Kukho ukuchongwa okungakhathalelwanga-uninzi lwendlela kungenxa yokufunda ngokusebenzayo kubo kunye nokufunyanwa kwesigxina kwicandelo lokunyanzelwa kwabo kunye nonyango. Ngoku umdla okhethekileyo woluntu kukudimaza kwe-autistic spectrum. I-tv ibonisa malunga nabalinganiswa ngemidyarho-umzekelo, "ithiyori enkulu" okanye "ibhulorho" okanye "ibhulorho", ibhulorho ", i-Bridgees", ithathela ingqalelo ubukho bobuhlanga.
Kuba ufuna ukufunda eli nqaku, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ufunda malunga nokuphelelwa kwempahla ye-Autistium, kokukhona ucinga ukuba kukho ubuhlanga. Okanye mhlawumbi uqinisekile ngesifo sakho sisele sisekuqinile.
Ngenxa yokuba uqhubela "ukunkuthaza" - iintshukumo ezingapheliyo ngezandla, unyawo okanye amehlo asusa uxinzelelo. Kuba ungowasentlalweni okanye i-clumsy. Kuba nabo, okanye nayo.
Kodwa apha kwaye babhalela abantu "abaxelela" isifo sobuhlanga ukuze sibonakale sinomdla ngakumbi, ukuze singazibandakanyi iingxaki zabo zengqondo kunye nokuziphatha. Kuya kuba neentloni ukuba yindoda enee-epresprintas ekufumaneni abantu abaziingxaki.
Iingxaki zokuzifungela izidlo
Owona mqondo uphambili kukuba inkcazo yobomi babantu abadala abanengxaki ye-Autistic evela kuluntu oluvela kuluntu, ohlengahlengisiweyo kwaye ababuyiselekileyo. Oku kuthetha ukuba uninzi lweempawu kunye neengxaki abazenzayo ngoku kwaye banokudibana neengxaki ze-neurotype (esempilweni ngokunxulumene ne-VNS) abantu abaneengxaki zengqondo ezibangelwa ngabantu abanamava, abantu abanengxaki yokulimala ngokwasemzimbeni okanye abantu abangalunganga bengqondo. Kwilizwe le-nonastrom.
Ukuhamba? Ikwabandakanyeka kubantu abanempilo kwimeko yoxinzelelo-ukukhulula uxinzelelo oluncinci. Kwaye abantu abaxakeke rhoqo kwaye badlala behamba rhoqo. "Izentlalontlebia" (iyinyani kwaye ibubuxoki), ukuhlaselwa kukothuka, idla ngokunxulumana nabantu abanengxaki yokudakumba, ukungakhathali, kwaye kungabi luphawu lwemidyarho .
Lo mntwana wayengaqhelekanga
Ngakumbi ekuzifunyeleni isifo ngokubonakalayo ngokweengxaki, umntu omdala, oceba ukuba ufike kubudlelo bakhe ebuntwaneni. Umzekelo:
-Unganyanzela ukuba utye kuphela iintlobo zokutya okanye ezifakishwe ngendlela ethile yokutya, "ubeneengxaki ezinzulu kwizakhono zangasese ezihlaziyiweyo, ukuya kuthi ga kwi-biest yezazisi ezihamba rhoqo esikolweni okanye ukubaleka Zoba iphethini engaqhelekanga okanye unamathele kwisichazi-magama ngaphandle kwenjongo esebenzayo - ubungayihlazisanga ihlazo, kodwa ungayixhathisa i-Tethologing, - awunakumelana ne-Cart okanye eyothusayo kwaye yothusa kakhulu Ukukhupha ixesha elide okanye ukukhuthaza i-genitals) - wenze i-fantasy ende ngesiqu sakho ukuba uyifumene okanye iphoswe ngumntwana, uninzi lwambiza "okanye wabiza loo nto Italente kunye neetalente zihamba ngezandla kwaye kwixesha elizayo ungazibonisa- uqalile ukuthetha emva kwexesha, wakha intetho eyakhiweyo Into enye kwisangqa, ogama lingu-"Mntwana ongaqhelekanga okanye, ngokuchasene noko, ukulila kancinci, ebuntwaneni, kunye nokufihlakeleyo bendicinga ukuba ndiye kuDudist, - Imidlalo yakho enezinto ezibonakala ziyinto engaqhelekanga: Amaqhosha odongeni, atshintshelayo, - Usebenzise umonakalo, umzekelo, ukuba ungonwabisi phezulu, ungabili, - iincwadi zazingabahlobo abangcono kunabanye abantwana - ekubalekeni kokuba ufumene umsindo okanye abantu ababonakala ngathi banobuso bakho, ngamanye amaxesha kubandakanya nezona zihlobo zikufutshane, - ngokwasemzimbeni Iibhuleki ezicekeceke kunye nengqondo "zanda ngamandla apho bekukho abantu abaninzi okanye njengokuba uneengxaki zokujonga amacebiso, utyekelo lokuphendula amabinzana, malunga nokuba yeyiphi emva koko Kutshiwo ukuba yayiyinto ehlekisayo, "Ulandele isifakelo esibhengezwe, ukutyeshela ukufakelwa okuguqulela ngokungafihlisiyo nangokuthengiswa kwezesondo ngenxa yokuba babengenakubabona.
Ukongeza, kuyanengqondo ukutsala ezi zinto zilandelayo: - Unemifuno eninzi ebuntwaneni okanye unyoko xa sele ekhulelwe ngamayeza amakhulu, - utata wakho Ngexesha lokukhulelwa ngaphezulu kweminyaka engama-35.
Kodwa zonke ezi meko azinakuthetha ngokungathandabuzekiyo ubukho bodliwa. Ukuhluma komzimba wayo, umzekelo, kusoloko kujongwa kakhulu kumantombazana ngenxa yoluntu, ezinye iingxaki zibonisa ukuba abantwana abaphantsi kogonyamelo, kuba bobabini abantwana abatshatileyo bahlala bevezwa lugonyamelo, kuba I-Elimian Syndrome-Xa ungumntwana wakho ngenxa yeengxaki zempilo, kubonakala ngathi ngabazali bokona, bangaphandle, bengacacanga.
Ngaba ubuhlanga okanye hayi ubuhlanga?
Ukuba iingxaki zakho zichaneke (okanye phantse ngokuchanekileyo), njengabantu abanamadyorho, kusafuneka uzisombulule ngendlela efanayo, ukuze ubukho okanye ukungabikho kwemidyarho kungekho mdala. Inyani yile yokuba umntu okhulileyo uyakwazi ukubabutha ababuthandayo ubukho bokuqonda okufanayo, oko kubi kakhulu kwaye kunzima sele kusemva komntwana. Mhlawumbi awunakubizwa ngokuba yinto eqhelekileyo ngokupheleleyo, kodwa endaweni yoko.
Ungaphila njani umntu onamadlelo?
Okokuqala, ukulibala ufakelo lwe "tzhbolzhevochka" (kunye ne "typh"-zamadoda) kwaye uthathe amanyathelo onke ukunciphisa umthwalo weemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo. Ukulala xa ukukhanya kunye nomabonwakude kucinyiwe, khetha indlela yokuvuka, ekuvumela ukuba uphuphume i-velting yelindle, ukuba ingxolo evela esitratweni iphazamisa i-gestle (kulungile I-IT-iya kusebenza phantsi kwengxolo "), sebenzisa kwimisebenzi yentloko.
Ungaze ube kwiindawo ezinengxolo kakhulu - kwiziganeko, kwindawo engaphantsi kwi "hyshu" - yedwa. Ewe, ukuba uyiyo nje kwaye ulahle itafile kunye nobugcisa bomntu okanye ingubo yomnye umntu ... oko kukuthi, akulunganga, kodwa kungabi tyala. Kwaye ukuba ukugqobhoza okungaphezulu kufikelela kuthi ga ngoku ukuba ukwazi kuya kuqala ngenqanawa? Oku kunokwenzeka rhoqo, kodwa amathuba okuba aphakame kakhulu.
Gqibezela ngendima yowomileyo (okanye owomileyo) kwaye uzame ukungavumeli ingqalelo yenkampani kwiziko - ukhawuleze kakhulu kunye nabantu, kuphela awuyi kuba lula ukuyibona. Yala ukuzama ukucwangcisa i-filting yefilimu okanye umfanekiso ohlekisayo we-Intanethi (ukuphinda ubhale kwakhona - indawo ebuthathaka kakhulu yabantu abanobuhlanga) - oku kuyakunceda ekuphepheni ukucaphukisa.
Qhubeka nokusebenzela uluntu. Khetha inqaku elithile elingenakuthelekiswa nobuthathaka (unako ngoncedo lophando olungaziwayo phakathi kwabantu olwaziwayo kwinethiwekhi yenethiwekhi), funda ugqirha wezengqondo kunye nomsebenzi. Emva koko yiya kwelinye. Akwanelanga kuyo yonke into ngaxeshanye, akukho phuculo lupheleleyo kwaye lupheleleyo lokuziphucula.
Eyona nto ithathela ingqalelo ekuyekeni inkanuko. Ewe, ukuhamba ngalo lonke ixesha umzila omnandi kwaye uyathanda, kodwa ukuba ivolthi kukude nokufa, indlela ifanelekile ukuba isusela ngexesha lamaxesha ngamaxesha kunye nemenyu yesidlo sakusasa nayo. Ngaphandle koko, kubudala, xa zonke iimpawu zomntu ziyakhulisa, uya kubandezeleka kwi-JAMS yakho kwaye uphazamise abanye, kwaye inkxaso yabo inokufuna kakhulu. Kwaye utshintsho olwenga ngamanye amaxesha ungakuphephe ukukubulala ngenyaniso yethu!
Nika ingqalelo (buza ukuba ufuna, zihlobo), ngaba uyajamelana nococeko lomntu kunye nekhaya. Thatha inyathelo ukuba akunjalo.
Nika ingqalelo kwiindidi ze-Stemming, apho uguqukela khona ngoku. Ukujonga enye indlela ekhuselekileyo yokuluma imilebe, ukuhlafuna, ulwimi kunye neminwe, iinwele, imikhwa, ukucaphuka, umzekelo, izandi ezidibeneyo. Umntu othile unceda ukubhala rhoqo incwadi malunga naye njengomntu ohlukileyo, entloko okanye ephepheni, umntu - intshukumo yemotor okanye egqunywe ebhegini yeembotyi.
Thatha umdaniso okanye ukuqubha ukuze unciphise ukusasazeka komzimba. Khetha amaqela omdaniso omncinci, kwisingqisho seeklasi ozigalelwa ngazo kwaye ungayikhupheli iimvakalelo ngexesha lesifundo.
Ukudlulisa i-allergies-abantu abanamadyarho bahlala beneempawu ezininzi, kwaye bazibonakalisa ekomelezeni iimpawu zesifo.
I-Autism ayinyangwa
Kodwa ngemidyarho yomsebenzi ophezulu, unokuphila njengabantu abanomzimba onesidima okanye unyawo olwenziwe olonakeleyo - ukuququzelela ubomi babo, imigudu yabo, ixesha labo, ukwenzela ubuchwephesha obunobuchule.
Umbhali wombhalo: Lilith mazikina
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