ERussia, malunga ne-14 lamawaka abafazi bafa kubundlobongela bosapho minyaka le. Kodwa le yeyona meko ibhaliswe ngokusemthethweni. Inani elikhulu labasetyhini liyaqhubeka nokuphila ngokuthotywa kunye nokubhenela kwenkohliso. I-Pics.ru kunye nerina Matvieto, umnxibelelanisi weziko lesizwe lokuthintela ubundlobongela boSapho "Ana", kunye nabo baqwalaselwa.
Ubundlobongela basekhaya yingcinga efanelekileyo. Ukukhwaza, ukuhlazeka, ukungcungcutheka ukuze kuhlangatyezwane nezihlobo, isoyikiso kwimali okanye ukuthabatha abantwana luphawu olothusayo. Ukuba ungazihoyi izoyikiso, ngenye imini banokuyinyani.Kwenzeka:
Ezoqoqosho Izoyikiso okanye umda kwixhoba, ukutya, impahla. Iqhelekile kwiintsapho ezinamanqanaba ahlukeneyo obutyebi, ukusuka kwezona ndawo zihlwempuzekileyo, kwisityebi.
Ingqondo Ukuwoyikisa okucwangcisiweyo kunye noxinzelelo. Kunzima kakhulu ukungqina, kwaye amaxhoba asoyika kangangokuba akazami kufuna uncedo.
Ngokwasemzimbeni Olona hlobo lucacileyo lobundlobongela bosapho. Ukubethwa rhoqo kwamalungu osapho elinye okanye ngaphezulu.
Ngokwesondo Ukunyanzelwa ukunyanzelwa ngesondo okanye iifom zesondo ezingafunekiyo.
Iiarhente zokunyanzeliswa komthetho azihlali zisabela ngokufanelekileyo kwizikhalazo zabafazi babo. Okokuqala, ukuba akukho nto ithethwayo, kunzima kakhulu ukungqina, kwaye, okwesibini, malunga nesithathu sabafazi emva koko bathathe iingxelo zabo ukuze bangatshabalalisi usapho, kwaye mhlawumbi bephantsi kwezisongelo kwiqabane.
UIrina Matvieto, uthi: -Kuthi, naziphi na izibalo ngalo mcimbi ziqikelekile. Nangona kunjalo, iRussia iqalise i-UN kwi-UN ekuphelisweni kwazo zonke iintlobo zobundlobongela obenziwa kwabasetyhini (SIDU), kwaye ngoku ukusebenza ngokuthathwa komthetho "kugonyamelo entsatsheni". Sele ibhaliwe, kodwa iya kwamkelwa nini kwaye ngoluphi uhlobo, kunjalo, umbuzo.
Ibhinqa eliphantsi kobomi obukhohlakeleyo ngemvakalelo yoloyiko, ihlazo kunye netyala. Oku, ngamanye amaxesha kuyamthintela ukuba acele uncedo. Uyoyika ukufowuna nefowuni engaziwayo, kodwa akukho nto malunga nesibongozo emapoliseni.
Julia k .: "Ndathandana kwaye ndatshata, ndakhulelwa. Indoda egodiweyo, yayingayiboni intsilelo yakhe, exolela ... kodwa wandibetha - ebusweni, esifubeni nasentloko nodonga oluchasene nodonga. Kwaye emva koko wacela ukuxolelwa, neenyembezi emehlweni akhe, wathi uyamthanda kwaye uyafunga ... wafungayo, obuya kutshintsha. Undibulale. Babulawa ngosizi onjalo onokuthi ungayithethi. "Ukuba kuya kufuneka ubone ukuba ukuthotywa okucwangcisiweyo, esi asisosizathu sokuqalisa ityala lolwaphulo-mthetho. Emaxelweni ahlala ephendula ngolu hlobo: "Ewe, usaphila, kwaye phantse ungakubeki." Amapolisa acinga ngaphakathi kwesakhelo somthetho waseRussia, apho igama elithi "ubundlobongela basekhaya" alubhaliswanga. Konke kuxhomekeke emntwini. Omnye umqeshwa uya kunceda, kwaye omnye uya kuthelekisa ukungabikho kolwaphulo-mthetho.
Enye ingxaki enkulu ngabantwana abanikela ubungqina ubundlobongela basekhaya. Xa umntwana ebona indlela utata wakhe ekubetha ngayo okanye ohlazisa unina, uhlala kwimeko yokoyika. Ibeka intetho kwingqondo yomntwana, kwaye impilo yakhe. Ukongeza, kumnika imodeli yokuziphatha kwikamva. Rhoqo, abantwana, ukuziva bengakwazi ukuphembelela imeko, bazivalele ngaphakathi okanye baphume endlwini.
Oksana: "Ukuba udibana nam andikwazanga kwaxela indlela awayeziphethe ngayo ukuba angabetha umntu. Uphelile kwaye wakhuselwa. Emva kwesiqingatha sonyaka, wandibetha okokuqala. Kwaye kwangoko emva kwesitampu kwincwadana yokundwendwela, amanqaku oqhawulo-ndlebe atyibilika, ukuzama ukundilawula kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Wayesoloko engumqalisi wengxabano, emva koko wandibetha. Ke yathatha malunga neminyaka emithathu. Ngoku ndiyaqonda ukuba bendimoyika, ngenxa yoko ndabandezeleka, ndangena. "
UIrina Matvie, "utshilo u-Irina Matvie," awunakuba nehlazo. Bonisa imizekelo yendlela abantu ababa nengxaki kwaye babutshintsha ngayo ubomi babo. Xa sinxibelelana namaxhoba okuthembela, sizama ukufumana eso sigqibo siqala ukhuseleko lwabo. Akusoloko kuyintombazana ukuba ilungele ukuba kude nomyeni wakhe, akukho ihlala iphi. Ityala elinye nelinye, sizama ukunceda ukufumana isicombululo, nokuba ufuna ukuqhubeka nendoda yakhe emfula. Mhlawumbi uya kuthatha isigqibo ngoku, kwaye ngonyaka okanye emibini. Kufuneka iqondwe ukuba ixabiso lempazamo kwimeko enjalo liphezulu kakhulu. Akukho sisombululo sinye. Yonke into ithile kakhulu. "
I-guzel: Nje ukuba umyeni afike ekhaya kwimozulu embi. Andazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kuye ngelo xesha. Waqala ukundibetha kwangoko njengoko wayengena ekhaya. Ndakhala, ndambongoza ukuba ayeke. Undikhwebule, ndabetha ubuso, ndatsiba esiswini sam. Emva koko wathabatha lonke olondolozo washiya. Andikwazanga ukuvuka. Ethile yendlela eya ebhegini yakhe kwaye wakhupha ngaphandle kwenkonzo yentlalo. Malunga nelixa akazange athathe isigqibo sokufowuna-ihlazo elinje ngosapho lwethu! Emva koko wafumana igumbi wathi umyeni andibetha. Ibhinqa ekupheleni kwetyhubhu laqonda ukuba andilunganga ngokupheleleyo kwaye ndibizwa ngokuba yi-ambulensi. Andikwazanga ukuvula ucango boogqirha-ulele phantsi, bonke egazini. Babiza "iingozi" ukuba baphule umnyango. Xa ndandikhe ndatshintshelwa kumsindo, ndacinywa. Ndivuke esibhedlele. Umongikazi undixelele ukuba ngenxa yokulimala kunye nokopha kwam kwafuneka ndisuse isibeleko, kwaye andizange ndibengenakuba nabantwana. Umyeni wanikwa ngequbuliso ngonyaka, saqhawula umtshato. "Kwenziwe ntoni?
1. Bala into ephambili: akunakwenzeka ukuba uthule kwaye unyamezele. Le yindlela eya ngqo.
2. Ukuba uyabetha, danduluka, cela uncedo, uqhuba emnyango.
3. Kwithuba lokuqala, biza amapolisa. Nokuba abayi kukhokeleli ityala, inyani yobundlobongela iya kurekhoda.
4. Ukuba ungahamba i-musi-tirana - ihambe.
5. Fowunela kwiingcali zeZiko le-ANNA, baya kunceda ukufumana isisombululo esiya kukubonelela ngoKhuseleko olukhulu. Ikhululekile kwaye ngokungaziwa.
Musa ukunyamezelana nokuthotywa. Ungabutshintsha ubomi bakho. Thatha olu fakelo ngokwakho kwaye uzinikezele kwabo basajamelana nobundlobongela basekhaya.
Fowunela ukuzithemba kweZiko leSizwe lokuthintela ubundlobongela boSapho "Ana"I-8 800 7000 600 (yasimahla yayo yonke iSixeko saseRussia) Ukusukela nge-7: 00 ukuya kwi-21: 00 www.anna-COPE.ru .ru.