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Ndifuna ukubetha intloko yakho malunga nodonga, yonke into ingabuyiselwa ngandlela thile, emva koko iqale ubomi obutsha, emva koko cwaka iphepha kwaye ufihla emangcwabeni. Iimpawu ezifanayo-kunye nento efanayo. "Hayi, ayinakubakho!" - "Obunjani ubusuku bokungabikho kokusesikweni, liliphi na ilizwe elineentloni!" "Andifuni kwakhona, ungandichukumisi ..." - "kwaye ubomi busaqhubeka" ... ... 'Ungadlula njani ukuba olu nyamakazi ngokukhawuleza - kwaye lukhusele ukhuselekile?
Galela kwaye ulibale
"Ndinekratshi, ndomelele, ndinesibindi, ndisinda," yatsho ingqondo enelizwi elibalulekileyo. Kwaye, ukuhlala wedwa, kuqhuma. Ndifuna ukubaleka ndikhwaze, kodwa ngubani? Mama, ukuba akatsho ukuba "wayesoloko etshilo," uya kuqwalasela ngentsingiselo. Oodade banesithukuthela somntwana, ngokucacileyo asindim. Intombi inenkwenkwe entsha, mhlawumbi ayinakuphakama kum. Kwaye kwaphela, andifuni ukulayisha wonke umntu ngeengxaki zakho ... ubuyela eGronan Captain! Oko kukuthi, ukubuya nengqondo yeblown. Ngoku akufuneka njani ukuba uthethe lonke uhlaselo luphela. Yenza kwakhona iinkcukacha kunye neenkcukacha, kuphuhliso kwaye umphumo ... ukwenzela ukukhululeka. Ke musa ukungahoyi iindibano zobuhlobo. Eyona nto inokwenzeka, ukulungele ukumamela - kwaye ubuncinci uvele. Kwaye yazise umbono wakho oqinisekileyo ukuba uyibhokhwe nje. Ukuba ungqinile kufutshane kakhulu umamele okwethutyana kanye - ndisaqhuba ngelixa idayari. Akayi kuba nako ukubetha intloko aze athi: "Intombazana ehlwempuzekileyo", kodwa ke inokutshiswa okanye isuswe. Olu lunyango olumangalisayo oluqwalaselwe ngoochwephesha behlabathi liphela.I-Derry Sweech
Oko kukuthi, khumbula yonke into ayibamzisile, ayizange ivume okanye izenze - kuba yayingonwabanga. Okanye ayithandi. Okanye awunalo ixesha lokupheka kunye nokupheka kweboor yakhe abayithandayo. Umzekelo, uSalsa ("Yile nto, ngamadoda athile apho uya kuyiguqula iesile lakho ukuba litshintshe ?!"). Okanye ukubetha nge-Finland ("ndineprojekthi ebalulekileyo, kwaye andizukuvumela ukuba uhambe!"). Okanye ukukhwela ("uyintombazana! Ndingathanda i-crochet yomgqomo"). Ngoku ifikile - emva koko ixesha elizinzileyo xa uzibuyisela zonke ezi zithuthululo kunye nokuzibamba! Ngoku zonke izibonelelo, iibhonasi kunye neepipi zelizwe lakho elitsha ziluncedo kakhulu - ukuziva ngathi ayilodwa ", kodwa kuko konke" mahala ".
Nika impilo
Kwimpilo yakhe, ngoku ifuna ingqalelo engaphezulu kancinci. Kungenxa yokuba emva koxinzelelo olukhawulezileyo olukhawulezileyo, xa umzimba ujikeleza kwaye ulibale ukuba ungakopeli, kodwa ude utye - iziphumo. Inguqu yoxinzelelo kwisifo esinganyangekiyo, "ukubuyela umva", ukuthoba iintlobo ngeentlobo zeziloreyiti apho, emva koko. Ukuze ingafakwanga, musa ukufumana amanqaku kuyo. Jonga kunye nokuthintela kuya kwangaxeshanye kuya kuthatha ixesha onokuthi ulichithe ekubetha kwentloko eludongeni. Jonga nje ukungachaphazeli ezinye izinto ezigqithisileyo - i-hypochondria, ukungaqiniseki kunye nokujonga kwicawe nganye. Ukuba ucelomngeni onjalo lwenzeka, ukutshintshelwa okwethutyana kumhlathi 1 (intombi ngenyaniso) kunye nesiqendu 2 (salsa nge-brunette entle) iya kunceda.Ukhathalelo lomntu
Akukho nkqubo ifunekayo engaqhelekanga kunangaphambili. Kodwa ke eyona nto iphambili ayikukhethi ukufakelwa okungalunganga. Yintoni ufakelo olungalunganga? "Kwaye kanye xa athe wadibana nam, wonke umntu okhuthaziweyo kwaye engacacanga, kwaye nam ndinjalo ngamashiya umbala omtsha! Kunye ne-exoshes yomthunzi omtsha! Kwaye ngo-80% yemozulu ephuculweyo yolusu, kunye neenwele ezinamandla ngaphandle kwengcebiso enye! " Hayi, mntwana, hayi. Okokuqala, awulibali ukuba utshintsho kumagqwirha awakwaziyo ukuba nakuphi na ukubona ukuba inkathalo yabo epheleleyo ebusweni bomfazi. (Kunye nombuzo ...) Okwesibini, uyalibala ukujonga konke. Uyayenza ukuze uzive ulungile. Ewe, kwimeko enjalo, ngamanye amaxesha intloko ihlamba amandla ayo nayiphi na inyoka - ayisiyo le nto ukuba yenziwe. Kodwa ngentloko ecocekileyo kunye ne-manicure, uya kutsala ngaphezulu kwamandla e-QI. Oko kukuthi, ulonwabo. Fair.
Ishishini elingakumbi!
Ixesha lokubetha intloko yakho malunga nodonga, kufuneka uzishiye ubuncinci. Kwaye xa uhlala ekhaya, uya kuyenza. Iqinisekisiwe. I-elektroniki. Kunye noogxa bakho njengorhulumente. Ke nokuba ufuna ukulala kuphela kwisofa kwaye ungafumani, kusafuneka wenze ijezi, ufike isidumbu, upenda i-elassies epeyinta kwaye uphume ebantwini. Zonke iintlobo zomsebenzi kuwe ngoku-njengamayeza obukrakra. Ewe, ilukhuni, ewe, iyacekiseka. Kodwa ngokuthe ngcembe uyanceda. Omnye wemisebenzi enokubakho ebanzi yiqela lomsebenzi. Kodwa kunqweneleka ukunganxibi kwaye kuthathe imikhosi yokugqibela. Kwaye ezinye iiprojekthi ezinomdla - zokuthandabuza, zitshixiwe, zihlala.Ukutshintsha kwemifanekiso
Iluncedo kangangexesha elithile lokuphuma kwimeko yesiqhelo kwaye ingene engaqhelekanga. Ewe siyazi ukuba kunzima ngakumbi ukuyiqhuba ngempelaveki yesixeko-kwanokuba nzima ngakumbi ukuya kwi-cosmetics kunye ne-cafe akufutshane. Kodwa ukuba kuyavela, iya kuba yeyona nto iphambili. Kuya kufuneka ukuba uqalise kwakhona kwaye uhlale kuzo zodonga kunye ne-alleys ethi icule ingoma "Yonke into ikhumbuza" kunye nenqanawa engenathemba. Yizani kubahlobo besixeko. Isilumkiso sokunika izikhonkwane zomlingo kwaye zizingisa ebusweni babo, kungenjalo ngoku uyibhaluni evuthuza. Bayakuqonda, baya kunceda. Uhambo olunye okanye ukuhamba kwindawo "yendawo yobuqu" - nesihloko esikhulu. Yima kwinduli engaphezulu kwePanorama yobuthixo, ubona ukutshona kwelanga - kwaye ngequbuliso ucofe! Uyaqonda ukuba uyibhokhwe nje. Kwaye ubomi buzayo. Okanye enye into. Ingqondo-into engaqhelekanga, xa iceliwe ayisoloko injalo. Kodwa ukuba uyazama, uza. Ukuba usonga ii-paws kwaye ungazami, ayifiki.
Funa i-psychologist
Abafazi, i-hiprocratic, abayoyiki le rhamncwa, njengamadoda - apho kuphela i-proctologist kuphela eyoyikekayo. Ukuba imikhosi yesiphumo, ayifuni ukuphuma okanye iphume, kodwa ikwanele umqamelo, kwaye iyolula ixesha elide kwaye iyamangalisa - zama ukoyisa imali encinci "kunye" Ewe, andazi ukuba ukhetha ntoni. " Ngokombuzo wokuqala-sele ugcine kumacandelo e-borscht yakhe ethandekayo, gcina kwizidumbu kunye nemali mboleko kwintombazana leyo. Unomdla ngakumbi kuye. Kwisibini-cebisa ngokuqhelana. Uya kumangaliswa, kodwa uninzi lwabo abangacingi nokucinga ngale nto, babe ngotshintsho lwengqondo olunzima-kwaye bakhutshwa ngoncedo lwento elungileyo. I-Alles kukuba ngamanye amaxesha ingcali yakhe ayifumani kwakokokuqala. Kodwa ukuba uyazama izihlandlo ezininzi, iya kuba.
Sukuqhuba amahashe
Kwimeko yokudakumba, abantu bahlala berhalela ukuya kwizinto ezimbini ezigqithileyo. Inye into ebizwa ngokuba "Akukho mntu akasayi kuphinda andithande, kwaye andiyi kumthanda nabani na, ubomi bam bonke ndiza kuba ndedwa, kubudala beglasi." Okwesibini - "Ngoku ndiza kuyiphosa le phepha lemibuzo - kwaye ngomso ndiza kuba nendoda emangalisayo ... ubuncinci, kodwa nikezela ngaphezulu." Kude kube kufuneka ngokukhawuleza ukhawuleze ukuba ungxame kubudlelwane obutsha. Kufuneka sazi nje ukuba baya kuthini ngokuqinisekileyo. Kuba kufanelekile oko. Kuba ulibele okwethutyana ukuba uyamangalisa. Kodwa kuncinci emehlweni- kwaye umntu onqwenelekayo kwaye wenza amachaphaza-ayizange ibe. Zinike izinyo.Sukuthemba i-euphoria
Ngamaxesha athile, amarhanisi amancinci amancinci enkululeko yenzeka kuxinzelelo olungaphambili. Kwaye unjengale: "Owu, ilanga likhanya, ndiphilile, ndiphilise, ukuba lihle kangakanani eli lizwe, liya kuhlala lilula kakhulu!" Ke ngokuhlwa yile: "Luhlobo luni lobumnyama, onke amatayara, i-cicts ndiyaphila ngoku! .." "" inguNaphakade neyokugqibela. Jonga nje, uphefumle, linda. Kungenxa yokuba ixesha elithile liya kuba 'litshingile' elijija ekuphelelwe lithemba ngethemba. Iphethini enjalo. Kufuneka siphile.
Kholelwa kuwe
Ewe, urhulumente "ndingumbhobho weenwele, Mandiyeke ityhefu" iya kubuya. Kodwa ayikho ngonaphakade. Unako konke. Ubukrelekrele. Yinyani leyo. Kholwa thina. Sasilapho. Ibhiya yobusi isela. Kwaye ngoku - kwiglasi ye-OSAM, ifundise into, ubomi buya kuzisa izinto ezintsha. Ngamaxesha athile nakwindlela yamadoda amatsha. Kodwa oku sele njengoko besitsho kwiintsomi, elinye ibali.