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Iqabaza yabasetyhini
Izizathu zokuphoxeka komfazi zichazwe ngelinye lamabali amathathu:1) Inenekazi eliselula elinencwadi.
2) Inenekazi nenja.
3) Umfazi ngeekati.
Inenekazi eliselula elinayo incwadi
Ngubani ocinga ukuba ukho: ukumkanikazi we-Elves, uMatron waseRoma, ubuhle bokuqala kwiNkundla yeLouis, ayibalulekanga. Eyona nto iphambili kukuba umfanekiso wakhe wokwenyani ubonakala kuye ukuze uboshwe kakhulu ukuze ujongane kwaye uyinike umhlaba. Akamhle kangangokuba angathanda, kwaye ngoku ngokubanzi ibonakala yahlukile, ayihlali apho, hayi ngelo xesha hayi ngelo xesha hayi. Akanamdla wokuhlala kulusu lwakhe, kwaye le yingxaki yakhe.
Xa iintombi (okanye umama) mxelele ukuba kuya kuba kumnandi ukufumana umntu, uyancwina okanye owile. Thandabuza ukhangela umfo ngokwakhe njengoko kunjalo. Kwaye nokuba umntu ngokwakhe, uyathandabuza ukunxibelelana. Akanomdla ngaphakathi kwakhe kwaye anike abantu abanjalo abafuni. Naliphi na ibali eliya kuphuma ngale ndlela, kubonakala ngathi kubonakala ngathi kuyatyumza, kutyibilika, ukubola. Unomdla wokuphila kwimizimba yeencwadi ze-ncwadi, ngamanye amaxesha kwimizimba yeqhawe lemidlalo ye-serial okanye yekhompyuter.
Zonke ezi zinto 'zenekazi elincinci elinencwadi ", kwaoko nje lwanamhlanje. Kwenzeka ukuba le ntokazi yayingenjalo ngaphambili, ide ithande, kodwa emva koko yaphulukana nayo.
Ungasebenza njani ngokudandatheka? Umfazi onjalo unezixhasi zayo (izibonelelo), yiyo yonke loo nto, yiyo loo nto iqhubeka kubomi benene kwihlabathi lamaphupha, liza nobomi obufanayo, iyayithanda yonke, loo nto Ngaba bakhonza). Kodwa ngaphandle kokuxhalaba ngezixhobo kunye nolawulo lwendawo, le yingxaki yomfanekiso. Inenekazi elingelolingaphandle lonxibelelwano lwezixhobo zomsebenzi, uqoqosho kunye nesifundo kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqhagamshela umfanekiso ocinyiweyo.
Kufuneka ajonge, akrexeze, athabathe into, ukwakha intsha okanye ahlakulele. Kuya kufuneka ukuba uqhelane nawe, ungaziza nawe, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba ekugqibeleni ungene ebomini bakho ukuba i-o-of i-bils ayingomphefumlo kwibhokisi yomzimba, kodwa umfanekiso obonakalayo Uhlobo olukhethekileyo, iplastiki kunye nendlela yokuziphatha. Abasetyhini abanxibe i-bhanyabhanya i-bhanyabhanya apho bengayiyo nayiphi na indima ngokubanzi, bema emva kwekhamera njengabaqhubi. Ke ayinakwenzeka, kuba ubomi bakho buyimovie kwaye nawe.
Inenekazi elinenja
Inja luphawu lokuzinikela nolwalamano lwe-knight, olinde umfazi kwindoda. Izinja zinkulu kwaye zomelele, zilungele ukuyiqonda inkosikazi yabo. Izinja zithembekile, kodwa zithembekile. Olu luphawu lomkhonzi ozahluleleyo. Kunjengolo mfazi umele indoda. Ewe, enyanisweni (kwinyani yalo mfazi), wonke umntu uyaphela ukuba abe ngamakhamathi, kunjalo. Okanye uzame ukutsala ngaphezulu, okanye ngokukhawuleza, uye wangena.
Kwaye ziyindlela engaphezulu, kwaye ngoku akunakwenzeka ukuba yamkele le nto ngale nto. Ingcinga yokuba unokutshintshiselana omnye, uhambisa inenekazi elinenja intlungu engafuni naluphi na ulwalamano. Kungcono inja ihambe. Umgangatho ophakathi wokuphoxeka, ngokwahlukileyo kwabo bomeleleyo, kubanye asibonakali ngathi sikhathazeka, kubonakala ngathi wonke umntu ongumfazi sele elungele ukuba nethamsanqa. Ewe, ungabi nethamsanqa, abakumi, ngalo lonke ixesha abanguye.
Kodwa oku kuyadideka, kuba abaphumi kwaphela. Umntu - abo, kwaye nina - hayi abo, ewe? Ungaya njani? Oku kukhathazeka yibuger ye-bude. Ingxaki ngokulawula i-tusus. I-Subloule Subs-umnqweno wokuhambisa uxanduva ngobomi bakho kumzali. Ukupeyimba izixhobo zokusebenza zomsebenzi kwaye uqoqosho lunceda kakhulu. Ibhinqa lijonge i-halves ukuba lithathe inxaxheba lomfanekiso ogadayo.
Kungenxa yokuba abafazi abangaqondi ukuba kutheni le nto indoda ifune ukuba iyazi, iyayazi into oyithandayo. Baqinisekile ukuba umntu wesibini uyadingeka ukuze athathe iingxaki zakho, kwaye ukuba uthatha isigqibo malunga nengxaki ngokwayo, akukho mntu udingayo. Ye. Ifunyenwe "Utata" ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba yibhokhwe okanye i-cinedy, kuba ayiyontombazana kunye nemizobo yolwalamano olunjalo lwe-naisem.
Awuyi kuba nako ukuba ngumntwana othobelayo, kwaye umntwana akakwenzeki iminyaka engama-30 ukuya kwengama-50. Khangela i-knight, eya kuthi ilibale ngezinto onomdla kuzo kwaye iya kukusebenzela, ngakumbi isidenge. Ukukhathazeka kwakho kwinto yokuba iinjongo zakho azinangqondo. Ngubani kwaye kutheni kufuneka ukhonze?
Kuya kufuneka ukhangele iqabane oza kuba kunye: 1) lokuphumla, ukunxibelelana nokuzonwabisa; 2) ukuba nesondo; 3) Yakha ubomi, kunokwenzeka ukuba unyuse abantwana; 4) phuhlisa njengabantu; I-5) Xhasani omnye komnye. Yiloo nto abantu badala izibini. Kwaye hayi loo nto yenza umntu ozonke nomkhuseli womnye. Wonke umntu kufuneka ozondle aze azikhusele kwaye alungele ukuba loo nto, ukuxhasa enye. Oko kukuthi, wonke umntu kufuneka azame ukuzimela kwaye womelele, ukuze angakuthunyelwanga mntu kwaye okwesibini wayenokuxhomekeka ukuba loo nto.
Umfazi onekati
I-Kayf ivela kwi-Shaggy Paws yeyaba nkulu, ii-paws ezininzi, kwaye zonke iingxaki ezinxulumene nokunakekelwa kwabo (kubandakanya intiyo yabamelwane), umfazi ugubungela ingcinga yokuba ungcwele. Igcina izilwanyana, ibakhuse kubantu ababi. Ukuba inenekazi linenja lalikhangela umkhuseli, umfazi onamakati-umkhuseli ngokwakhe.
Olu hlobo lokudideka alusoloko lubonakala ngathi luncedo iikati. Ingazifumana enye into ngelishwa, ngamanye amaxesha ide ibe biismy kwaye igcine abanye abantu abavela eYega abanye. Ibalulekile ukuba ikwimeko yokudibanisa nomntu kwaye uzahlulele ngokupheleleyo. Ufuna ukuba yimfuneko, kufanelekile. Ukuba inenekazi elinenja lalikhangela umntu oza kukhusela kwaye ayondle, umfazi oneekati ukufuna umntu ukuba afele ngaphandle kwakhe.
Rhoqo, abasetyhini abaneekati bafumaneka kumanenekazi nezinja eziqonda ukuba akukho mntu ufuna ukuba bondle. Baqala bakhubeka, bagqiba kwelokuba babe ngabo basonka esonke, kwaye bengazi nto malunga nokwahlula imida.
Ungaya njani? Le yi-bug efanayo ye-bug, kwelinye icala. Ingxaki ngokulawula i-tusus. Hypercontrol. Ukuba inenekazi linenkungu lingenakomkhulu kunye nokwazisa ukuba umntu onamandla nozimeleyo angakha ubudlelwane obuhle, uthando lokwenene kwaye luthande, umfazi onamatti angenayo imida yobuqu yasemzini.
Umntu akanakwabelwa iikati, awunakubandisa amandla akho, njengokuthatha amantshontsho amatsha kunye namantshontsho avela kwinkunkuma, kodwa ungabi nanto yakwenza noku. Thanda umntu ngaphandle kokuhlonipha imida yakhe, ukuyitya loo nto. Okanye uzondle, ezingalunganga. Akukho sidingo sokutya umntu okanye ukondla. Ngayo kuya kufuneka wakhe ubudlelwane bentando yesifundo.
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