Eli nqaku libhaliwe, ikakhulu ukuze lincede abasetyhini baqonde ngakumbi amadoda. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuqonda sisiseko sokuhloniphana, kunye nolwandiso olufanayo sisiseko sothando. Ke ngoko, kweli nqaku siza kubaxelela abasetyhini malunga nendlela acinga ngayo, basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye basabela njani kwaye bephendula abantu. Ke masihambe!
1. Chaza: Ngaba loluphi uhlobo umntu wakho ahambelana nalo?
Onke amadoda anokwahlulwa kube ziindidi ezimbini. Uhlobo lokuqala lubandakanya amabhongo, abomeleleyo, abaqinisekileyo. Bayazi ukuba bathini kanye kanye ebomini, kwaye ngokuzithemba baya kwinjongo yabo. Mhlawumbi sele efezekile ebomini, kwaye ukufutshane ngenxa yesi sizathu. Amadoda anjalo ahlala echaswa, akanaluncedo, engacacanga, kodwa ayimfuneko ekuqondeni ukuba eli licala elingachanekanga lenjongo yabo.
Kwaye uhlobo lwesibini luquka amadoda athanda ukungayishiyi indawo yabo yokuthuthuzela. Zimnandi kakhulu ukulala kwi-sofa ngebhiya ibukele ibhola, ukuhlala kwikhompyuter kudlala "iitanki" kunye nabanye abadubuli, ukuphazamisa umsebenzi ongafunekiyo, kodwa umsebenzi oyimfuneko. Amadoda anjalo, njengomlawuli, akazukuyijija, akazukujikela umgca wabo, ukuzama ukwakhela. Kodwa, uya kuqalisa ukubandezeleka ekuvenisweni kwabo emva kwexesha.
TAK NJONGA NJONGA NJANI UKUZE ZENZA IZIPHUMO? Khumbula ukuba uhlobo lokuqala lwamadoda luyafuneka umama okhathalela umama, hayi intombi yakho ephukileyo, kodwa ungumncedisi. Ukuba awuyibonisi ngemfuno yakho kunye neengcebiso zakho, uya kwanelisa ngakumbi. Ukuba akukhange kubenjalo, kungekudala iya kususwa ngokupheleleyo kuwe, kwaye iya kulahla.
Kwaye ukungabi nangxaki ngohlobo lwesibini lwamadoda? Impendulo yalo mbuzo iya kuphinda inyani, kunokuba yenziwe, kuba, mfazi mncinci, kufuneka umntu onjalo.
Kodwa, emva kwako konke, ukuba awufuni ukuba nesithukuthezi, uze uzame ukungamchukumisi. Ungaphazamisi ngokudlala imidlalo kwaye ujonge ibhola. Ngandlela thile uya kukhumbula ngawe.
2. Uhlala ixesha elingakanani kubudlelwane?
Uthando luhlala iminyaka emithathu. Ewe, ewe, ngokuchanekileyo kakhulu. Eli xesha libangelwa ngokwemvelo. Iminyaka emithathu ngomhla obekiweyo oyimfuneko ekukhumbuleni umntwana, aze akhule nakwelo xesha ade akwazi ukuhamba kwaye akhupha. Ewe kunjalo, oku akunakwenzeka kuluntu lwethu, kodwa imvakalelo yethu ayikhathali kuluntu lwethu. Nokuba isibini asizange simenzakalise umntwana, yonke imvelaphi efanayo yehormonial, ngenxa yebhotolo esiswini esiswini, siqhuba emva kweminyaka emithathu yobudlelwane.Ke ngoko, ukuba emva kweminyaka emithathu emva kwentlanganiso yakho, akunakuhlangeneyo, ke, ngakumbi kakhulu, uyathobela omnye komnye. Ungayiphepha njani le meko? Apha unganika ingcebiso ezimbini.
Okokuqala, ufuna iimeko ezilungileyo ngokubanzi ukuze ube nezinto ezimbini ekufuneka uzikhumbule. A, okwesibini, kuya kufuneka udibanise uhlobo oluthile.
3. Ngaba unezinto eziqhelekileyo?
Le yeyona ngongoma ibaluleke kakhulu. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, umdla oqhelekileyo kunye nesizathu esiqhelekileyo-yintoni eza kukudibana xa imvelaphi yehomoni iyahamba, kwaye amabhabhathane aya kuyeka ukutshabalala esiswini. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba i-vasr nendoda yakho inesivumelwano esiqhelekileyo esiya kumanyanisa, kwaye ukuba indoda yakho ibhekisela kuhlobo lweendawo zomsebenzi ezifanelekileyo, unokuba ngumncedisi olungileyo. Kodwa apha ukuba akukho mdla oqhelekileyo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba emva kokuba isiphithiphithi siyahamba kwaye imvelaphi yehomoni siya kuqhuba, uya kuba yisuti yendoda yakho ngaphandle kwesiphatho ", kwaye ulambele.
Umbuzo wokupheliswa kobudlelwane kule meko kungumbandela wexesha kuphela. Rhoqo Ukubuza le mibuzo mithathu kwaye uphendule kubo ngokufanelekileyo, uya kuyiqonda kakuhle indoda yakho, nokuba ufuna olu lwalamano. Kwaye ukuba basafuneka, uya kuqonda indlela yokubenza womelele.