Xa umsindo kunye nokucaphukisa kunokuvakaliswa ngokufanelekileyo, akumnandi, kodwa nje. Ukuba umntu uthi "Usidenge" - Ngayo yonke imiyalezo yomyalezo, sisaqonde ngokucacileyo ukuba kunobukrwada, kwaye sinokuthatha isigqibo malunga ne-Ray (i-Bay okanye impendulo Yala ukungena kwimbambano, uyishiya isazela (ayisiyonyani leyo).
Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwabantu abafundileyo bathatha ubundlobongela obufutshane phantsi komsebenzi. Imvakalelo yokungayeki naphi na, kwaye ke sinamagqabantshintshi angama-500 otyhakala phantsi kwezithuba eziphantsi.
Kutheni ubugqwetha obungenayo bunzima ngakumbi? Okokuqala, kuba kunobungozi, kwaye enyanisweni akunikeli ilungelo lokuziphatha lokuphendula ubundlobongela obuthe ngqo, hayi oku kuhlawulela lo mntu ngokwakhe uzixhasa. Ngamanye amaxesha ugutyungelwe kakhulu, osoloko kunzima ukuyibamba, kodwa ushiya ityhefu yetyhefu. Olu lukhuni, injongo yoko kukudibanisa ukucaphukisa kwaye uzive ukuphakama.
Ixabiso Ubundlobongela Ngaba naziphi na iintetho ezijolise ekunyanzeleni ukuba sizive simbi kakhulu. Ubundlobongela obungenamlomo ngamabinzana afanayo okanye oba mandundu ngakumbi njengenye into. Kodwa imaski ayitshintshi intsingiselo, kwaye yiyo le nto sihlala siyifumana, nokuba sibamba, kodwa sivakalelwa kukuba sihlaselwa.
Ingxabano ikhula ngokwemeko yemeko - ihlazo elityhafileyo - i-AChotakova "," yona ngokwakhe waziphakamisa. " Oko kukuthi, umsindo kuqala uhlasele uhlaselo olufihlakeleyo, emva koko uzama ukubonisa ukuba akazange ahlasele amacebiso "), aze anciphise ithemba ngenxa yokubuyela kwidini.
Ungafumanisa njani?
Ngqo ngqo Oko kukuthiwayo ngokuhla kwexabiso: "OKO 'nguBrade Bhala", "Bhala,", "," i-Grobage ".
Ukwala ngokungathanga ngqo Oko kwathethwa ngokucaciswa kwemithombo yolwazi: "Amakhonkco kwiStudio", "apho uyithathileyo", "Ngubani oxelele".
Umvavanyi uthatha ilungelo lokumelana notitshala wokufunda kwaye afune inkcazo. Imfazwe kwiinjongo ezifihlakeleyo: "Akucaci into yokuba ungaboniswanga", "thenga ngokwakho imbasa. "
Umgcini we-galleva uyakholelwa ukuba ubambelele nyani, kwaye kubalulekile ukuvula umhlaba.
Ubungqina bubuxoki obungalunganga : "Kwaye ayinakwenzeka", "siyayazi."
Ukunyanzeliswa kwetyala : "Kwaye abantwana beembaleki phakathi kwabo babulawa yindlala."
Ingcebiso ngokuthe ngqo njani : "Kungangcono", "kuya kuba lula", "amanqaku", "Yibani nemihlali", "kwaye yonke into, ngegama elithi" idinga "ekuqaleni .
Ingcebiso engathanga ngqo njani Ngokubhekisele kwinyaniso ethile: "Bonke abantu abaqhelekileyo", "kodwa ngumfazi wokwenene."
Inkanuko yovelwano : "Uxolo ngawe," "bantwana abangamahlwempu."
Clikouty : "Wayothusa", "Yintoni onokuyilindela", "ngokukhula."
Ukuthelekiswa okungafunekiyo okungafuneki (Idyasi emhlophe): "Yiyo le nto, kodwa" kwaye ngoku andisoze.
Ukuhla kwexabiso : "Ke, kwaye ukusukela", "nolowufunekayo," "Kwaye kutheni le nto ubhala," waziwa ke wonke umntu "
Ukugwetywa ngokungathanga ngqo : "Onje ngawe".
I-Gramma nize. Ukunika izimvo zikawonke-wonke kwizimpazamo zenye ngokuziphatha, indlela yokuphawula esidlangalaleni ngamabala kwisibophelelo.
Uqikelelo nje , amaxesha amaninzi angenanto yakwenza nawe kwaye utshilo. Bahlukile kwinto yokuba abanalo naluphi na unxibelelwano olusengqiqweni nale apha ngasentla, kodwa kwangaxeshanye banoburharha, kwaye uthi kwisikhundla sezizathu.
Thetha ngombhali kumntu wesithathu Kumagqabaza angqalileyo: "Ngalo lonke ixesha", "ulula."
Ukusilela ukusabela Emva kobundlobongela obungenasiphelo: "Njengoko nje ufuna ukuma ngaphandle, kodwa andizukuphikisana, umhlaba luhlobo lweGum."
Thuthuzela -Ungayi kubhalela, kucacile ukuba sele kuthathwa njengobuhluphi ngqo.
Kutheni le nto zonke ezi chiza ukuze ndicaphukise?
Kuba ba) bazama ukuzinika ukhathalelo, ingqwalaselo, ingxoxo, okwangoku, ukubanjiswa okufihliweyo komsindo onjalo. b) Emva kwenjongo yokuthobela i-sodresee kwaye iphakamise isithethi kwaye c) zenziwe ngaphandle kwesicelo.
Inqaku elibonisa ukuba "ndi" kuninzi (emva kwayo yonke loo nto, umbhali uzama ukungabi nakuphathelele), iinkcazo zihamba ngokungathi ubuso 'bonke ", ongenguye".
Ungasabela njani?
Ndiyila into yokuba ndikuqwalasele okwenzekayo ukuba krwada kumyalezo. "Andithandeki xa", "andithandi xa."
Ukuba i-classic ye-classion ye-Grain iqhubeka ikwindlela ye "Achotakova", "ndivakalisa nje umbono", "apho ubonile" - ndingacacisa ukuba ibuhlungu, icebiso elingekazalwa lingathandekiyo mna. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu bakulungele ukuva, ndilungele ukuva xa umntu othile okhubekisayo.
Ukuba i-Comral ye-Grain iqhubeka kwisitayile "akufuneki ukuba ibonakalise iingxaki" - ndiphendula ukuba ishishini lam liyichola, umsebenzi wakho ukuba uve okanye hayi. Kwaye ndiyaphuma kwincoko. Ngamanye amaxesha ndihamba ngaphambili. Ngamanye amaxesha andibonisi ukuba inqanaba lilonke lomnxibelelanisi likuvumela ukuba cinga ukuba le yindlela yokunxibelelana esemgangathweni.
Ungawahlula njani kwimfesane, inzala, ixhala?
Umntu ofuna uncedo ngokunyaniseka, kodwa uxelwe ngendlela enobundlongondlongo, ubukhulu becala uve kuwe kwaye okanye ucele uxolo, okanye uhlengahlengise. Ukuba uye kumjikelo wesibini okanye wesithathu wobutyala 'ndinelungelo lokufumana izimvo "," akukho nto ikhutyekisiweyo apha, emva koko ubone ingongoma ngasentla.Hayi indlela yokungabi ngumsindo?
Ukuba usukelo lwam 'kukunceda ", yenza ukuba ilizwe libe ngcono, ukuze lithethe, liyayinyanzela ukuba iyeke kwaye icinge ngendlela oyibhala ngayo. Injongo yam iyatshintsha ukusuka ekubonakaliseni iimvakalelo zakho ukufezekisa incoko ukuba uza kuva kuyo. Kuya kufuneka ndithethe impendulo izihlandlo ezininzi entlokweni yam ngaphambi kokujikeleza amagama afunekayo, anyanisekileyo. Kwaye ke into ibonakala izalwe:
"Ndiyayiqonda imeko yakho, kodwa amava am akandivumeli ukuba ndivumelane nayo." (Vakalisa ukungavisisani)
"Andifuni ukukhwela neengcebiso, kodwa kwimeko enjalo yandinceda into kwaye ukuba ufuna, ndingathi" (Nika ilungelo lokufumana ingcebiso okanye hayi)
"Ndifunde incwadi, kwathiwa" (funda ngaphandle kwengcebiso)
Andinakuthelekiswa, sineemeko ezahlukeneyo, kodwa kwimeko yam ... "(ngokungavumiyo okuthe ngqo kuthelekiso, amava obuqu)
Kwaye ukuba akukho mandla okunqanda umsindo olungisayo, emva koko ubuncinci uyazi:
Ndiyazi ukuba ndiza kuvakalelwa ndinoxanduva, kodwa kum oko ndiyoyikeka "(ndingumyalezo, ukuqonda kwengxaki yam).
Kwaye ekugqibeleni. Akukho namnye kuthi osisithunywa, kwaye ndineminyaka engama-Ulcery kwaye nditsala. Kwaye, ukwazi ngayo, ndiqala nam. Isakhono sokuthetha ngokungavisisani ngentlonelo kwaye ngokuthe ngqo kukungabikho kwengxoxo egcwalisiweyo, enomdla, eyokwimifanekiso ethi "Eli lilungelo" ngekhe kwenzeke. Kwaye obu bubutyebi.