikhathalele!
Ibhinqa elihle lifumana izincomo ezininzi. Uyajongwa, uyamthanda, ubekwe kumzekelo. Ukusuka kule meko inyuka, amehlo avutha, ikhilogram inyibilike kwaye ukuzithemba kokuzithemba. Ewe kunjalo, ayifanelekanga ukukhulula ngaphandle kwendoda okanye ingubo eneminyaka eli-10 ubudala, ukuba ugcinwe kakuhle, kwaye ingubo ihleli ngokugqibeleleyo, igxininisa izibonelelo zomntu.
Zilungiselele!
Ubomi buqulatha uvuyo olukhulu kunye oluncinci, ii-charria kunye nezinto ezifunyenweyo. Ngamanye amaxesha ngokukhululekileyo okanye ngokuzithandela, siyakhubeka ngothando, sinika izithembiso ukuba asinakukwazi ukufezekisa, simde kwintlanganiso ebalulekileyo, libabale abazali. Abantu esibathandayo abasoloko befumana inkxaso eyimfuneko, uthando, ukhathalelo. Ukunyaniseka kokuphoswa, sikulungele ukuzigxeka kwaye sinamava olona hlobo lunzulu lwetyala, olutshabalalisa i-psychel yethu kwaye iphantsi. Ukuze kwenzeke, nantoni na oyimpazamo ongaziqinisekisayo yona. Zilungiselele into yonke! Kholwa ngokuqonda ukuphononongwa kwakho, zivume wena mihla le kwaye yonke imizuzu. Kwaye ufumane isizathu sokuba kwenzeke. Mhlawumbi udiniwe kwaye awunamandla nje ngokwaneleyo?
Khuphela amandla!
Wonke umfazi ugqibelele ekuzalweni. Igcwele amandla, ekufuneka isebenze kuye wonke umntu: kwintsapho, abantwana, intombi, izinto endizithandayo. Ukuba amandla akonelanga, kunokwenzeka, akaphumelelanga kwaye umfazi uziva engonwabanga kwaye engafanelekanga. Ukuphuma kwingxaki kwaye ukhulise ukuzithemba, kufuneka ufumane amandla akho. Bhala ama-20 eempawu zakho ezintle kwaye uphinde ufunde kwakhona uluhlu lwemihla ngemihla, ubanjiwe ngeempawu zayo ezintsha. Vula iitalente zakho ekuzobeni, ukucula, ukuthunga, ukunqunyulwa, i-psychology, ukuhamba. Fumana into oyenzayo ngcono kunabanye, kwaye uyiphucule. Fumana utitshala ofanelekileyo kwinqanaba elikufutshane nawe kwaye unomdla. Ukutsala ulwazi, kubonise kwaye bakhule ngokomoya. Nje ukuba ubone ukuba kwinto enetalente, uya kuyeka ukuzilungiselela kwaye uya kuzingca kuwo.
Khangela abantu abanengqondo efanayo!
Ukuba uyayithanda into, fumana abo babelana ngenkanuko yakho. Abantu abanokuthatha inxaxheba kuye emsebenzini omnye bayakwazi ukukhuthaza nokunika amandla afanelekileyo. Banokufunda ulwazi olutsha, izimvo ezinomdla, iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuphumeza. Ukuba kwindawo enobuhlobo, uya kuziva ukhululekile kakhulu. Kwaye, ewe, ukuzithemba kuya kukhula!
Cela uncedo kwaye uncede abanye!
Ukuba ufuna uncedo, inkxaso okanye kulwazi lomntu kunye namava, ungathandabuzi ukubuza. Rhoqo kakhulu abasetyhini abafumani mnqweno kuphela kuba abanakubuza. Akukho mntu unokufunda nge-teletically malunga neemfuno zakho, ukuba awxeleli ngazo. Kwaye nokuba awusoloko ukwazi ukunceda, ayiyothusanga. Ukuba uyala, buza nje ukuba umntu ocela omnye umntu. Ehlabathini, amawaka abantu abakulungele ukukunceda. Awuguqukeli kwindoda. Kwaye ngokuchaseneyo, ukuba umntu othile ucele, ongayi kuba nzima kuwe, yinze. Umbulelo ongumphambukeli uya kongeza iKhadi leNtengiso kwiKarma kwaye ngexesha elifanelekileyo liya kubuyela kwibhonasi emnandi.
Uncumo!
Ukuze kungabikho, uncume kwaye uyikhuphe imeko, umntu, olahlekileyo kwi-wallet enkulu yemali. Akukho nto ixabisekileyo iinyembezi zakho. Khumbula ukuba, nokuba uncume ngoomatshini, uthumela uphawu lwengqondo, olonwabileyo. Ingqondo ivutha umzimba owonwabileyo, kwaye ngoku sele uqalile ukuncuma ngokunyaniseka, ububanzi kwaye inyani!