I-Arhente yangaphambili ye-FBI jack sckefer yabhala le ncwadi "ibandakanya umtsalane ngokwendlela yeenkonzo ezizodwa." Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ayivumelekanga (oko kukuthi, i-charm!) Zonke izinto zibalulekileyo. Yabo bonke. Ke ngoko, mamela kwaye ukhumbule.
I-shaffer ichaza nje indlela yokuyifumana phantse wonke umntu ngobuhlobo, uthando, isaphulelo esomeleleyo okanye isibonelelo selizwe. Ezinye iindlela kunye neendlela ezifanayo ziyanceda i-FBROVTSU ekwaziseni i-Casiers kunye neentlola zaseRussia. Asiziboni izizathu zokuba kutheni singayi kuba nguMata Hari, kwaye ngaphandle kokuhamba okungafunekiyo sesisu.Ubuxoki obuyinyani
Imeko ebalulekileyo! Yonke imbonakalo icetyiswe yi-SCARCR yenziwa kumnqweno onyanisekileyo wokwenza abahlobo, ukugxeka. Uvelwano lwakho lokungaqhelekanga ngelixa umntu esiqingatha. Ukuba awunayo, akufanelekanga ukuba uqale. Okokuqala, akulunganga ukukhohlisa, okwesibini, kusemva okanye kamva ukuba uwe kwi-mission.
Andiluluma
Okokuqala kufuneka ubonise umntu okhuselekileyo. Uninzi lwee-towloons ukusukela ebuntwaneni Funda ukuhamba nomntu okhethekileyo kwaye uthi "Ubi". Iphakamise amagxa, amashiya amashiya okhubazekileyo, asuke imilebe, gait. Inkangeleko enjalo ingqina ukulungela ukulwa kunye nengxoxo enobuhlobo ayifanelekanga kakhulu. Ke, okokuqala, sikhanyisela, siphumle ubuso bakho. Okwesibini, asihlawuleli indawo yomntu. Masithi ungaziqhelanisa ukuze yonke imihla ikhwele kwi-ofcalator kunye neqabane elihle, kodwa isokuqala kufuneka limi kwikona kude nayo.Iimpawu ezintle
Kukho i-micromeries ezinika abantu ukuba bazi ukuba unobuhlobo. Oku kukuphakanyiswa ngokukhawuleza kwamashiya, tsala i-chin, uncumo olunyulu, amehlo amfutshane emehlweni, ukucocwa kwentloko yecala, uqhwithela (ngaxeshanye neliso leliso). Ukuchaneka, kungcono, kunjalo, jonga kumzekeliso okwincwadi. Kodwa, ngokubanzi, kucacile. Ungena kwigumbi elinye kunye "nento": i-derg eyebrow, i-inkqo yenkcitho kunye nentloko yecala, njengelebhu ye-smart labrador. Ungaziqhelanisa phambi kwesipili.
I-barbarian enomdla
Ukuba umntu ongaziwayo, othi lonke ixesha uwela emehlweni, ukhuselekile, kodwa uhlala engaziwa, kuyaqondakala. Imvakalelo yendalo yokufuna ukwazi ukuba ishushu, ikwaze nokwenza into enomdla. Ukujonga kwi-smartphone akuthengisi kwiiklasi zokuhenda. Kodwa, umzekelo, ukuba ufumana incwadi enkulu yamanqaku kwaye uqala ukuzoba, okanye uya kujija i-rube yerubhu ye-rubik ezandleni zakho, kuya kuba yinto enokubangela kuwe ngemibuzo neengcebiso.Ndithanda
Ungaqala incoko kuqala. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kwincoko kukuba ugqithise ingqalelo ngokukhawuleza kugxilwe kuyo kumnxibelelanisi. Kuya kufuneka unike ithuba kumntu oza kuthetha ngawe, zidumise okanye uzisole. Umzekelo, ngokuhlwa, phantse wonke umntu unokuthi "mhlawumbi sele ediniwe." Ngaba ungadinwa? Ngokugqibeleleyo! "Kufuneka sibe nzima kakhulu ukusebenza." Kwaye ngoku sele encomekile. Kwaye endaweni yesitya esirhabaxa, ungaphinda udumise omnye umntu. ("Ndiyivile indlela umphathi ngayo"). Enye indlela yokunika umntu umntu ukuba ayifumane-ukwenza impazamo kwaye ayivumele ukuba iyilungise: "Ke ufake uphawu, nditsho, onke ama-200%! -Ali-150% kuphela "- O, kwaye ufunde ulwazi oluyimfihlo kwaye luqhubele ikratshi lomntu.
Kakhulu
Ukufumana into efanayo nomntu, kwanele ukunikela ingqalelo kwiimpahla. Kwi-T-Shirt yamahhala kwikhathuni - Wow, ndiyakuthanda "! Ukuba unayo into eqhelekileyo, emva koko amava adibeneyo anokudalwa. Into ephambili kukuba ayidibani. Abantu badibanisa ulonwabo ngokubanzi kunye nobunzima ngokubanzi. Ke ungabaleka kunye nomsebenzi onesiqingatha seyure kwangoko kwaye usonge ngaphezulu kwe-ice cream. Okanye uye kwi-movie eyoyikisayo kwaye ucinezele ngokupheleleyo ngexesha elininzi kakhulu. Zonke iintlobo apho iindiza kwiParaglidel ziyinto enkulu.
Umgaqo wokuQeqesha kwakhona
Abantu, bade bathethe ngokuvakalayo ukuba akukho mntu ufanele ukuba enze nantoni na kuye nabani na, ahlala efuna ukulinganisa amanqaku. Okubangela umdla kukuba, luncedo kwaye enze umntu abe yinto entle, aze acele uncedo. Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, izicelo ezincinci nezifanelekileyo kunye nenkxaso yomeleza unxibelelwano. Unokutyiluka kwi-ndoda kwitafile engummelwane okanye utsiba kuqala kumatshini ngeziselo. Kwaye kwi "Enkosi" uphendula "nceda", kodwa "oh kulungile, ngekhe undincede?". I-OP, eyona imbi kakhulu Okanye mcele ukuba athumele ijacket yakho imizuzu embalwa, abambe ibhegi ye-chips yakho kwivenkile-ngoku ucinga ukuba uyimali kwaye, ngokungaqhelekanga ngokwaneleyo, ibekwe ukomeleza ubudlelwane. Ngapha koko, abanamatyala, abangafaniyo nababolekisi, bangalibali.Ziveze iindlebe
Bambalwa abantu abanokumamela ngononophelo. Sihlala siphazanyiswe rhoqo, emva koko kwisandi somyalezo obhaliweyo, emva koko kwilizwi lakho elingaphakathi. Ukuba uzama ubuncinci isibini kwisithathu sexesha lokumamela ngokunyaniseka amabali akhe, uya kubonisa umntu onomdla kwaye unobuthathaka. Qinisekisa ingqalelo yakho, ekuhambeni kwexesha ithi "Yep" kunye "Ewe", ndicela imibuzo ecacisayo, enje, usike nkqo kwitrafikhi ?! " Hlalani kumnxibelelanisi, susa izinto etafileni owabelana nawe, ungazichukumisa ngenyameko izandla zakhe. Kodwa umlomo ungaphengayo owenziweyo kwaye izandla ezinqamlezayo ziya kumnika ukuba aqonde ukuba ayithathi lula. Ngendlela, mhlawumbi, sele uqaphele ukuba zonke iingcebiso ezidwelisiweyo zinokusetyenziswa ukuze zikhulule kwaye ziboyikise abantu. Kuyimfuneko ukwenza okuchaseneyo.
I-Dosage Frank Soby
Abantu kulula ukutyhilelwa ukuba uthatha inyathelo lokuya nokubonisa uFrank. Kodwa akunandaba nokuba ivutha kangakanani na ngaphakathi, "sisiqingatha sam!", I-FBI iphakamisa: ayimfuneko ukuba ithulule i-biography yam ngaxeshanye. Ngakumbi kwi-introver. Ngendlela, icebiso elinomdla kwishawari, indlela yokwahlulahlula umntu ongena ngaphakathi. Ukuqala ukuthetha ngaphandle kokuzisa ibinzana kude kube sekupheleni. I-Oversist, inokwenzeka ukuba igqibele kuwe, kwaye i-inrobet iya kuthi cwaka. Ke, kunye ne-introversi cance. Bafuna indawo yobuqu ngakumbi kwaye baqiniseke ngokhuseleko lwakho ixesha elide, kwaye emva koko bayandixhasa, njengabo bonke abanye abemi. Ngendlela, le ncwadi isixelela ngendlela yokugcina uvelwano, kunye nendlela yokuzikhusela xa intlanganiso kwinethiwekhi yentlalo, apho amaqhinga anezimvo kunye nemibono ayinakwenzeka. Ngokubanzi, into ebalulekileyo, kuya kufuneka ufunde ukulawula intshukumo ye-efrows yakho :)