I-flashmob # yanebobcazazaza, apho amantombazana athetha ngokungagungqi ngamatyala odlwengulo, wenza ingxolo enkulu. Kwaye uninzi loogqatsho lufuna ngokwenene ukubuza umbuzo "bafo, yintoni ingxaki yakho?" UAlexey Hedgehog wazama ukufumanisa loo nto. Enkosi, Alezey. Sabelana ngendlela, ngaphandle kweBhili.
# Enkosi runize
Nge-5 kaJulayi ngo-2016 kwisiseko esithetha isiRashiya (ukuqala kwi-iUkraine) yaqala i-flash dung phantsi kwe-hashteg # yanebosscup. Amantombazana (kubandakanya nabahlobo bam kunye nabahlobo) ahlulekwa ngamabali ovavanyo ovela ebantwini. Udlwengulo, umboniso, i-frertart, ubundlobongela obuphathelele
Oku akubhalwanga malunga nale "bhinthers ebambelele apho, hayi iintatheli zingena i-hype - babhala amantombazana aqhelekileyo, aqhelekileyo kunye nabafazi. Oogxa bakho, ofunda nabo, iintombi. ULote.
Bathetha ngayo kuqala omnye komnye, nakwesibini - nathi, amadoda. Isihloko se-flashmob sibuhlungu kakhulu kubathathi-nxaxheba, kwaye kwangaxeshanye siye sisoyikisa kakhulu amadoda, ngesizathu esithile, kwiintloko zabanye ngobufazi.
Amantombazana, abafazi, enkosi ngenkalipho. Wenza into enkulu.
Kundicaphukisa ukufunda amagama abo babhala malunga namava ethu, kwaye ndibuhlungu ngakumbi ekucingeni kwabo bangakwaziyo ukuzibhala. Ndineentloni ngokusabela kwamadoda amaninzi. Ndineentloni nje kungekuphela nje ngenxa yobugwenxa bamadoda, kodwa nengqondo yaseRussia, ngenxa yokungakwazi kwethu ukuva nemfesane.
Emva kokufunda amagqabantshintshi kwaye ulindele ukuba amaqhosha e-Kilotonna kwizimvo, ndibhala le nto ukuba ungene ukuze unike ikhonkco endaweni yokukhawulezisa iimpikiswano ezifanayo. Mhlawumbi ngenjongo enye umntu eze ngesandla. Ke ngoko, kusenokwenzeka ukuba irekhodi iyakongezwa.
Amadoda azive
Ke, indoda ibona amabali ambalwa eRibbon malunga nobundlobongela obenziwa kwabasetyhini. Ngenxa yokuba ngamabali okuqhelana nabantu oqhelileyo okanye oqhelileyo, indoda ifumana enye yezi mvakalelo zilandelayo.Uluhlu lokuphendula aluphelelanga, ngoku andithethi ngovelwano lwamaxhoba obundlobongela, kodwa malunga nesimo sengqondo sokugqibela okanye esingathandekiyo kwingxaki yenkqubo yobundlobongela bobundlobongela ngokubanzi. Yile nto kanye endiyivayo kwincoko namanye amadoda.
Uloyiko okanye intiyo Kuba isondele kakhulu, kodwa akafuni kuyijonga ingxaki.
Uloyiko okanye umsindo Kuba uziva enabuqu kwidilesi yakhe.
Uloyiko okanye umsindo Kuba uziva ngathi ufuna ukubhunga amalungelo ahambelana namandla okanye impembelelo.
Ewe, bafana, ngaphandle kwenani leempikiswano (eziqondwa ngakumbi), sinelungelo elikhulu kakhulu ngenkcubeko kasoriarchal kunabafazi.
Bhuti, nceda unike imbeko kwaye ufunda irekhodi kude kube sekupheleni.
Andinguye ubungcali, ndingumntu oqhelekileyo oqhelekileyo we-cis-gesti, amalungelo amnandi, njengawe. Ubufazi asiyongxaki yam, iya kuba ngumzabalazo weenyosi nxamnye nobusi.
Ayasabela njani amadoda
Indoda ayifezekisi ngokwaneleyo ukuba ibize iimvakalelo zakhe, kwaye ijika iguqukele kwinye yezi ntlobo zilandelayo. Imizekelo ethile yophawu sizokujonga ngakumbi.
Inkathalo evela kwingxaki. Umqondiso wokuqala kangangokuba le ndoda ithe yaqubha, xa ishiya intetho engamchaphazeli, endaweni yokuba ingakwenzi kwanto.
Ukunciphisa amava obuqu . Ngokoluvo lwam, le yenye yezona ndlela zimbi kakhulu zoluleko. Ukubandakanya kuba ethulwa nje kwinkcubeko ethetha isiRashiya. Siyakwazi ukuthelekisa kuphela abantu esivela kuthi, kwaye le yeyona nto iphambili ekufuneka uyiphume kuwe.
Jikelele. Umzamo ofanelekileyo kwaye ulumkile, bafana. Kodwa ayisebenzi, kuba ngusomashishini ovela kwisihloko esithile sengxoxo. Ngenxa yoko, i-jikelele ibangela ukuncipha kwamava obuqu.
Ukulandelelana okungafanelekanga. Oku kukwayindlela elungileyo, kodwa ingekrelekrele kancinane. Zonke iimpikiswano ezikwindlela enjalo ziyancitshiswa ukuba "kunye nabasetyhini nazo ...". Ayisebenzi kuba inkcubeko yoosolusapho ilolwa ukunyanzelwa kunye nokuqinisekiswa kwabasetyhini ngamadoda, hayi ngokwahlukileyo.
Amadoda ayibonisa njani impendulo kwaye kutheni kubi
Kwaye ngoku sibaleka kumagqabaza amadoda emigulutyeni yefleshi.
Amaxhoba ngokwawo atyhoboze
Olu lukhathalelo olusulungekileyo kwingxaki. Le mpikiswano ichasa isihloko sesona sibi kakhulu ngengxoxo "kukwenzakala". Kwi-Intanethi, ihlala ibizwa ngokuba ngu-English kwigama lesiNgesi "ixhoba", "ukutyholwa ngamaxhoba."
Guys, abafazi banelungelo lokwenza ngomzimba wabo yonke abayifunayo. Faka isicelo se-tattoos, ukubhoboza, ukuhombisa, i-epilacia, inxibe intambo, inxibe i-skilacia, inxibe i-skilaciam, inxibe i-skilaciam, inxibe i-skilaciam, inxibe i-skilaciam, inxibe naliphi na inani lamadoda nabafazi ngokwakho, benxila ngaphambi kokungafanelekanga kwibar.
Akukho nto idwelisiweyo ayiniki lungelo lilungelo lokucinga ukuba umfazi onjalo unyanzelekile ukuba alala naye.
"Kwakutheni ukuze ahambe emnyama," kutheni enxibe ngoluhlobo "," kutheni engakhange acele uncedo, "lukhawulezisa ukusuka kwintloko egulayo. Soloko umdlwenguli / ulwaphulo-mthetho. Nokuba "akayiqondi into ayenzayo", nokuba "ewe, wonke umntu uyayenza", nokuba "yena naye wavuma."
Kulungile, ngaba yingozi?
"Ewe, ucinga, bakutyala kancinci, hayi iswekile." Guys, le yeyona nto imbi kakhulu ukuba ukwimigaqo, - chaza amava omntu. Hayi kuphela ngabafazi, nabani na.
Ewe, kukulimala. Ukuba umfazi ufumana amava athile njengexhala, akaxabisekanga, unelungelo elipheleleyo. Unelungelo kwaye unelungelo lokuqonda kunye nokuhlala kwamava akho.
Zonke ezo zinto zenzakala ukuba uluntu luphuhla eluntwini.
Le yimpikiswano eqhelekileyo. Lo ngumxhasi ngamnye. Yima, kunye nabafazi ngekhonkrithi, ababengamava amaninzi abuhlungu ebuntwaneni nolutsha, xa bengekabikho "bahlamba iingqondo zamabhinqa."
Uzama nje ukuvala amehlo akho kwaye unganikeli ngxaki kwingxaki.
Ukuguqulelwa kwepolitiki
Mna, andikoyiki eli gama, i-oscionar ekuguquleleni amaqonga e-FARD kwindiza yezopolitiko. "Andoyiki ukuba ndinguLugankan," uMbuso wadlwengulwa iminyaka engama-25. " Abantu, yintoni ingxaki yakho ?!
Ngoku abathethi ngeengxaki zamalungelo endawo nenkululeko, kodwa malunga nembambano yamanye amazwe ebundlobongela obenziwa kwabasetyhini, ngaphandle kwezimvo zabo zezopolitiko.
Le yindlela yokulinganisa ngokubanzi. Uzama nje ukuvala amehlo akho kwaye unganikeli ngxaki kwingxaki.
Kufuneka bafunde ukuzikhusela
Umzamo ogqwesileyo wokukrola amava obuqu, kodwa hayi. Nawuphi na umfazi kufuneka abe nelungelo lokhuseleko. Kuyimfuneko ukulwa kuqala kubo bonke ngolwaphulo-mthetho, kwaye hayi ngezakhono ezingonelanga zamaxhoba ekuzikhubeleni.
Enye ingxaki yale ngxoxo-ukusuka kuye inyathelo elinye 'kwixhoba lenzekile', abafundanga ukuzikhusela kwangaphambili.
Andinguye umdlwenguli, kutheni bayibhala kwi-tepe yam epholileyo?
Bhuti, uzama ukuba kude nengxaki. Uyimveliso yenkcubeko. Ubuyisele abazali kunye neCaskos, ekona nabo, besokolisa abo batyabayo. Abakholelwa ukuba yintoni "abafazi bokwenene" kunye "namadoda okwenyani". Abo bahambayo ebaleni, apho nihleke, nihleke, nibe negazi.
Abafazi baphakamisa umbuzo malunga nengxaki yenkqubo, eyinxalenye apho ukhoyo, ukuba yinxalenye yenkqubo yengcinezelo yoosolusapho kwabasetyhini.
Ukususela kwimihla ngemihla, ukunika amahlaya ane-sexy kunye nabahlobo, uxhasa imeko ye-CVO. Ndineentloni, kodwa ndisanda kutshanje.
Kwimfumba yeemeko, asicingi nje ukuba sikwenza oko kwenzakala kwabasetyhini abonzakeleyo, ekujikeleze kakhulu, nokuba sithetha ngogonyamelo ngokuthe ngqo. Awunguye uAtakhov - awuhleki malunga neminanto phambi komntu oye watshona kufutshane?
"Ngaba ndicinga ngokucinga ngamabhinqa amkelekileyo? Okokuqala, ubona eFlashmob, baninzi kwindalo yakho, ayingabo intsomi. Okwesibini, onokuthi unciphise amava abo. Kwaye ukuba akunjalo, ke yindoda nje ekhohlakeleyo. Zivume kule nto kwaye uphile nayo.
Kwaye amadoda, nayo, ukhubekise kwaye udlwengulo / ubundlobongela abunasini
Le yenye yezona zinto zithandwayo ezingafanelekanga kubantu abangakhululekanga ukuba bacinge ngale ngxaki.
Bhuti, ubundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo buzibophelele kwiqela elinelungelo (amadoda) ngaphezulu kokungafunyanwanga (abafazi). Njengoko ndandibhale apha ngasentla, le yingxaki yenkqubo. Cinga: Ubundlobongela ngaphezulu kwamadoda sisiphumo senkqubo yengcinezelo yoosolusapho.
Ukususela ebuntwaneni, ufundiswa ukuba, abazali noluntu. Uqhele kule nto, uthatha isigqibo sezinto zakho. Kungenxa yoko le nto umntu efanele abe namandla, akafanele akhale, kufuneka akwazi ukuzikhusela nabathandekayo. Ngoku usentloko kwisigidi seempikiswano malunga ne-etology kunye nebhayoloji, ukuzingela i-Mammoths, ekupheliseni abantwana kunye nokukhusela abantwana. Ewe, kulungile, mhlawumbi usolusapho sisiphumo sendalo yethu. Kodwa sashiya izilwanyana kude. Iminyaka engamawaka amabini eyadlulayo, iTestamente Endala inomxholo othi "OCO OKO" wathatyathwa nguMthetho weGolide weMizyo. "Hambani nabanye ngendlela ofuna ukuza nawe."
Ngokubanzi, ubundlobongela obasengumntu asisiso sizathu sokungenisana. Uthetha ngenye ingxaki, yiba ulungile ukuba ungawavali amehlo akho.
Aba bafazi bafika ngokugqithileyo, ngoku wonke umntu watyhola ulwaphulo-mthetho
Jikelele. Abafazi abaninzi ababhale ngamava abo baphila ubomi obuqhelekileyo. Ubona abafazi abaqaqambileyo nabanomdla obengelwe yinxalenye yobomi babo balwa i-starchal qro. Ngaphandle kwabo, abangakwaziyo ukuhamba. Ngaphandle kwazo, abafazi bakho abaqhelekileyo abayi kuvula amehlo akho kumava akho okuba nzima.
Kwaye ewe, banelungelo elipheleleyo lokwenza oko, njengoko amaYuda asindileyo kwiinkampu zamaNazi ayenelungelo lokuyiqonda "yonke iJamani ingamaNazi."
Ewe, yonke i-crap, ngokweenkcukacha-mali kuphela i-xxxx yabasetyhini ngonyaka ngamnye ngonyaka badlwengulwa.
Iinkcukacha-manani ze-K-K-Combo: Unonophelo oluvela kwingxaki, ukuxhaphaka kunye nokuhla kwexabiso lamava obuqu. Ungakhumbula amanqaku ngokufa "kokusweleka kwentlekele enye, izigidi - izibalo."
Kodwa kwinyani ukuba usondele kwingxaki. Enkosi kwi-flashmob, ukuba awuvalwanga, kodwa funda nje amabali kwi-Hesteg, uza kubona ukuba mangaphi amatyala "adlwengulo" ngengqondo esemthethweni, kodwa ibangela ukuba buhlungu. Zininzi zazo kwindawo yakho, kodwa indlela yoosolusapho ingenzi nje ukuba abafazi bathule, ubanyanzela ukuba bacinge ukuba le yinto engalunganga kubo.
Yiva imizekelo ethile - ngoku kuthetha ngakumbi amanani ezibalo ezisemthethweni.
Abafazi banento yonke epholileyo, baqhubeka nabantu, kwaye bahlala iminyaka elishumi
Kwaye le yimvakalelo efanayo ye-K-K-combo: Unonophelo oluvela kwingxaki, ukuxhaphaka kunye nokuhla kwexabiso lamava obuqu. Asinguye wonke umntu ongapholileyo. Asinguye wonke umntu ohamba nabo abalingane.
Kwakhona, ekujikelezeni nina bafazi abaninzi benzakala kwaye boyika ukuthetha malunga nokwenzakala kwabo. Ngokwabuqu, uyixhasa le mvume ethe cwaka loluntu ngobundlobongela, kuba unomngcipheko ombalwa. Uzama ukufihla kule ngxaki ethile.
Ukuba unebhinqa elithandwayo, umfazi, oodade, iintombi, umama-uzibamba entlanganisweni. Khumbula ukuba uzama ukufihla, kubandakanya nengxaki yabo.
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