EBelukha? Kudidi lwesithathu? Ngeminyaka emithathu? Kwaye yintoni, thabatha i-stroller kunye nawe, ukuba ndidiniwe - ihamba kwisitulo esinamavili! Kunye nenye ithebhulethi. Myeke abukele iikhathuni nge-youtube. Kunye neebhutsi ezintsha. Ikhaya elidala ekhaya-alisabi kakhulu. Kwaye umntu uya kufaka iphepha langasese.
Inxalenye yokufunda ithi "Kulungile, wena kwipics.ru ngokubanzi. Akukho zizinto zinjalo. " Inxalenye ihleka, ukhumbula ukuqiqa okufanayo, ebonakalayo kwiiforamu. Kwaye icandelo lisakhula, likhumbula abahambi abantu abanyule indlela balungiselela umbutho malunga neli nqanaba. Kwaye ukuba aba bahambi kunye nembewu yabo basindisa njani phantse iihelikopta.
Asiyi kubhala iingcebiso ezikhethekileyo apha, kuba i-euns yomntu weenyanga ezintathu yahluke kakhulu kwizixhobo zeminyaka emithathu, kwaye abantu abaneminyaka emithandathu ubudala abakwazi ukungqinelana nantoni na. Simalunga nomhlobo.
Yintoni, ngaba kukho ndlu ivela kwicandelo elicocekileyo? Intuthuzelo. Intuthuzelo nonqabiseko, nantoni na eyenzekileyo. Unyawo olushushu kwaye ngobunono. I-pop efudumeleyo kwaye yomile. Intloko intsha kwaye inomdla. Kwenzeka kulale? Ndifuna ukutya? Ndifuna ukuthuthuza? Ngaba ufuna ukudala? Ngaba ufuna ukucoca? Ndifuna ukuyeka ukwenzakalisa umqala? Indlu entle inento yonke "endiyifunayo" impendulo elungiselelwe kwangaphambili, ngokukhawuleza kwaye ifuna kakhulu ukuba iyanelisa. Amanye amalungu eNdlu Sinyamezele ngaphandle, kubaphambukeli, kwaye babizwa ngokuba "sisiXeko" -Umntu obonelela ngeentyatyambo kunye ne-calentula yezigaba, kwaye umntu uza kukhanya ekhaya, ukukhanya ne-wifi.
Ukuya kweli phulo, okwethutyana intloko iyaqhubeka nokuba intsha kwaye inomdla, siyayishiya indlu. Kwaye ishiyile iphela idalwe ukugcina intuthuzelo, nayo. Imowudi yemali eseleyo iyasebenza - Ke, nantsi le mifuno yexesha lokujikeleza, kodwa kufuneka kudilizwe; Kodwa ezi zinto, siya kubonelela.
Ukuhambahamba kunye nomntwana, kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba kuya kufuneka ujike nenkqubo efanayo, kwaye cinga malunga nento ekufuneka yenziwe - kwaye rhoqo, ikwanelisekile. Kwaye kuyavela amandongomane, oveza ngeentsana, phantse umhlaba womlilo awuphazisi ngokupheleleyo. Umntwana wokuncancisa uyafuneka ngokufudumeleyo, ucocekile ucoceko kunye nomama, kwaye akukho nzima ukuthatha inxaxheba kuwe-diapes kunye nokubekwa. Kodwa ukuthatha intombazana eyahlukileyo yeminyaka emihlanu ukuya kwi-cottage, kuya kufuneka uphendule inqanawa yesikhongozelo. Ngoba ngaphandle kwe-Winnie Pooh, akaleleli, ukuba ahlambe elizweni uTham, kodwa ahambe ngaphandle kwebhayisekile xa kukho ihlazo.
Ngokwenyani, kuphela ngoku kwaye uyaqonda ukuphosa, uza kuphuma endlwini ixesha elide. Ngexesha leentlobo "zokuncancisa izitovu" zinendlela yokuthuthuzela yayithathu: indlu, i-sanatorium kunye ne-tundra. Kwi-tundra (eyayiqondwa liphulo "iphulo") -kuphela komoya omtsha kunye neempawu ezintsha. Yonke enye into yayifanele ukuthwala. Kum. Namhlanje, i-tundra engenanto ingekho. Kwaye siyaqhubeka nokuthwala yonke into enokuba luncedo emntwaneni. Okanye, ukuxhela i-tundrys, ungabi ngaphezu kwe-cottage.
Yintoni enokwenziwa?
Vavanya indlela enesihloko esithi "Yintoni esinokuyifumana ngayo apho imali yethu." Kwaye yeyiphi imali. Ziphi ezona ngqiqweni apho bathengisa khona umntwana, indlela ezilungiselelwe ngayo izindlu zangasese, kukho irente yebhayisekile kwaye iphuli ichibi.
Kwiphulo lokuqala kunye nomntwana, ukuphuma kwimiphetho apho zonke iipilisi sele ziqhelekile kangakanani nomntwana, kwaye utsha, kwaye u-thabatha ipesenti enkulu ye-orvous kwaye uyonwaba ukuzibonakalisa ingcali. Kwaye apha ndafumana i-oyile yesikwere. Fair. Senza emotweni, sikhuphe ilaptop, ndiza kukubonisa kwiifoto ezindala. "
Urhwebo lungakude nekhaya kwizinto ezincinci. Kutheni le nto shanga i-Kuala Lumpur ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana mkhulu ngokwaneleyo ukuba uphose iikhilomitha ezintathu? Oku nakwipaki yesiqhelo unokufumana. Ukuya epakini ngeenyawo, ukusuka kwipaki ngeenyawo. Sibhala - ikhilomitha enye enesiqingatha yayihamba, ikhilomitha ye-scratch, ipolkometer yayiqhuba utata.
Ngamanye amaxesha inkulu kakhulu kwiingxoxo zomntwana ngamanye amaxesha ukufundisa ukungakhathali okuncinci phantsi komaleko omninzi wezinto ezinqabileyo. Beka intente endlwini kwaye ulale bonke ukulala kwi-foam, kwiingxowa zokulala, kunye neflashlish (Molo kwiholide yeholide yamaJuda). Ukuya ekliniki ngeenyawo, endaweni yebhasi. Ulibale iambrela, hamba, ukolula iihempe. Khohlwa malunga nokuphakama, ukubaleka kumgangatho wesibhozo ngaxeshanye. Kukho abantwana abanoxinzelelo ngokubanzi kukuba into ihambe ngendlela engafakwanga (kwiphulo malunga nesatellite enjalo kulula ukubulala de kube seneliseke) -Ukubona.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni. Khumbula ukuba ekuphela kwabantu ekufuneka benike ithuba lokuthuthuzelwa komntwana ngabazali bakhe, kwaye abo bantu bavumelane nokuthatha imali kwangaphambili (abasebenzi abahlawulelwayo), kuphela ngaphakathi kwemida ehlawulwe. Abadluli, okanye abamelwane kwindiza, okanye i-suri yaseRussia. Kwaye ukuba umntwana, unqwenela ukufumana abazali, nyusa abantu angabaziyo- indlela enokuphendula inokuba nzima kakhulu. Ngaba uyayifuna?