Namhlanje, abafazi abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba kungcono ukuba bodwa, ude ufumane umntu oza kuwaqonda onke amandla, inkululeko kunye nenkululeko. Kodwa zenza ntoni oochwephesha beengqondo malunga noku.
Okokuqala, kufuneka ulinde de umntu avele ebomini, oya kukwenza uzive i-bybyfries edumileyo esiswini kwaye iya kubangela ukuba i-sts ivela ezithendeni. Indoda eya kuthi ithande yonke i-thentimeter yomzimba wakho kwaye eya kuthi ithande zonke ii-moles kunye nezinto ezingalunganga, ezingayi kuba nangxaki kuphela, kodwa neenyembezi zakho.
Ukuba ayinjalo, kungcono ukuhlala wedwa.
Kufanelekile ukuba ungazinikezeli kumntu omnye, ade abonakale umntu, othe bakhohlisayo ngomphefumlo wakhe, engenguye umnwe wakhe ngentliziyo yakhe, engapheleli kuwe. Kungcono ukuba ngumntu omnye de umntu avele ongakuvumeli ukuba angangeni kwaye afune ukuba kufutshane ngokuhlwa ngoLwesihlanu nangoMvulo oya kulala egxalabeni kwaye Iza kulungisa ingubo ebusuku ukuze ubulunge ngakumbi.
Kuyimfuneko ukulinda umntu ongayi kuba yimfuneko ukuba abonakale ecaleni kwelindi oya kunyanzela ukuba lihleke kwaye apho intliziyo iya kulwa khona. Ukuba akukho nto injalo, kulula ukuba ibe nye ... de umntu afune (kwaye uya kuba khona) ukuba abe kufutshane kwaye ephumelele. Izakuhamba hamba ngalo lonke ixesha, kwaye apho uya kuphoswa khona xa ingekho.
Kulula ukuba ubani de kube kukho umntu oza kuqonda amandla akho, inkululeko kunye nenkululeko; Ongayi koyikisa ukuba nawe, kwaye ngokuchasene noko kuya kuba sisikhuthazo.
Kufanelekile ukulinda umntu oqhuba ngokubonakalayo kuba efanelwe nawuphi na umntu obhinqileyo ... ofanelwe uthando oluhle noluchulumancisayo, uthando olunzulu, uthando lwakho oluqinileyo, isikhali sakho , ikhaya lakho kunye nendawo yokuhlala ivela kuzo zonke iingxaki zemihla ngemihla.
Kuyimfuneko ukulinda umntu okuqhubayo, ngenxa yokuba ungafanele uzitshintshe ", yintoni ekufuneka ndiyenzile", ndivume ezinye iimvakalelo, kwaye ungaphelelanga kuzo. Awudingi umntu okufuphi "kwiShedyuli", ongathi, ucinga ngaye, nangaphezulu, akacingi ngawe. Kufanelekile ukulinda lo mntu, kuba ukuba akukho mntu udweliswe ngasentla, kungcono ukuhlala wedwa. Kuya kufuneka ukhumbule into enye: ukuba akukho mntu okuqhubayo uyaphambana, ungabi ngumntu.