Ngelixa kuphela uyalila ukuba iziko lentsapho liyatshatyalaliswa, abanye bathi uyavela, ephendula kwimiceli mngeni yexesha, kwaye ekhumbula ukuba usapho esasiqhele ukulubona ngokubhekisele kolunye uhlobo losapho ubudlelwane.
Apha kungenzeka ukuba uqale umculo womsebenzi, kodwa asiyi. Oku kudala kuthi akusayi kubaleka, kungcono kakhulu ukulungisa ukutshintsha ngokukhawuleza okukhoyo. Xa intlalontle ithetha ngohlobo olutsha losapho, usapho lukamama ongatshatanga kunye nomntwana lufika engqondweni, omnye umtshato wasimahla, owesithathu - umtshato uyalingana. Kodwa kukho olunye uhlobo olutsha. Kwavela ngenxa yokusasazeka koqhawulo mtshato. Ngoku, xa uqhawulo-mtshato luye lwasonjululwa kungekuphela nje, ukuba amaqabane afumileyo, ephucule imitshato emitsha, exhasa ubudlelwane obuhle omnye komnye, kunye notata notata kuphela, bethanda kakhulu Bobabini abazali kunye nobuhlobo bobuhlobo nabazalwana noodade abazana nabo.Sicele abafazi abane ukuba baxele ngendlela iintsapho zabo ezandisiweyo ezivela kubabini kunye nabantwana babo baphila.
Moscow
Mna nomyeni wam saqhawula umtshato kwiminyaka emithandathu eyadlulayo, kwiminyaka emine eyadlulayo ndatshata, watshata. Sineentombi ezimbini kunye naye (iminyaka eli-11 neli-9 ubudala), kwinkosikazi entsha yonyana wam wangaphambili (iminyaka emi-8 ubudala), sonke sicinga ngabantwana abatsha kwimitshato emitsha, kodwa asiboni thuba lezemali. Kulapho abantwana bekhula kwaye besebenza, ngandlela thile babonelela ngeemfuno zabo, ke, mhlawumbi, kwaye baqale.
Bonke abantu abadala banolwalamano oluhle, ingelulo olo thando-uthando kunye nobuhlobo bubuhlobo, sijonga nje ukuba sinentsapho enkulu, kwaye nabazali bethu baqhele oko. Oku akuthethi ukuba sihlala kunye: kwaye amagumbi kunye nohlahlo-lwabiwo mali esizahlulileyo. Amantombazana am achitha ubusuku ngeempelaveki, ngokugqibeleleyo apho achitha ixesha nomzalwana ohlanganisiweyo (akana "uStata" weCawa "Hayi).
Sibambe iiholide zonke kunye (songeza i-ex yam kwaye ndinayo), sonke sinako ukudibana ukuze sixhase umntu ovela kubantwana ngentetho, ekuphinini kwezemidlalo. Umyeni wam waphuculwa kwiimeko ezinjalo ukuba anxibe i-bandans efanayo, kubonakala ngathi siliqela labalandeli babantwana. Abantwana baya kwizangqa ezifanayo (ukuqubha, i-Aikido kunye nemodeli yodongwe) kwaye uhlale unobuhlobo. Mhlawumbi usapho lwethu olukhulu lunobuhlobo ngokubanzi kunakwindawo yam. Mhlawumbi inyani kukuba siphila ngokusodwa omnye komnye, nabazali bam kunye nomninawa wam - kwelinye icala laseMoscow.
I-Rostov-on-don
Saqhawula umtshato phantse kumyeni wam odlulileyo, sinomntwana oqhelekileyo (unyana, iminyaka eli-16 ubudala) kunye nabantwana abavela kwimitshato emitsha (ndinomnye unyana, iminyaka emi-5 ubudala). Zombini iintsapho zethu azinamthetho, mhlawumbi kule meko, kodwa kwakulula ukuba samkele ukuba siye kwinqanaba elithile kwizalamane. Ngapha koko, siye safumanisa ngokukhawuleza ukuba kuyanceda - ukugcina ubudlelwane bosapho. Okokuqala, thina kumyeni wethu wangaphambili sasiyindlu yekhaya; Asizange sabelane ngayo, kodwa amandla aqhelekileyo avunyelwa kwaye aphumle ehlotyeni, nonke kunye, kuquka nonyana womtshato wam wokuqala kumtshato wakhe wokuqala (iminyaka eli-11 ubudala).
Xa ukhokelwa kuqoqosho oludibeneyo, kuyavela ngakumbi. Eyona nto iphambili kukuhambisa indawo yoxanduva, ukuze ungacaphuki, usukele ekhitshini, umzekelo. Thina, njengakwiqela, sixoxe ngayo yonke into, khawuleza uthathe isigqibo sokuba ngubani kwaye yintoni, nayo yonke into ihamba ngokugqibeleleyo. Xa safumanisa ukuba ehlotyeni, ngenkcitho yokuthenga izinto ezidibeneyo kunye nokupheka, sichitha imali encinci, sagqiba kwelokuba senze inxenye yokuthenga kunyaka wonke, ngesininzi. Ukongeza, ezinye zeengubo needyys zihamba emntwaneni ukuya emntwaneni, kuyalungeleka kwaye kuqoqosho. Unyana oqhelekileyo ngempelaveki akaveli kum kwaye akangoba nguBawo, kodwa xa etyelela umakhulu notatomkhulu kunye notatomkhulu - bazali bam, bayamthanda kakhulu. Nyana wam womyeni wam ngale mihla, ngokulandelelana, uya kuchitha ubusuku. Abantwana badibana omnye komnye, nangona benza umahluko kubudala babahlobo be-quadric ukuba baphazamise. Kodwa bonke baziva ukuba banosapho, abantu babo abaya kuhlala bexhasa, kubalulekile.
Kiev
Ndandinomyeni onzima kakhulu, kodwa ndakhawuleza ndathwele nodadewabo kunye noodade bosapho, bavulekile, bavuya kwaye banobuhlobo, kuquka nabazali bomyeni wakhe womyeni wakhe nomtshana wam. Ndikunye nomyeni wam, sahlukana kakubi, kwaye andisatyhani na yena, kwaye akamvusi ukuba anxibelelane nentombi yethu (iminyaka emi-6). Kodwa emva koqhawulo-mtshato, omnye udadewabo wangaphambili wathi ndihlala ndihlala ndihlala nomhlobo wakhe kunye nonina wabatshana bakhe kwaye uya kuba nemihlali ukuba ndihlala ndimdala, omnye umntu omdala. Kwaye udade bowokuqala nosapho lwakhe basinceda kwaye asincede sincede, kungekuphela kwemali (nditshatile, ndatshata, ndaye ndaqala ukuhlala nomntwana - kukho Akukho mfundo nayo), kodwa nayo.
Rhoqo sihlala siye komnye nomhlobo, siphila ngokoqobo kwizindlu ezingabamelwane, sincedane ukuze siphume. Sinesidlo sangokuhlwa kunye nentombi yam ngeentsuku zeveki, isidlo sangokuhlwa kunye nodadewethu kunye nonina kunye nonina kunye nonina bahlangana, kuguqukele kule nkqubo, xoxa ngeendaba. Malunga neenyanga ezimbini ezidlulileyo, bendinomfana endithandana naye, kwaye naye wamkela ngokufudumeleyo, ngamanye amaxesha uyandikhwelisa ukuba ndityelele usapho lwalo dade ngempelaveki. Hayi kulo lonke usapho olukhulu lube luhle, ndiyacinga, kodwa ngobuhlobo kwaye luchwayitile, ngolu hlobo - lonwabo nje lokwenene. Kunyaka olandelayo, iintombi zethu ziya esikolweni kunye, sifuna ukurekhoda kwiklasi enye.
I-St. Petersburg
Sinebali elingaqhelekanga ngokubanzi. Indoda endandiye yangaphambili kwaye eyakho yayikukuba ngabahlobo ababhetele, batshata, emva koko batshatane minyaka le ezimbalwa bathandana nabafazi bomnye, oko kukuthi, umyeni wam wakudala watshata nomfazi wangaphambili. Ekuqaleni, le meko yayiyoyikeka, lonke ixesha iqondwe, kodwa emva koko wazola, waqhawula umtshato kwaye waqhawula umtshato. Kwaye baqonda ukuba asifuni kuphulukana nomnye, kuba sonke singabantu abalungileyo abafuna ukuphathwa.
Kumtshato wokuqala, sasingenanyana, ngoku siphantse sazala umntwana, ndinentombazana, kwinkwenkwe yam, phantse iminyaka emithathu. Sonke sihlala kwiyadi enye, kwaye ngokukhawuleza nangentombazana yomfazi wam siziqhelanisa nokukhathalela abantwana, yafumana ithuba lokuphumla. Amadoda ahlengahlengiswa nje ukupheka. Ukongeza, senza inxenye yokuthenga kunye, umzekelo, iikati zethu kulula ukuthenga ukutya eninzi, iimveliso zikwalula kwaye zixabiso eliphantsi kakhulu. Xa abantwana besiba mdala, siceba ukuba siye kuphumla kwenye indawo, ngoko kufanele ukuba ibe yingabizi. Abazali bethu bamangaliswa ekuqaleni, kodwa abazali bam bakwangoku nabakwabasebaninzi babengabahlobo ixesha elide, kwaye abafazi bam nabafazi bam bagqibe kwelokuba abantu abancinci babhetele kunengxabano elungileyo, kunye ne thina sonke. Abakwazi kusinceda kakhulu, kwaye sisanayo.
UNyaka oMtsha siza kudibana nesikhokelo: i, umyeni wam, umyeni wam wangaphambili, ungumyeni wam (ungumyeni wam) nabantwana. Ngapha koko, iya kuba ngunyaka wokuqala, onokuthi ngamnye wethu angadibana nosapho lwabazali. Ndiyathemba ukuba le iya kuba sisiqalo sekomiti yosapho. Ngamanye amaxesha sibuzwa ukuba asiqhubeki ukuba singalalanga, kodwa kudala sizilungiselele ubudlelwane, asisitsali. Asikaze nabanye abantu kwaye sifune ukuba sihlale.
Inqaku lilungisiwe: Lilith mazikina