Lula ukwaluphala-yinike indlela kwaye hayi hami. Tsibela kwindlu yangasese ngaphandle kokukhulelwa, musa ukwenza amagqabaza kamama ngomntwana ogcweleyo. I-cafe kufuneka ikwazi ukufaka isitulo esinamavili kwaye ityelele indlu yangasese. A, eneneni, phi?
Indoda endala ekhulileyo kunye nenekazi elidala, elizilanga lifuna ukuba nembeko, linokuphila ubomi bonke njengesonka kunye nenkohliso encinci okanye incinci kakhulu okanye ibuhlungu. Isisu esikhulelwe sasingavalanga, sukuphendula kwaye uphendule. Emva kokuba umntwana kufuneka alandelwe kwaye angaphazamisi abantu-akayazi indlela yokuziphatha umntwana wakhe, ize indlu ihleli, kunye nomama okanye uNanny, njengoko ufuna. Ngenxa yabantu abakhubazekileyo, ishishini elincinci akufuneki ukuba ihlupheke- hayi oosomashishini bathatha impilo kwaba bantu
Impikiswano ebonakala ingakumbi okanye incinci isengqiqweni okanye ingqiqo, enyanisweni, ebaluleke kakhulu, kunjalo, ngayo nawuphi na umntu ophuhliswe ngokupheleleyo, eyintlonipho esemsebenzini ophuhlileyo, osisiseko ngesidima somntu. Eyona nto iphambili ekufuneka iphunyezwe ngokwahlukeneyo, ungayifumana njani intlonipho ngengcali okanye intlonipho ngombono wakho kumbuzo owodwa. Oko kuzelwe kwihlazo eliqhelekileyo, elinempilo ngokubona indlela isidima sabantu siwehlela ngayo, ngakumbi intando yakhe, kwaye kwizenzo zabanye abantu.
Ngokwakaze aphila, nenenekazi elingwevu, ngoku inengxaki yempilo, ehlala ihamba nelukhuni, ingakumbi ixhego labantu abahluphekayo (nokuba abaninzi bedline bahlukile?). Ayiwenga emilenze kwaye ayizukusebenza, kodwa amandla asindiswe ngoku kwizithuthi zikawonke-wonke aza kumnika ithuba lokuhamba ngesiqhelo de kube sezintlungwini kunye nobuthathaka. Ukhulelwe kwaye abantwana balahlekile kwindlu yangasese hayi ngenxa yokuba bengamalungelo abo akhethekileyo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba kunzima ukunyamezela ixesha elide, kwaye ukuba abajamelana nengxaki, umntu ongumntu uya kubandezeleka. Ukusuka kwizithuko, umama akazukuqalisa ukujongana ngcono nomntwana, enexhala kakhulu malunga noxinzelelo lokuhamba okanye ngequbuliso, kwimeko enobunzima, lo mfazi akanakuphendulwa ngokunyanzeliswa ngokweemvakalelo. Okokugqibela osele ehlala isidima somntu.
Zonke izinto ezifanayo zisebenza kubantu abakwi-shrollers, kunye neengxaki zokujonga (ezona zininzi zibuze, ngaphandle kwethegi yexabiso) okanye ukuva. Kuyimfuneko ukuthatha ngokuqhelekileyo bafuna olona ntu luxhaphakileyo, kunye nokukwazi ukusebenzisa iinkonzo ezibonelelwe ebantwini, kuba zibantu. Ngokwesiqhelo akakhathali ukuba semngciphekweni.
Ewe, konke oku kuthetha ukuba oonoriyazi abanalo ilungelo lokukrokrela, kwaye umama ngumyalelo wokuqesha abanye ukuba bazincedise okanye bawonwabise umntwana. Kodwa ezo kunye nabanye zisayimfuneko kwaye ziqhele ukutsiba indlu yangasese ngaphandle komgca.
Ukuhlonipha isidima somntu kukuba ingakumbi malunga nokungasebenzisi kwaye ingazenzi intshabalalo yomnye umntu, hayi ukuthuka, musa ukwakha iingcinga ezikhubekisayo. Kwaye, uxolo (nangona enyanisweni andizimiselanga ukucela ukuxolelwa) ukuba awwamkeli intlonipho yesidima somntu njengesiseko, njenge-axiom, emva koko uphuhliso lwakho lwentlalo alulunganga. Une-lag. Ndicebisa iiklasi zokulungisa nge-psychologist elungileyo. Mhlawumbi ayikabikho.
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