Sineendaba ezimbi kuwe. Ubudlelwane ngumsebenzi. Yonke imihla, i-monotonous kwaye iyafana nokuhlamba izitya. Umsebenzi ekufuneka wenziwe, nokuba udiniwe kakhulu kwaye unomsindo omkhulu. Iindaba ezimnandi-ukuba ugcina impilo yokuziphatha kakuhle, yonke into iya kuphuma.
Imozulu efanelekileyo kunye nemvumelwano yokuhlala ayizukuvumela ukuqhawula umtshato, musa ukubulala omnye komnye kwaye mhlawumbi baphile kubazukulwana.Sukukhathazeka
Yonke into ilula kakhulu: akunakwenzeka ukuba ungaxabani. Yonke intsapho yobomi ishenxiswa yikhaphethi leesokisi, ityalwe ngeebhubhu ezingafakwanga izinyo, igcwele imali echithwe kuyo nayiphi na iminxeba yenkunkuma, kwaye ayiyi kuba yinto engaqhelekanga ukuba ixoxe ngayo yonke le nto kwimibala eyandisiweyo. Kodwa kukho ubuso obuncinci phakathi kwesidingo sokuxoxa ngeengxaki, isidingo sokukhupha izibini kunye netrasti yensimbi. Ngubani ongazange afezekise nto? Ngubani osoloko eshiya iinwele kwigumbi lokuhlambela? Ngubani ongakwaziyo ukwenza imali, upheke i-borch, uqhuba isikhonkwane? Ngubani ongayithathi le ntombazana apha, ekugqibeleni? Le yindlu encinci enjalo, egula linani elingagungqi bantu. Ubundlobongela basekhaya basekhaya bashiya imingxunya, njengokugcina ngentlabathi okanye isikhombisi se-Chubby. Kodwa musa ukwenza loo nto.
Nokuba ulungile, gcina
Nokuba uhlala ulungile. Nokuba sele uxelele iwaka amaxesha ukuba yonke into iza kuphela. Ngapha koko: kuba, uncume kwaye ucele uxolo. Kungenxa yokuba nantsi amagama amathathu, kwaye kuya kuba yinto engenakwenzeka ukuba ilungisa imeko kwaphela. Ekugqibeleni, umntu kufuneka abe nobulumko, kwaye kutheni kungenjalo omnye umntu. Isizathu sokuba ungquzulwano lwakho ayisiyomfuneko, kuba eyona nto iphambili, ebaluleke kakhulu, kuphela uthando kunye nomnqweno wokuhlala kunye. Kwaye ikratshi (kunye nemvakalelo "ndilungile" nguye, kunjalo, ukuba umntu akazeki mntu.Ungaze uthi "kwaye ndathetha!"
Wena usempilweni, kwaye ukuba uhleli phantsi kwaye ubale inani le-nonsen wenze ngexesha lokunika ingxelo, kuyavela ukuba ubuncinci kungaphantsi kweqabane lakho. Kuba sonke asifezekanga.
Ukungakhathali abanye abahlobo
Abahlobo yayiliqabane lakho kuwe. Kwaye, ukuba uqhubeka kwithambo elinye, uya kuba emva. Ewe, le yisazisi. Okanye la mayeza enxila, i-non-tech soul, kunye nemikhwa eqanduyo, i-gossips mantombazana. Ngesizathu esithile, isiqingatha sakho sesibini usikhetha kwaye sikholelwa ukuba bayayixhasa. Ngendlela, wakukhetha nawe, esi siqingatha. Ycinge.Sukukhathazeka
Akukho mntu ufuna ukuzincama rhoqo (nangona i-massuge yemihla ngemihla ingabathinteli nabani na), kodwa ukujikeleza iminqweno, imigaqo kunye neemfuno zeqabane- hayi kunzima kakhulu kwaye ziphantse zibe nzima kakhulu. Kwaye ukuba amaxesha ngamaxesha ukubeka le minqweno, imigaqo kunye neemfuno eziphezulu kakhulu kunezabo, amaxabiso aziyi kuba.
Sukukhampasi kwiqabane
Akukho sidingo sokulindela ukuba, masitsho, iya kuhlala ipheka. Kwaye uya kuhlala ehlawula izinto ezibonakalayo. Uze wenze imali. Kwaye kwaye inkqonkqoze iinzipho. Kwaye uqhube imoto. Kwaye hlamba umgangatho. Kwaye uxhome ishelufu. Kwaye enye ngaphezulu. Ekugqibeleni, umnandi uya kugula kwaye kufuneka atye imipu, alandelwa kwivenkile. Okanye uyagula umhle, kwaye akukho mntu uya kuxhoma ishelufu, yenza imali, ahlawule amatyala, uqhuba isikhonkwane kwaye uhlamba umhlaba. Ewe, okanye kungekudala, umntu yinto ediniweyo apho kukholelwa ukuba "kufanele ukuba" yinyani nje yobukho bakho.... entabeni kwaye ngovuyo
Nabani na uyayazi indlela yokuxhasa iqabane xa ubomi bakhe bube nesitshixo emsebenzini, ukwanda kufuneka kuphuculwe, iiprojekthi ziphumelele kwaye yonke into ithengiswa ngempempe. Nangona, kunjalo, ayinguye wonke umntu, kuba imeko enjalo ihlala inxulumana neentsuku ezili-12 zomsebenzi, i-nerves kunye nokungakhathali. Kodwa zama ukuxhasa umntu kwi-verge yokugxothwa, kuxinzelelo, ngokuxhomekeka ekubeni umphathi ungumntu oqingqiweyo, kwaye abaphantsi zii-morone ezinamavila kwaye ezingenangqondo kwaye ezingenangqondo zingenamavila. Kucacile ukuba indlela yokuqala yokuphendula iphoxekile kwaye "kwaye ndithetha!". Ngoku kunjalo ngalo mzuzu xa ingeyonto ibalaseleyo yokukhumbula izifungo zomtshato.
Yanga. Isantya. I-lasoo
Ubuncinci yonke imihla. Ukuba awuyenzi le nto - omnye umntu uza kuyenza.I-Romance yindlela yokufumana i-Nail kwaye uxhome ishelufu
Sifuna ukuba, kwaye kulungile - ukuzenza ngokwam.
Nquma
Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka uphume nje uvale ucango emva kwakho - kodwa emva koko ubuye. Ingxaki yile nto inzima kakhulu ekufuneka yenziwe. Kuba kwityala elinye iya kuphuma "ndaya kunimathu," kwelinye - "kufuneka sisele kunye namakhwenkwe" kwaye ekugqibeleni asizukucombulula naziphi na iingxaki, kodwa mhlawumbi wongeza. Kwaye nangona kunjalo ukwahlukana, ukwenza into eyahlukileyo, cinga nokuthula ngamanye amaxesha kuyenzeka ngokupheleleyo. Iindlela ezilungileyo zokunceda uhambo olude lweshishini. Ukusebenza kuhambo kwi-steppe ye-Inner Mongolia, ukupapashwa kwesityalo esitsha eSiberia, ukwakhiwa kwepayipi yegesi kwiNtshona India.Pheka, nokuba akukho mandla
Ukuba ubuyekile ekhaya ongumlinganiso, kuba umphathi ungumntu osisidenge, kwaye ophantsi - abantu abangenangqondo nabangenangqondo, ngelo xesha kuya kuphela ukuba iqabane lakho libe libi nangakumbi. Kwaye ayenziwanga ngqo, ngumthetho wokuba sithetha. Kwaye apha kufuneka uphefumle, ucofe amazinyo akho kwaye kwangaxeshanye uncume, yiza iti, hug, console kwaye uchwayitile. Kuba ke ngenye imini iya kwenza nawe.
Fumana ixesha
Ndixakekile? Umsebenzi omninzi? Qiniseka ukuba kunjalo, kufuneka ube nexesha lokunikela ingqalelo kwiqabane. Isidlo sangokuhlwa sinamakhandlela okanye, umzekelo, ukulala ebhedini kunye nokungena ngaphakathi-ubuncinci ngenxa yexabiso lexabiso lexabiso lesibini musa ukulibala ukuba usehlabathini.Ubumnandi
Kwaye inqaku apha alikho kuphela ngesondo kuphela, nangona kunjalo. Ekuqaleni kobudlelwane owawungcungcuthekisayo ovela kuvuyo ukuba ube kufutshane kwaye ubambelele kwisiphatho (kakuhle, okanye elinye inxenye yomzimba). Le mvakalelo kufuneka ikhunjulwe amaxesha ngamaxesha kwaye iphinde iphinde iphinde (kodwa ayixeli!).
Ukuthetha
Kufanelekile ukuba uthethe kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Malunga nomsebenzi, malunga nesikhonkwane kwaye ukupeyinta ishelufu, malunga nezicwangciso kunye neenkumbulo, malunga nothando kunye neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zekofu. Ekugqibeleni, enokuthetha nabani?