I-Canada Melanie Varna kunye nomyeni wakhe uGabbi wazalela abantwana abathathu unyaka omnye. Ngomhla weshumi elinanye ngo-Matshi 2013, izibulo zabo zazalwa, kwaye ngoMatshi 10, 2014 uMelanie wazala amawele amabini. U-Mellanie uthi wayenebhongo kakhulu ukuba umzimba wakhe uhlangane nayo yonke le nto, kodwa akayithandi indlela yakhe esipilini kwaphela. Kwaye wagqiba kweseshoni yefoto esondeleyo kwaye, kunye nomyeni wakhe, wagqiba kwelokuba athathe inxaxheba kwi-filtimer trina karey.
Esi sibini sitshatileyo sinebali lakhe, uMelanie wayeneengxaki ezimbini, unyana wabo wazalelwa kwindoda yakhe, kwaye emva kweenyanga ezintathu, uMelanie waqonda ukuba ukhulelwe kwakhona. Lonke ulonwabo olukhulu, kodwa waphulukana nentembelo kwinkangeleko yakhe.
U-Melanie uthi emva kokuzala, waqala waqalisa imifanekiso kaGoogle yabanye oomama. Kwaye, ewe, uyaqonda ukuba abantwana bami kuzo zonke ezi zinto zolula, besashenxisa isifuba, kodwa ingqondo yayihlekisa enye. Kwaye ezi yayizivavanywa ezingathandekiyo kakhulu kwaye ayizicingeli ukuzithemba kwakhe ngokwakho.
Inkqubo yokudubula kukaMelanie ichaza ngolu hlobo: "Kwakufana nokuqhekezwa kwemaski, andinalo ithuba lokuzoba isisu, ndimela umbono ofanelekileyo kwaye njalo. Ndaziva ndisesichengeni kwaye kwangaxeshanye ndigqonyele. "
U-Melanie uphinda ukuba konke oku yayiluhlobo oluthile lomzabalazo. "Iintsuku zidlula kangangokuba andinalo ixesha lokuthatha ishawa de umyeni wam avela emsebenzini. Ukuziva ubuntu bakho ngokwesondo kubo bonke abantu kuhlukile, kwaye ndiyazi, ndinengxaki entlokweni yam, umyeni wam ucinga ngayo kwaphela. Kodwa ndingathanda ukuzive ngathi uyandibona. "
"Abantwana batshintsha indlela endiziva ngayo. Ndifuna ukubakhulisa ukuze baqonde ngokulinganayo, babezithemba kunye nokuqonda okunzulu kobuhle. "
UGabby, oyindoda uMelanie, uthi ukudubula kuye kwanempembelelo kakhulu, kuba amadoda amaninzi akhathazekile nembonakalo yabo kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu kubo ukwazi ukuba bathini na ukuba bazazi ukuba yintoni iqabane labo.
"Ndingathanda kakhulu iifoto zethu ziphefumlelwe umntu. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba iya kuba ngumntu omnye okanye isibini. "
Ifoto yeMelanie ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
UMelanie uthi bacinga nomyeni wakhe, njengoko kwiminyaka yabo engama-50 iya kugxunguphala kwezi foto.
Oku kudubula bekunikelwe kubo bonke abantu basetyhini abakonelisekanga yinkangeleko yabo: "Yima ukuhlekisa, zithande, zithabathele phambili ngentloko ephezulu."
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