"Ingxaki ye-Aphaien ngezandla zakho ukuba ziphinde ziphinde ziphinde ziphinde zibuyele phi na iBhunga elingachanekanga. Kwaye kulungile, ukuba kuphela malunga nemicimbi yezinto ezibonakalayo, kodwa kutshanje ungene kwifashoni enkulu "yokuqonda" kwi-psychologlogy kwaye unyuke kumphefumlo womnye umntu. Ngaphandle kwesepha, ngokwemvelo.
Elona cebiso liyintle elivela kumaMelourchologists zengqondo ligama elithi "nje" ngaphandle kokuba bangaphumeleli.Uxolo nje, kuya kuba lula kuwe
Inkokeli engathandabuzekiyo yomlinganiso wethu. Yonke into icingelwa ukuba ixolele nantoni na, nabani na, nabani na: ukusuka kuburharha kwisondo okanye ubundlobongela obuphathekayo, ukuya kwilinge lokubulala. Ukhubekiswa, ekugqibeleni, amanzi athathwa, kwaye abantu bacwangciswe malunga neerobhothi, ke musa ukuba ngamavila, cinezela iqhosha eliguqula imvakalelo, kwaye uphile ngolonwabo.
Dibana nje
Ingcebiso elungileyo, ngamanye amaxesha iyanceda. Kodwa xa uyongeza ukunceda okanye ukwabelana nexhala malunga nento ongakhange uyenzele into ethile (ixesha, imali, ulwazi, kuvakala ngathi yinto yokugculela. QAPHELA nje kwaye yintoni? Ukuxilongwa kuya kunyamalala, abaqokeleli beentlobo zolwaphulo-mthetho baya kuba nembeko kwaye banomtsalane, baza kufa eCanada, kwaye kwiintsuku ezininzi ezisetyenziselwa iiyure ezingama-28? Kwaye, uxolo, ufumana malini, Mnu. Mnu, ndithini na?Zithande nje
Bendihlala, wawuphila iminyaka engamashumi amathathu emini ubudala, kwaye andikhathali. Kwaye emva koko ucebise umcebisi olungileyo, kwaye uzizisele ebunzi: I-Semen Semenovich! Iphi iqhosha ekwenzeni uthando? Sele isebenza ukutyhoboza. Luluphi ulonwabo, ukuba yonke into ilula kakhulu!
Yiba ngaphezulu kwale
Hayi, hayi ngengqondo, ephakamileyo ukuze abanye bahlekise abanye, umzekelo. Kwaye ngaphezulu koko kutyezwa nguwe. Ezinye zithambekele ngaphezulu ukuba ungathobeki, awunakuba njalo, kodwa kufanele. Okubangela umdla kukuba, mangaphi amabhinqa axhelwayo ngamadoda abo ayengaphezulu nje kwabo "Zakidonov" ngohlobo lokubethwa kunye nokuthuka? Ayikhuthazi ngokwenene!
Cinga ngoyena mbi
Ngayiphi ingqondo? Ngaba uyandifuna ndiyonwabile kukungakhathali komntu okanye ukwenzela ukuba kubekho kabini - kwaye ngenxa yobubi bakhe, kwaye kubantwana abafa kwingxabano yasemkhosini? Okanye, mhlawumbi, ngenxa yokuba eIndiya, uninzi lwabemi luyabethwa, isidima sam somntu siya kunyamalala okanye sizilungiselele?Cinga mhlawumbi wena ngokwakho
Ukuba umcebisi uyakholelwa ukuba asiyiqaphele eli binzana, "Ewe ukutshicela ukubakho, ndiye ndayindisa, okungenani ndinetyhefu-yonke ityhefu Iwayini! ". Kwimeko yoxinzelelo, sisenokungakuqondi okwenzekayo, kodwa uxinzelelo alunasiphelo, kwaye isimo sethu sengqondo sabo bacebisayo.
Tshata nje / utshata / utshatile / uthintele umntwana
Kwaye ukuba ayincedi, nje ukhalaza umyeni, umfazi okanye umntwana esitratweni kwaye azame enye into. Ngaba ubuthetha? Hayi? Kuyamangalisa ukuba, ngoba? Yonke into ifanele ibe lula!
Ngaphambi kokuba kunyanzelekile ukuba bacinge
Mhlawumbi kwakuyimfuneko, kuphela ukubiza eli binzana kumzuzu onzima xa ufuna uncedo kunye novelwano - ayilunganga kakhulu. Kwaye, Hee, eneneni ndicinge. Akukho ngaphantsi kwesiqingatha sexesha lokujika kwekamva singenakwenzeka ukuba singene, akukho mntu ucimeyo, kwaye ulawulo lwendalo luphumelele kukuziphatha kakuhle - intsomi emnandi.Yiyeke nje imeko
Eli cebiso lihlala linikezelwa hayi kwindawo esingayi khumbula amatyala xa kufanelekile. "Utitshala owothusayo uyaphosela umntwana wam ukuze abhale kwaye abhale, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba utshintshe isikolo apha, kuba andikwazi ukutshintsha umsebenzi wam wasekhaya ngeshedyuli yam yomsebenzi! Ke, ndingamhlangula njani umntwana? " - "Ungqwabalala, vumela le meko, yonke into iza kude." Dashtout.
Yibize nje elinye igama, kwaye ubudlelwane buza kutshintsha
Ewe, ukuba imeko ayinakutshintshwa kwingcambu, okanye ayiyi kuba yingozi kakhulu, kutheni ungazami. Kodwa kutheni le nto uyifumene i-euphe stumisms yexamaniso, uhlaselo, uburharha, ubuvila, kunye nokwenza ngathi? Ewe, emva koko, bakuthiye no-Euphemism, kuba imeko iza kuhlala ihleli uNadke.
Thatha uxanduva
Kucetywa kuphela ngohlobo lwe "yenza ngathi ukubetha akuzange kuthathe inxaxheba kuhlaselo." I-Samadavinovat kwi-orateper engaqhelekanga. Yitya ngokwakho, siya kuvuma. Ukuba unoxanduva ngezenzo zakho, oko akuthethi ukuba isenzo somnye umntu ngokunxulumene nawe sasingalunganga kwaye yintoni eyabenza imbopheleleko kuye.Iingcinga zilungile
Hayi ngengqondo yokuba unganikezeli kwaye ujonge ukuba zeziphi izibonelelo ezinokufundwa kwimeko okanye indlela yokuphuma kweyona ilahleko encinci. Oh hayi. Abalandeli bamaBhunga lezengqondo ngasemva kwegama elixhomekeke kwisalathiso esixabisekileyo sokuhlala phantsi, esonga izibambo, bavuye kwiimeko ezimbi kwaye, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba awonwabanga. Kwaye uyazi ukuba yintoni, sinike ukuba zonke iingcebiso ezidwelisiweyo zinesiseko esinye.
Ngokubanzi, ukuba ibhunga linegama elithi "nje", lihlala linokwenzeka nokuba liphulaphule.
Nangendlela. Iingcebiso zengqondo zobungcali aziniki. Mhlawumbi ngumzekelo wokubathatha?