I-Pavel Zygmantantich: Kutheni kungabikho mntu ufuna ukuqalwa kwendoda

I-Vkontakte's loluntu liqinisekile ukuba abaninzi (ukuba ayizizo zonke) iingxaki zale mihla zisenzeka ngenxa yokunqongophala kwaba bantu baninzi.

"Ingaba ndingathini? Phambi kwethu, umzekeliso omangalisayo ngegama elithi "ulivile ukutshaya, kodwa andazi ukuba uphi," watsho uPavel Paves Zygmanvich.

Ngamafutshane, chaza ziphosakele.

Imbali yembali

Masiqale eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu. I-RIITHS yokuqalisa kwifom emsulwa ifumaneka kuphela kubazingeli.

Kukwizizwe ezinjalo kukho umjikelo opheleleyo-ukugculelwa okhethekileyo, ukuvezwa kwehlathi ehlathini, ukuphosa ilali elikhethekileyo, ukuthobela, ukubethwa, ukuphuma ngokuxelisa abathunywa , uvavanyo lomlilo okanye oluchasene negama elidala kwaye ufumane igama elitsha njalo njalo.

Akukho nto injalo phakathi kwabantu kwezolimo. Apho abaqokeleli bawavuma ngokwenene amakhwenkwe abo okwishumi elivisayo, izizwe zezolimo ziwathula ngamanzi okanye nje kuKunali amaxesha ambalwa.

Endaweni yomlilo-ukhuselwe. Endaweni yokutshutshiswa-ukuntywila kwesiko okanye ulwaluko.

Ngapha koko, kukho iphethini ecacileyo - ukuphakama kwenqanaba lokuphuhliswa kwabantu, okungasasebenziyo ukusuka ekuqaliseni, igazi elincinci liba.

Kutheni kunjalo?

Kutheni ufuna ukuqalwa

Emva kokuqalwa kwabaqokeleli, amakhwenkwe yaba ngamalungu emibutho yabasebenzi, angaphila kwindlu yendoda (kusekho ezinye izizwe zasePolynesia zigcinwe).

Ukuba lilungu lomanyano, inkwenkwe ifumene uxanduva, kwaye kunye nabo - kunye namalungelo athile (umzekelo, unokutshata). Kodwa umsebenzi ophambili wokuqalisa yayingekukuqaliswa kwenkwenkwe kulo manyano. Kungenxa yesinye isiphumo (esingqinwa yinyani esihlekisayo - kwezinye izizwe ezenziweyo, amanyathelo athile asele efumene, esele eneentsapho ezimalunga namashumi amane, esele eneentsapho kunye nabantwana).

Owona msebenzi ophambili wokuqalisa yayingumbane wemilingo yamandla omlingo - ithamsanqa elihle kwilinge.

Kungenxa yoko le nto ukuqalwa kwakhiwe njengohambo kwihlabathi lokufa - intlanganiso kunye nokubuya kwabafileyo kwathiwa inkwenkwe, ukuba nethamsanqa kwakuhlawulwe ngokubandezeleka negazi. Ngendlela, malunga neepesenti ezilishumi zamakhwenkwe khange afumane ukuqalwa - ukusweleka ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo.

Ngokuphuhliswa kwempucuko kunye notshintsho kwezolimo, ithamsanqa lomntu lingabalulekanga, kwaye ukuqalwa kwenziwe kabukhali isikhundla esiphelileyo, sisanda kube sebusweni.

Ilizwe lanamhlanje

Kwilizwe lanamhlanje, ukuqalwa akunakwenzeka - akukho, okokuqala, le nkqubo. Ukuba ii-SLAvs zamandulo zinenkwenkwe emva kweposi edla ngokuguqulelwa kwiBabi Kuta ukuya kwintsimi jikelele, ke ayinakwenzeka kumagumbi okuba. Ukungasakhankanyi ukutshintsha kwegama-kuyinto engaqondakaliyo.

Okanye apha - kwiilali ezincinci zabaqokeleli okanye abaqokeleli okanye abalimi bonke babesazi ukuba le yayilokuqalwa koku, kwaye ngoku uvela kwi-Babi kabi kut "). Kwisixeko sanamhlanje akunakwenzeka - ngenxa yezizathu ezicacileyo.

Oku kubandakanya uxinzelelo lwentlalo-abaqokeleli abazizingeli abaphumi ukuqalwa, inkwenkwe ayikwazanga. Kwakuyintloni, ekungekho nto inokwenzeka kuyo. Kodwa sele phakathi kwabalimi, isimo sengqondo sokuqalisa saqala ukutshintsha- ngoku abantu abaninzi bamjonga njengabasebenzi abangenantsingiselo yabantwana (ebangela ukwehla okuqinileyo kwi-ream yokuqalisa).

Kunye nempucuko engaphezulu ephuhlisiweyo, isidingo esincinci sokuqina sahlala.

Kuyavela, ukuqalwa kweLizwe lanamhlanje akunakwenzeka. Okokuqala, ngobuchwephesha.

Nakumgca wesibini - ayifuneki nje.

Yintoni ingxaki?

Ubunzima bamadoda bale mihla ayikho konke konke abangaqaliswanga. Kwiminyaka emakhulu amathathu eyadlulayo, yayingengabo bonke abantu bedolophu, kodwa ngandlela thile azizange zikhathaze. Injani imeko?

Isizathu sokuqhekeza - umfanekiso wesintu owesikisi owile (okanye, ukuba uyathanda, ubudoda).

Kuluntu kwiklasi nganye kukho eyakho, ngakumbi okanye engacacanga 'indoda yokwenene. " Umlingani kufuneka unje, umbingeleli ngoonobumba onjalo. Yonke into icacile, yonke into ingaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi ngokupheleleyo, akukho ziphikiso okhethekileyo.

Ngoku yonke into itshintshile.

Ngoku sinemifanekiso emininzi eyahlukileyo (ukuba uchanekile - imilinganiselo yendima eyindoda, jonga imisebenzi ye-thompson ne-Plekka). Le mifanekiso ihlala iphikisana kwaye amadoda anamhlanje abe nobunzima obukhulu xa bezama ukudibana nayo yonke imilinganiselo yendima eyindoda azaziwa ngaba bantu.

Umzekelo, uqhelene "ufumana imali eninzi" ngexesha ingene kwikliniki ngesiqhelo "Yiba nguBawo Olungileyo" - emva kwayo yonke loo nto, umsebenzi othatha ixesha, kwaye abantwana bafuna ixesha, kwaye abantwana bafuna ixesha, kwaye abantwana bafuna ixesha, kwaye abantwana bafuna ixesha, kwaye abantwana bafuna ixesha, kwaye abantwana bafuna ixesha. Kwaye emva kwemini kukho iiyure ezingamashumi amabini anesine. Kufuneka ukhethe into.

Ngokubanzi, amadoda ahlanganisa amalungu kwaye azama ukufumana uhlobo oluthile lomfanekiso ochanekileyo. Kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuyifumana - imilinganiselo ephikisayo kakhulu yendima eyindoda ifumaneka ngoku kuluntu lwethu.

Uphi usindiso?

Ngapha koko, umfanekiso ochanekileyo ngumntu onyulu. Akunakwenzeka ukufumana uhlobo oluthile lomfanekiso ofanayo wendoda elungileyo. Akunakwenzeka ukuba uthi umntu ofanelekileyo uyayithanda ibhola, kwaye ngoobani abathanda iFlowristry - botanies baphelile. Umntu unomdla kakhulu kunalo naluphi na uphawu.

Ngamafutshane, "unokuba yindoda encinci kwaye ucinge malunga nezikhonkwane" (ngendlela, qaphela ukuba kwinqanaba lokutshatyalaliswa kombutho weklasi, xa i-tyokin isebenza, ingxaki yokuphikisana nemilinganiselo ye Indima yendoda yayisele iqaqambile ekukhuleni ngokupheleleyo).

Ngaphezu koko. Ixesha elide, phakathi kwesayensi, amagama anjenge "neempawu ezingamadoda" kunye "neempawu zabasetyhini" abaphelelwa. Ngoku kuyinto yesiko ukuba uthethe ngezakhono zokusebenza kunye nezakhono zokuchaza.

Ngaphantsi kwezakhono zesixhobo zezakhono ezinxulumene nokusombulula iingxaki (ngengqondo ebanzi). Kwaye phantsi kwezakhono zokubonakalisa ukubonakaliswa-inkxalabo yabantu (kwakhona-ngengqondo ebanzi).

Ngokucacileyo, indoda iyavakala ngokwakho zombini amaqela ezakhono - iphucula nje umgangatho wobomi bakhe, yenza ukuba isebenze ngakumbi. Kodwa indlela yokufakelwa kwezi zakhono zinokunyulwa ngokupheleleyo ngokuzimeleyo.

Apho, apho umntu uya kufuneka ahlale khona kwaye kufuneka ucinge ngale ngxaki, owesibini uya kuba lula ukuthambisa kwaye ungxame uye edabini, uhlwayela intloko. Akukho namnye okanye omnye abe ngamadoda angaphezulu okanye amancinci. Into ephambili- basombulula ingxaki.

Ngokufanayo, malunga nokubonakalisa. Inye indoda mayiphulaphule ngenyameko kwaye igalele iti, kwaye eyesibini iphosa intloko kunye neengqekembe: "Ndiyakholelwa ukuba unokuhlangabezana nale meko." Akukho enye engakhange ingaziphatha ngendlela yabo okanye ngaphantsi kwamadoda. Into ephambili- babonisa ukhathalelo.

Kwaye ukuba abayisombululeki ingxaki kwaye abakhathali abanye abantu, ke sinengxaki yokuzala, hayi imilinganiselo yendima eyindoda. Ngamanye amagama, kwiimeko ezinjalo ingxaki ayisiyonto ayonelanga. Ingxaki kukuba akamdala ngokwaneleyo.

Shwankathela

Akukho ndoda ndoda kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, kwaye alinakubakho. Lo mfana uba yindoda engeyiyo nayiphi na inkqubo, kodwa ngenxa yokuphuhliswa okuqhubekayo kwemisebenzi yabantu abadala kunye nabantu abadala abanxulumana nabo. Umfanekiso wobudoda ngoku ube ngumntu omntu omkhulu, kwaye loo madoda aqondayo oku kuhlala kakuhle ngaphandle kweengxaki ezithile. Ukuba indoda izama ukudibanisa imilinganiselo ephikisayo yendima eyindoda, ngokungathandabuzekiyo iwele kwimbambano yokudlala ngendima, ethatyathwe njengeziphumo ezahlukeneyo ezingathandekiyo (ukuya kuhlaselo lwentliziyo). Yenza umfanekiso wakho we-masculinety - eyona nto iphambili kukuba senze ubomi bakho bube ngcono, kwaye akubi. Le kuphela komgangatho ofanelekileyo ofanelekileyo.

Kwaye ndinayo yonke into, enkosi ngengqwalaselo yakho.

Umthombo wombhalo: I-Pavlo Zygmantovich ye-PSCHOVlogist