Rhoqo abantu balandela umntu ongakwaziyo ukuba kunye. Yintoni? Isifo? Umdlalo? Ingxaki? Umkhwa? Intlahla embi? Kutheni le nto abantu betsala abo bangenamdla kubo? Masijonge iNyaniso. Mhlawumbi sele benesiqingatha sesibini? Okanye ngaba banayo enye impilo yesini? Okanye ngaba abanovelwano ngabo? Zininzi izizathu. Masijongane nesizathu sokuba abantu bathande ukungazikhathaleli izifundo.
Isayensi
Xa umntu emthanda umntu, ingqondo yakhe ivelisa i-hormone-dopamine. Oku kubizwa ngokuba yi-hormone eyonwabileyo, kuba uyaziva wonwabile. Ingqondo ifumana isiyobisi kulonwabo lwehomo, malunga neziyobisi. Xa umntu esilandela umntu othandayo, umzimba uvelisa i-Dogamine. Kwaye ixesha elininzi lokuyeka umntu wakhe amthandayo, kwenziwe iDogamine ngakumbi.Amampunge
Amampunge ayibinasi: "Hayi indlela endijonga ngayo kule mpahla." Inxulumene ngqo nembono yayo, ukuzithemba nokuzithemba kunye nokuzithemba. Abantu bafuna ukubaluleka, kufanelekile, banomtsalane kwaye bakhethekileyo, bangaba lilize. Xa umntu eqonda ixabiso lakhe, unethemba lokuzithemba kunye nekratshi, ukuzithemba kokuzithemba. Umntu otyeshelayo eluthandweni ubethwa yimpunge yayo yomntu ngamnye. Ingqondo, ingqondo yengqondo efunwayo ukuba ibuyisele umfanekiso olahlekileyo, ukutyhala ukuzama ukufumana isifundo esingafikelelekiyo, nto leyo eyakukhathaza.
Ukufuna Intshutshiso
Abantu bafumana ulwaneliseko ngakumbi ekunqwenelekeni ukuba bancamathele umzamo omkhulu. Basukela ukungahoyi abantu ukuba bafumane ukuvuyisa.Intsilelo
Ingqondo yomntu ngokwengqondo inika ixabiso kuyo yonke into, ejongene nayo. Ixabiso elinika izinto okanye abantu lixhomekeke kwimithetho yokubonelela kunye nemfuno. Le yindlela isifungo esiphakamileyo sempahla nesithembiso esingaphantsi, ngenxa yokuba ixabiso lento liyanda. Umzekelo, ukuba akukho ziapile zaneleyo emarikeni, kwaye abantu abaninzi bafuna ukuzithenga, ixabiso leziqhamo likhula. Ngendlela efanayo xa ubuntu "yintsilelo", ingqondo yomntu enokubaluleka kulo mbandela, okanye ibona lo mntu uxabisekileyo. Umnqweno wokufuna umntu onjalo.
Umnqweno
Makhe siqwalasele umzekelo. Abantu abayi-2-4 batya kwindawo yokutyela enye, kwaye kwelinye - abantu abayi-15-20. Luhlobo luni lokufakwa kwakho? Ngokucacileyo, i-2nd, apho abantu abaninzi, kuba bacacile ukuba le nto ifunwa yindawo yokutyela, abantu bathanda isidlo sasemini apha, njl njl. Oyena mntu uyabathanda abanye, kokukhona enqwenela ukuthandana. Ngokuzenzekelayo, abantu bathathe inxaxheba kukhuphiswano.Ukuqukumbela
Isiphelo: Zininzi izizathu zokuba abantu batsalele intshutshiso yabathandekayo ababengenakuba kunye nabo.
Ngokulingani ngokulinganayo ukuzama ubuntu obungenakufikeleleka kwaye babhadule. Inika uninzi lobusuku kunye nokubandezeleka, kodwa kwelinye icala, kubanika imvakalelo yomnqweno ongapheliyo. Okukhona betshutshisa abantu betshutshisa kwaye baqonde ezi zizathu, kokukhona kuyayiqonda imeko yangaphakathi. Kwaye le yeyona ndlela kuphela yokuphuma kwimeko enzima.