Ezi zixhobo zakho ze-Intanethi zigcwele amanqaku akwisihloko esithi "Indlela yokusinda kwiNgqomoni" engaphezulu nje ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa onke la manqaku ngenxa yesizathu esithile sithatha utshintsho lwamadoda. Ngeli xesha, amantombazana angenasiphoso angenazi ukuba uluxabisa njani uthando lokwenene lwabantu kwaye naye unako ukuphoxekile kwaye ngengozi awenzele ngengozi izihlandlo ezisibhozo.
Kwaye abafana ngelishwa bahlala nje kuphela entliziyweni, kodwa bangento yanto kuGoogle - akukho mntu ubanika ii-psychotherapy kwi-intanethi. Endaweni yoko, andikhange ndinikezele. Kulungile ukuba sinjalo, Pics.ru.Ke, wakutshintshe, umhlaba wawa, uhlala, uvaliwe esitulweni, kwaye, ujongeka ngathi yinyembezi ekrakra ukusuka kwi-bristles ye veki, ukuqaqambisa i-albhamu ye-albhamu ye-ALBUM, ungayithandi? Kulungile.
Masiqhubeke. Iseshoni yethu yonyango lwamanxeba engqondo iya kuba ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: Siza kuthatha ingcebiso ukuba i-Psyfundogists eyenzeka kwiwebhu yehlabathi inika amantombazana, kwaye ilungelelanise ezi ngcebiso kubantu abaneenwele esifubeni. Kwaye amantombazana avala ngeli phepha aya kuba nakho ukuqikelela umgangatho weengcebiso ezikhokelwa xa inqanaba lezinto ezinobungqina lifuna ukuya kwi-Kelvin.
1. Sukutshintsha kwimpindezelo
Igama lezengqondo: "Uthando lokwenene xa uzinikezela lunakho ukugubungela ububi bomnye umntu, lunokuba lukhuni, uthando olunomdla olubona okuhle. Xa umntu enothando lokwenyani, alusoze lutshintshelwe, aliyi kukhangela i-surrogate. "
Uyiqonda i-dude? Apha le nto ilula kakhulu: Ukuba uyayitshintsha, ke awuzange umthande. Yaba njalo. I-Psychology yisayensi ye-Psychology, akukho nto iya kwenzeka ilize.
2. Yiba
I-PSCHOLOLOGIST: "Emva kovavanyo, i-squabble kunye ne-discord ihlala iqala. Kuyimfuneko ukufumana imikhosi yabaphethe kakuhle, ukuba ingangxami ngomsindo, isityholo nesingcikivwa. Kwezi zityholo, abantu babulala uthando lwabo. "Oko kukuthi, ukuba uthi umntu onesikhuselo abe nguGuy Viper, emva koko uya kubulala uthando lwakho. Ewe uyabulala. I-WHO?
3. Flit
Ilizwi kwi-psychologist: "Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uqonde amandla okuqonda enye kumzuzu onzima wesilingo, ukuba ungagwebi, kutheni umntu enikezela, kutheni umntu enza buthathaka kwaye emnike uncedo kwaye wamnceda Inkxaso yobuhlobo. "
Ewe, yonke into ilula apha: uthenga iintyatyambo kunye ne-champagne. Kuba kunzima, wabuthathaka, unomzuzu onzima wesilingo. Udinga ukuhlamba kunye ne-jam, jazz kunye neembatyisi ezikhanyayo.
4. Ukuqala ngokwakho (into endiyithandayo)
ILizwi libanga lezengqondo: "Ukuba singcatshayo, sihlala sitya ntoni kuwe."Ngokuqinisekileyo! Phuhlisa! Funda iincwadi! Jonga i-almodovar! Ilahleko! Kwaye uzithengele, ekugqibeleni, iipaneli ezimnyama zosapho. Uya kuyeka kwangoko ukutshintsha, i-INDA-146%.
5. Khumbula ukuba usendleleni eya empumelelweni
Ungathembi?
Igama le-psychologist: "Ukuba uyakoyisa ngoku, ke hule ukuya kwinyathelo elitsha ubudlelwane bakho."
Amanyathelo ... Izitrato! Ngokubanzi, apha nawe, iChampagne iya kulunga. Kwaye xa ukrokrela ukuba uyabuza, kutheni le nto ungayiphendula injalo, ngenkalipho wayiphendula into oyiya kwindawo entsha, xolela iNkosi, inyathelo lolwalamano lwakho, kwaye lufanele ukuqatshelwa.
6. Yibani nemihlali ngolindelo lokuvula kweliso lesithathu
ILizwi sisiseko sengqondo: "Iimeko apho siwela khona, zinzima kakhulu, azinangqondo kwaye zizenzele into. Vula ubunzulu obungaziwayo kwaye ubancome. "Kuyacaca ukuba ukuba ayikutshintshi, kubalulekile ukuba uyenze ngandlel 'ithile. Umdlalo ubonakala ngathi uyikhandlela.
7. Musa ukulibala ukuba ngubani na oyinja embi apha
Igama le-psychologist: "Nguwe owavumela imeko ukuba yenzeke. Yayinguwe onike ikhadi lomngcatshi. Yayinguwe owayethembele! Wena, kwaye ayinguye omnye umntu ovumele ukuba uqhekeze intembelo yakho. "
Ewe, ukunqunyulwa sele le thambo, i-cati nganye yomsila.
Ewe, ukuze ngandlela ithile idlulisela intsebenzo yethu, siya kunika neengcebiso. Ayinamsebenzi-uyintombazana okanye inkwenkwe: ukuba ungcatshwe - usike. Ngobusuku, kwiqabaka, ukuhamba, njengawe. Emva koko ukuxolela, kwiminyaka engamashumi amabini, sele enolunye usapho kunye nabazukulwana. Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo le ngcebiso zibi. Asiyongcali yengqondo.
I-P.S. Abahleli abathandekayo, kodwa awukwazi ukubeka igama lam phantsi kweli nqaku? Kwaye ke indoda iza kucinga ntoni, kwaye andithandi ukuba kwaphela, ndinyuke ndenza isihloko, kuba undihlawula.
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