Ngonyaka ngamnye, indoda kufuneka ithathe izisombululo ezingakumbi kunye nezinye. Ezi zigqibo zichaphazela abahlobo, sebenza, umntu omthandayo ... kunye nendlela yokwenza ukuba ungayazi indlela enye okanye enye? Okanye ukuba uphila umntu onjalo ebomini?
Umbuzo wokungaqiniseki uhlala uphakamisa kubudlelwane bezesondo. Uninzi lwabantu abaselula luyekelela ngaphambi kokukhetha: "Ngubani na ukwakha ubudlelwane?", "Uzame ukulungisa ubudlelwane nobuhlobo nje?" njl. Uninzi oluthile kule kwaye luguqula ubomi babo kwidabi eliqinileyo kunye nabo. Ungayenza njani kwiimeko ezinjalo? Ungawoyisa njani amava angaphakathi kunye nokungaqiniseki, kwaye wenze ukhetho olufanelekileyo?
Okokuqala, kufanelekile ukucwangcisa ukuphononongwa ngokuthe ngqo. Bukela iimvakalelo zakho, iminqweno, iimvakalelo kubudlelwane nabantu ezikufutshane nawe. Zama kwindima eyahlukeneyo. Cazulula ngokucacileyo, ukuqonda, ukubonakaliswa okwaneleyo kokusabela kwindlela oziphethe ngayo.
Abantu bahlala bacwangciswa ngendlela yokuba kunye notshintsho oluncinci kwizinto zangaphandle, wonke umntu uyaphila kuphela isikhundla sawo kuluntu. Kunqabile, othatyathwayo ukuchaza imiba esisiseko yokuziphatha kwabo ngokudibeneyo neqela lonke lecala labantu. Nantsi i-egos yomntu. Kodwa, manganyanzeleke ukuba ajonge emhlabeni ngaphandle, kusoloko kulula kakhulu ukwenza izigqibo kulomhlaba. Kule meko, ungumbonisi ozimeleyo ozimeleyo, osindiswe kwiimvakalelo, iimvakalelo, ucalucalulo.
Zeziphi izigqibo ezinokwenziwa ngelixa zikwindima yePaparazzi yakho? Ukubukela i-prism yobudlelwane phakathi kolwalamano phakathi kwentsebenzo, unokukwazi ukuzivavanya kwiimvakalelo zothando, intiyo, ububi, ukubawa, uthando, imikhwa emibi, njl njl. Mhlawumbi imvakalelo yolonwabo onayo, hayi umntu ofanayo nolwalamano olusondeleyo lunxulunyaniswa. Mhlawumbi umhlobo osoloko eyixhasa, echitha wena uninzi lwexesha lakhe, ehlawula ingqalelo yakhe kwaye kukho idayimani efanayo, kukho idayimani efanayo, ukucaca kobomi bakho kwabanye abantu ebomini bakho.
Uninzi lwabantu abancinci lusenziwa imbono efanelekileyo yezinto zokwenyani, ezinjengobuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nebhinqa, ubudlelwane ngemali, ubudlelwane ngesondo. Kwimeko nganye kwezi meko, ayilunganga. Kuhlala kunjalo ukuba umhlobo ohlala kufutshane uyakuthanda kwaye uzinika zonke mna ngokwam, kwaye owuthandayo - inika isini kunye nezesondo ... ndifuna ukuqaphela isixhobo esibulalayo kwisondo ubudlelwane. Ubandakanya isibini esitshatileyo echibini lothando olubonakalayo kwaye wenza ukuba uzive emveni kunye nenkanuko engathethekiyo. Kwangelo xesha, icala lokuziphatha lolwalamano lingaphumelelanga, kwaye lihlala lithatyathwa kakhulu yimbeko yamaqela esithathu.
Ukuze ungaphosi mzuzu okwenza ukuba uzikhohlise- umamele rhoqo kwiimvakalelo, zombini kunye neqabane lakho elisenyongweni. Iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo zomntu azikhohlisi. Kunye namagama kunye nokubalwa-unako. Ukwamkelwa kothando sisiqingatha sewaka kuphela sokubonakaliswa kweemvakalelo. Uthando lufanelekile imvakalelo kulo lonke ubukhulu bayo. Uthando aluyi kukubeka kwindawo engathandekiyo. Akayi kuYilondolozile Kule minyaka iminyaka yayihlala kunye. Uthando aluyi kukhetha. Ukhetha lwakho. Iprojekti yakhe ikwiqabane lakho, kwimikhwa yawo, imbeko, umlinganiswa. Uthando aluyi kuvumela nabani na enye entliziyweni yakho, kuba yentliziyo yakho.
Umhlobo, umntu oqhelekileyo, iqabane lakho kwishishini-wonke umntu makabekho kwizikhundla zawo ezidlala ebomini bakho, kwaye akukho namnye umntu, awusayi kuphinda useke amanani abo kwibhodi yakho ye-chess. UnguMongameli, ungumntu ozimeleyo ozimeleyo, kwaye akukho ngqinisiso ebomini bakho, kuba kukho uthando kuyo!