Ukuxoka akulungile - ukufundiswe oku ebuntwaneni, kulungile? Oku sele kuyiqalile yonke ngobuxoki oba bubuxoki bosindiso kunye nenye inkunkuma. Kodwa into omele uyenze ngokuzikhohlisa ayilunganga kwinto engathandabuzekiyo, ngesizathu esithile abatsho. Kodwa akukho nto! Siya kuvula amehlo akho!
Ukusukela ngoMvulo ndiza kuqala ubomi obutsha!
Ngowuphi umntu owenze ukuba ubomi obutsha bumele buqaliswe kuMvulo, kutheni ungacingeli ngoLwesihlanu? Okanye ukusuka ngoJanuwari 1, hayi, yithi, Ukusuka kwi-28? Inzululwazi (kwaye nathi) ayaziwa ngamatyala ombulelo, xa umntu edibana noNyaka oMtsha noOlivier naseChampagne, kwaye ngengomso uChabegne, kwaye ngengomso ngovuyo olo ngovuyo waya ejimini.
Okokuqala, uninzi lwee-GYMS azisebenzi nge-1 kaJanuwari. Okwesibini, ngelize, okanye ungowenze ntoni isiseko salooOlivier? Inokuba neentsuku ezintathu. Ke ukuba ufuna ukwenza into-yeka ukutshaya, yiya kwiholo, -Angalindi ngoMvulo. Ingakumbi ngoJanuwari 1. UMthetho ngoku!
Ndingaphulukana nobunzima xa ndifuna
Hayi awunakho. Ngaphandle koko, ngekhe ube semngciphekweni wethu, kwaye ngekhe ndiphile ngokusekwa kwe-cosmic jelly. Jonga kwinyaniso emehlweni - imiyalelo yeyomthetho ayikufuni kuwe. Kodwa esi asisiyo isizathu sokutya ukutya okukhawulezayo kwentaba okanye i-buns. Umqeqeshi ongendawo ukhawulezisa ngokukhawuleza kwaye unceda ekungeneni kwindlela elungileyo.
Ngapha koko, kucacile ukuba ukukholisa okumangalisayo kuya kuba ngumqeqeshi, kungcono kuwe. Akukho mali kumqeqeshi? Ewe, ezinye izinto ezemidlalo kunye nentombazana engendawo zikho (ngoku zingubani na, enkosi kwi-Cursor Hobby, i-Crossfit kwaye isebenze). Yiza ke, udibanise kwaye nomoya okhuphisana naye uya kumenza umsebenzi wakhe.
Ukudlula
Ngaba uhleli? Akukho nto! Kufuneka nje silale kancinci! Kugqirha? Ewe, akukho xesha. Imeko eqhelekileyo? Ngaba uyazi ukuba isimo sengqondo sokungakhathali kwimpilo yakhe siphelelwe yimiphumo? Hayi, akukho mfuneko yokuba ukuthula ngalunye kuqhutywa ukuyamkela kwi-Therapist. Kodwa ukuba unento engalunganga, emva koko ke kuvuthuza kuviwo. Ayizukuba mandundu kule, kwaye iya kukrakra.Ngendlela, abantu basetyhini abaninzi abayikhathalelanga iintsimbi eziphazamisayo, kwaye emva koko kuya kuba zizifo ezinzulu zomhlaza webele. Kodwa asoyikisi, kodwa buza nje: Yiba nalo impilo yakho.
Ngeli xesha sonke sonke sonke sonke
Uhlukanisiwe veki nganye kunye neeveki ezinesiqingatha. Uyalila abahlobo, uqala ubomi obutsha, kwaye ke wena ngenxa yesizathu esithile sidibana naye phantsi kolunye uhlobo lwendalo kwaye uyazazisa wonke umntu ukuba unawo ngonaphakade. Iintombi, ngendlela, mhlawumbi sele iuyithiyile kwezi zinto ziphambili: sele zigqitywe - nokuba zinye okanye azikho.
Ubuncinci ukubeka i-rains ye-componings kubahlobo-ziyintoni. Ngaphandle koko, inkunkuma ivela: Usondele ngendlela owakonileyo, watshintsha, wabetha kwaye unekhwele kwisikhundla ngasinye, bathetha, oko kuthetha, wonke umntu akazange avakalelwe, i-opo! Inombolo yokufa! "Ubuyele kule mint kwakhona." Wtf ?? Masicoce, ntombi. Ukuba ukhangele ngokwenene, wasela okanye wabetha, oko kungaphezulu kwesizathu esivakalayo sokuhlukana ngonaphakade. Awunakho ukujamelana nayo-bay e Nabhat kwaye ubaleke uye kwi-psychologist, ayayazi indlela yokusebenza nayo.
Ndiza kumnceda alungise!
Ibali lidala njengehlabathi. Wasela, wasebenzisa into engavumelekanga kwaye ekhokelele indlela yokuphila yaseBohemia. Apha uvele. Yonke into ijijekile ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa usasela, akazimiselanga ukutshintsha indlela yakhe yokuphila. Kodwa uyakholelwa ukuba amandla othando lwakho aya kuba nakho ukuyitshintsha kwaye amncede ahlukane nemikhwa eyingozi.
Kwaye ngoku - Yothuke! -inyaniso ezikrakra. Ukuba akafuni ukulungisa, awunamandla. Ewe kunjalo, unokunyamezela kwaye unethemba lokuhamba phambili. Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba kukho into eza kutshintsha kakhulu. Ngapha koko, ukuba akukho nzame yokwenza into kuye.
Uya kumshiya umfazi wakhe aze abuye
Haha, nantsi na apha ayinjalo. Ucinga ukuba, ukuba uphile i-15 (okanye ungakanani) emtshatweni (njengoko usitsho ngobomi), ngoku, ngoku uqhawule umtshato, eguqula ixesha elidlulileyo, atshata nawe Ngaba uza kuqala ngephepha elicocekileyo? Ndizicingela. Ewe kunjalo, umphefumlo unesisindo uyaphuculwa, kodwa oku kuyayimfuneko ukuba nenqwelwana nje yokukhula ngokomoya kunye nokukhanya, ukuze kunyuke ngokuzithandela kwintuthumbo yeminyaka eli-15.Kwaye zonke ezi ngxoxo malunga nesibakala sokuba akamqondi kwaye akayixhasi kwaye engayixhasi kwaye enengqondo yakhe njengebhokhwe, amaqanda asekhohlo akakufanelekeli, ukuba akenzi njalo. Ke ukuba sele unyaka (okanye ezimbini) uyakholelwa ekubeni izithembiso, ke lixesha lokuphelisa lo mba kwaye uqalise ukwakha ubomi bakho.
Umqeshi uya kuqaphela iitalente kwaye andindise
Kubonakala ngathi uhlala kwintsomi eyinyani, yinyani! Akukho mntu phawula italente yakho. Ngakumbi ukuba awubonisi kwaye ungaqwalaseli ingqalelo kubunkokeli kwimpumelelo yethu. Inqaku ayisiyiyo i-boss yinto embi. Ukongeza kuwe, kwaye izinto zigcwele. AKUKHO BIYI UKUQHALASELWA UKUGCINWA KWEENCWADANA ZEENDLELA. Ke ungalahleki kwaye ubonise ukuba uyayazi indlela! Imigodi ephindwe kabini ibuyela umva! Eyona nto iphambili kukukhetha umzuzu!
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