Nangona uthando luyimvakalelo entle ekhokelela kwimeko yolonwabo, ehamba nemvakalelo yempilo kunye ne-ecstasy, akukho nto imbi kakhulu, kwaye uninzi lwezinto zonke ziphela ngokubandezeleka. Ubomi buyekile kakhulu ukuba bawusebenzise ngokubandezeleka ngenxa yokungabikho kothando, uthando olungafanelekanga okanye uthando olungenakwenzeka.
Xa umntu ethandana, eqala ukukhohlisa, kwaye ke oko abanye: I-Oscar Wilde
Kutheni le nto unika ubomi kunye nothando lomntu omnye, ukuba yonke imihla unokuba nobukhulu bobomi, bunike bonke abantu abaqhelekileyo, abahlobo kunye nabanye abantu, bengaziva belusizi okanye lusizi okanye lusizi okanye lusizi. Ukuba umntu ucinga ngale ndlela, kufuneka azame ukufunda esona sibonelelo siphezulu semihla kwaye anikele ingqalelo kwezi klasi zilandelayo eziya kubakho ingxaki xa umntu "engena kwinethiwekhi yothando."
1. Ukuhambahamba kwihlabathi liphela
Akukho sidingo sokukhumbula umntu ukuba awukhumbule nabani na, uzive unesiphene okanye unesithukuthezi. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kungcono ukuya kwi-adventure kwezi ndawo apho bahlala befuna ukutyelela, okanye badlulisele i-backpack ngaphezulu kwegxa kunye nokuhamba "apho amehlo ejonga" ukuthintela isimangalo. Esi sesinye sezinto onokuthi uzenze ebutsheni. Ngexesha lokuhamba, unokufunda okuninzi malunga nenkcubeko, izithethe, ukutya kunye namawaka eendlela ezahlukeneyo zokucinga kwihlabathi liphela.
2. Funda iiLwimi
Ungalithatha lonke ixesha lam lesimahla ngemisebenzi ebonakalayo enyanisekileyo, engayi kunceda kuphela kwikamva, kodwa iphucula imisebenzi yengqondo nomsebenzi we-nerve. Ukufundisisa kolwimi olutsha kunokuba nzima kwaye kubonakale ngathi akukho mizamo ingenakwenzeka, kodwa ukuba wenza imizamo ethile, ingqondo iya kuqalisa ukunxulumana nokunxulumana namagama kunye namabinzana olwimi lwasemzini.
3. Ziyalele iikhosi ezihlala zifuna
Nokuba ngubani na umsebenzi okanye ubudala, ayikaze ifike kade ukufunda into entsha. Ukuba umntu unomdla kumdaniso wale mihla, ukupheka, ukucamngca ngeenkwenkwezi okanye ukucamngca nge-buddhist, kuya kufuneka abhalisele izifundo zaqalisa kwaye ekugqibeleni azame ukubangela umdla. Ukuba ekupheleni kwekhosi kuyavela ukuba inzala ayizange inyamalale, inokuphindezela ukuba umntu abuchithe ngokwenene ubomi bakhe.4. Zama umsebenzi wevolontide
Ke ngoku okwesibini siza kucinga ukuba lonke elo xesha laluchithile kubudlelwane bexesha elidlulileyo, nazo zonke iimbambano zabo kunye nokungaqondani, zinokuchitha, umzekelo, ukunceda abo bakudinga kakhulu. Umzekelo, kutheni ungabi lugqirha welizwe jikelele, unceda abantu kwihlabathi liphela okanye kwiindawo zokungqubana. Ungahamba ngokuxhasa iinkqubo zokulondolozwa kokusingqongileyo, ukubuyiselwa kwehlathi okanye isityalo esikhulayo, ukukhusela izilwanyana zasendle ezisoyikiswayo ngokunyamalala okanye ukusebenza kwimigca yokusingqongileyo.
5. Zinikele ngokupheleleyo kwizinto ozithandayo
Ngokuqinisekileyo abanye abantu bavakalelwa kukuba babenakho kakhulu kwindawo ethile, umzekelo, kwifilimu yokugxekwa kwefilimu, umculo okanye ubugcisa obubonakalayo. Kwaye oku kunjalo. Nokuba kubonakala ngathi kunzima kangakanani na, iindlela kuphela kunye nokunyamezela kunokumguqula umntu kule ngcali kuyo nayiphi na intsimi yolwazi. Kwaye kuya kuthatha ixesha elininzi, kodwa yonke into iyinyani.6. Yazi abantu abaninzi abohlukeneyo
Akukho sidingo sokuya kwelinye ilizwe ukuba lihlangane abantu abaninzi, ngalinye linendlela yalo yeengcinga, iingcinga, ingqondo, njl njl kuya kuba lula ukufumana ukuba wonke umntu lilizwe lakhe elikhethekileyo , kwaye yintoni ebophelelene nomntu onobuhlobo ngakumbi kunokuba unokucinga. Ke kuya kuba nakho ukufumana imbono enzulu neyinyani yehlabathi.
7. ukuzazi
Ivakala nje, kodwa ukwenza uhlalutyo lokwenyani kwaye lifunde ngakumbi ngawe-le yizinto eziyimfuneko malunga nokuzikholisa kuluntu lwanamhlanje. Ukwazi kwakho izinto ozithandayo, izikhombisi zakho, umdla, kunye nazo zonke izinto ezingalunganga ezichaphazela ubuntu bakho, zingancedi kuphela ukukhetha abanye abantu esifuna ukuba kunye, kodwa ekugqibeleni, bonwabe.
8. Mhlobo
Xa umntu ezifumana iqabane elisemthethweni, ubudlelwane obunobuhlobo buhlala buhlala buhleli, kwaye loo maxesha obunzima, iimvavanyo zokuzivavanya, ukuba ne-adventhes kunye ne-adventures eninzi, yiba mbalwa okanye unyamalale okanye unyamalale. Kufanelekile ukonwabela abahlobo babo, ixabiso lobuhlobo kunye nawo onke la maxesha xa unokonwaba kwaye wonwabe ngaphandle kwesidingo seqabane.
Ijika ibe nesithukuthezi - le yindlela entle yokuphila ubomi. Ke ngoko, yonke into ebomini kufuneka inyanwe njengoko injalo, kwaye zama ukufumana amaxesha eyakhayo kuyo yonke into.