Ulumkise amaxesha amaninzi ekuphupheni. Kwaye nangaphezulu, ukuze aphuphe nge-Eboding yamaphupha. Kuba sisidenge, siyingozi kwaye siqinisekisiwe ukuba sisetyenziswe phantsi kwethambeka lobomi obusezantsi kwimizamo yentaka engenasiqhamo ukubamba intaka eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Kwaye intombazana egama lingu-ESON ikuxelela: phupha, kwaye ndiza kukufundisa indlela yokuphuphuma kwamaphupha. Kwincwadi yakhe "phakathi kwemfuneko kwaye ndifuna" (ukupapasha intsomi).
Phantsi kwekhava-Imifanekiso yeLungelo lokushicilela, amaXhobo ekhuthaza, iingcebiso eziluncedo kunye nokuzilolonga kwabo bafuna ukufumana umsebenzi wabo.Umsebenzi onobunewunewu Umsebenzi
Ngaphambili, iNyanga isebenza njengomyili kwinkampani edumileyo ye-windows, ithathe inxaxheba kwiiprojekthi eziphumeleleyo, ithathe inxaxheba kwi-Startups ephumeleleyo njengebhokisi yeposi, i-Uber kunye ne-Uber kunye ne-Uber. Kodwa yonke le nto ayizange iphinde imzisene. Intombazana yaziva ukuba ifuna into engaphezulu komsebenzi olungileyo.
Kanye, inyanga ye-El yagqiba kwelokuba itshintshe kakhulu ubomi bayo. Wagxotha emsebenzini, waqala wazoba nayo. Okwesihlandlo sokuqala, le ntombazana yaziva ikhululekile kwaye yonwabile. Kungekudala umculi wavula eyakho inkampani, engu-United Euroul Eurol Euroune kunye neenkosi kwi-bali ukuya kwi-bali.
I-El YOLY ilandele iphupha, yafumana ubizo lwayo kwaye yakwazi ukuguqula umsebenzi ukuba ulonwabo. Oku kwavela ukuba kwanele ebomini ukufumana imibala eqaqambileyo kunye nentsingiselo enzulu. Ke umzobi wavula ifihlakalo yolonwabo: Ufuna ukwenza into oyithandayo, ikholekisa kwaye ikhuthaze kwaye ihlawule amandla.
Ngokutsho kwenyanga ye-El, umntu ngamnye unenjongo ekhethekileyo. Kuyimfuneko kuphela ukuzama ukuyifumana. Kwaye, ewe, yenza isigqibo ngotshintsho.
Ifuna i-vs. Funa
"Udinga ...", "Awudingi ...", "kufuneka ...". Siva izityholo ezinjalo kwabanye rhoqo. Kodwa ukuba ebuntwaneni kufuneka ngokwenene kufuneka simamele la mazwi, ngoku baphazamisa kuphela ukukhangela indlela yabo kulonwabo.
I-stereotypes ezininzi, iinkqubo zabanye abantu, ukulindela abantu ababathandayo- zonke ezi zinto zihlala ngokuqinileyo entloko. Kwaye ngokwenene sicinga ukuba banyanzelekile ukuba bafumane ubudlelane bokuthembisa, oko kusibangela i-Intenan Yawn; yiya eofisini, nokuba ntsasa nganye uphupha ukuze uyeke; Thatha usapho ukuya kwiminyaka engama-30, ngaphandle komnqweno wokuhlala simahla.
Ekuphela kwendlela kukushiya ezi "kuyimfuneko" kwaye uqonde amaphupha akho kunye neminqweno yakho, iitalente kunye notyekelo, iinkolelo kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka. Ungubani enyanisweni? Ingaba ufuna ntoni? Yintoni ekuchukumisayo? Kuphela kwindlela oyiphendula ngayo le mibuzo kufanele ukuba ubomi bakho obungakumbi.
I-EL yenyanga inikezela ukwenza umthambo oza kunceda ukuwela yonke into kakhulu kwaye ifumane inyani. Nazi ezinye zazo.
1. Bhala izindululo ezingakumbi eziqala ngamagama athi "Ndidinga ..." kwaye "andifuni ...". Cinga ngesiphumo. Kutheni le nto ezi ngcinga zingena entlokweni yakho? Uza kuthatha nini na kwaye impembelelo kabani ogqiba kwelokuba yonke le misebenzi ifanele yenze? Ngaba ufuna ukuyenza?
2.Sochin ezimbini ze-necrologists ngokwabo. Kwenye yazo, ndixelele ukuba ubomi bakho budlula njani, ukuba ushiya yonke into ngaphandle kotshintsho. Kwelinye itekisi, chaza into eya kwenzeka ukuba uqala ngokuphila ngokwe "funa" umgaqo "wokufezekisa iminqweno yakho kwaye wenze into oyithandayo.
3. Phendula le mibuzo ilandelayo. Ufumene ntoni ukuthanda kwakhe? Bubuphi ubomi obuphuphumayo? Ngaba ukhe wangena kuwo umoya? Yeyiphi imidlalo oyithandayo? Ukhethe njani ukuchitha ixesha: kwinkampani okanye yedwa?
4. Cinga kunokuba uthanda ukwenza ngoku. Yintoni othanda ukuchitha impelaveki, iholide, ngokuhlwa simahla? Uphazanyiswa yintoni xa ubhengeza?
5. Ukuba ngamanye amaxesha cinga ngekamva lakho, yeyiphi i-vontaasies ikukhuthaza? Bhala zonke izimvo eziza engqondweni.
6. Ixesha elide ndiphupha ndikufunda okuthile, kodwa andikwazi ukudibana? Lixesha lokuba unqwenela inyani. Yenza uluhlu lwamatyala: qinisa isiFrentshi, yiya kubasika kunye nokuthunga izifundo, ukukhwela ukukhulula njalo njalo. Inyanga nenyanga zama into entsha. Rekhoda into ekufuneka uyenzile ngomphefumlo, kwaye yintoni.
7. Qokelela amanqaku okubangelwe kwindawo enye. Ngokuthe ngcembe ihambelana nokuqokelelwa kweerekhodi ezintsha. Ukuhlalutya, ukukhangela unxibelelwano kunye neenjongo eziqhelekileyo. Ngenye imini, yonke le nto iya kukukhokelela kumsebenzi wakho.
Izizathu vs. Ukuphefumlelwa
Fumana umnxeba awungengabo bonke. Kwinqanaba elilandelayo kuya kufuneka woyise uloyiko lwakho. Ngokuka-El YONYAKA, akukho zizathu zokushiya ishishini lakhe elithandekayo. Nazi izizathu ezibini eziqhelekileyo ekulula ukuzicel'umngeni.
Nye. "Inkanuko yam ayizisi mali." Kodwa akukho mntu uthi ufanele ukuyeka umsebenzi, ngakumbi ukuba ukuza kuthi ga ngoku eli kuphela kwethuba lokufumana. Eyona nto iphambili kukufumana ixesha lento oyithandayo yonke imihla. Ukuba kuyakhuthaza ngokwenene, ngenye imini uya kuphumelela kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo, funda ukufunyanwa kwengeniso kumsebenzi wakho.
I-cuphin edumileyo iGhilip Iglasi isebenze ngeplumbe, kwaye yafumana umvuzo wokuqala kumsebenzi wakhe kwiminyaka engama-41. Umbhali uKurt Vonnegut uthengisa iimoto. Omnye umbhali, uThomas Liot, wayengumsebenzi wasebhankini. Kodwa akukho namnye kubo ophosa into oyithandayo.
2. Andinalo ixesha. " Njengommiselo, ixesha, sisebenzisa nje ukungaveli. Phantse rhoqo ngempelaveki, ikhefu emsebenzini, ngokuhlwa simahla, iholide, njalo njalo. Ukuba ukhuphele ngokwenene ukuba awunalo ixesha lokwenza into oyithandayo, jonga indawo apho inikwa ishedyuli embalwa. Unokuvumelana nomvuzo omncinci, kuba sihlala sifuna ngaphezulu koko sikufunayo. Khumbula: Umsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu.
Yintoni enye phantsi kwesiciko?
-Ngoko imithambo eluncedo ngakumbi eya kunceda ukwahlula "ndifuna" ukusuka "," ukujongana noloyiko kwaye ufumane indlela yakho.
Amabali malunga nabantu abafumene ubizo lwabo, oluya kukhuthaza utshintsho.
-Imifanekiso eqingqiweyo kwi-El YONYA. Ngabo abawenza le ncwadi ngokumangalisayo kwaye kuyakhuthaza. Kumnandi ukungafundanga kuphela, kodwa nokucinga.
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