"Andikhulelwa!" - UJennifer Aniston malunga nendlela uluntu ukuba lulandele njani umzimba obhinqileyo

Kutshanje, uJennifer Aniston uphantsi kwenyameko yentatheli ngenxa yokukhulelwa kwayo. Umdlali weqonga kunye nomvelisi udiniwe yindlela yokuziphatha kunye nokuhleba kwaye wabhala ikholamu yesithuba seHuffington, esipapashayo esiguqulweyo.

Ndiza kuqala ngenyaniso yokuba ndikuthiyile ukuhleba kwaye ndingazichithi. Andithandi ukuchitha amandla kwinkqubo eyakhiwe ngobuxoki, ndifuna ukuthetha okungakumbi kwihlabathi lonke, ndixhasa isihloko esele sitshisiwe kwaye sisaza kuthiwa. Kuba andinazo iiakhawunti kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo, ndagqiba kwelokuba ndibhale le kholamu.

Rekhoda: Andikhulelwa. Ndiwuva lo qatha. Ukulungelelanisa ekuqinisekisweni kwesi sihloko kunye nesithsaba somzimba, esikubonayo ukubizwa kumhla ngemihla kubizwa ngokuba "kukuqonda", "ukuqala komthi", "Iinkwenkwezi".

Yonke imihla mna kunye nomyeni wam basukela iifoto ezinomsindo-abasemsebenzini ekufuphi nekhaya lethu kwaye belungele yonke into ukuthatha eminye imifanekiso, nokuba sisoyikisa okanye abahamba ngeenyawo, nto leyo eyayikhutshelwe kufutshane. Nangona kunjalo, asithethi ngokhuseleko loluntu-ndifuna ukunikela ingqalelo kwinkalo ebaluleke kakhulu yomsebenzi weetabloids.

Ukuba ndiluphazisile abantu abaninzi, kuyacaca ukuba i-prosm i-proism, apho uluntu lwethu lubona oomama, iintombi, oodade, abafazi, nabafazi kunye neentombi nakwabasebenza nabo.

Ukukhuseleka kwendawo kunye nokuthathelwa ingqalelo apho abo basetyhini bavezwe bengaboni nabuthathaka kwaye baphazamise kakhulu ebomini.

Indlela endiboniswe ngayo kwimithombo yeendaba kukubonakalisa nje umbono wabasetyhini xa iyonke, ngokusekelwe kwiimbekiselo zobuhle. Ngamanye amaxesha inkcubeko yezimo zengqondo eya kubasetyhini kufuneka ijonge ecaleni ukuya kubona ngokungafihlisiyo ngokungakhathali - imvume yokwamkelwa kwabantwana abeyo Kwaye sinoxanduva loku. Amantombazana avela ebuntwaneni afunxa iingcinga: Amantombazana ambi, ukuba akangabi, ababizi themba, ukuba abajongi njengezilwanyana ze-glos, esinovuyo esilusayo. Amantombazana abe ngabasetyhini kwaye baphila kumandla ale mifanekiso.

Sisebenzisa "iindaba zenkanyezi" ukukhusela imbono yokufumana abantu basetyhini, ngokusekwe kwinkangeleko, eguqulwe i-tabliaids iguqulwe yaba yinto enesidima esingenasiphelo. Ukhulelwe? Ngaba uyatya kakhulu? Ngaba uyifumene lonke ingcwaba? Mhlawumbi umtshato wakhe usekwe, kuba kwifoto ungayibona "ukungafezeki '?

Bendihlala ndiqinisekile ukuba ii-tabloids zezona midlalo mazingafanele zithathwe nzulu, yisepha nje ye-Opera kwabo bafuna ukuphumla kunye nokuphazamisa. Kodwa akusekho sanda ndingakwazi ukucinga njalo, kuba mna sidibene nenyaniso ebonisa indlela thina ngamashumi eminyaka.

Umzekelo, inyanga ephelileyo yandibonisa indlela ukubaluleka komfazi emehlweni ethu kuxhomekeke kubume bayo bomfazi wakhe nonina. Inani elikhulu leempapasho linikelwe kuloo nto, ndikhulelwe okanye ndingelilo (kwithuba elisikhulu, kodwa elinokucinga), ebonisa indlela engonwabanga, engonwabisiyo kwaye ayiphumelelanga ukuba yona ayitshatanga kwaye ayinabantwana. Ngeli xesha, kwenziwa ukubulawa kwabantu abaninzi, imililo yehlathi igqityiwe, iinkqubo ezikwimeko ephezulu yagqitywa kwiNkundla ePhakamileyo, oko kukuthi, zininzi izihloko "iintatheli" zawo namandla abo.

Kwaye yile nto ndifuna ukuyithetha: Sizele liqabane kwaye ngaphandle komntwana ngaphandle kwawo. Thina sikwaziyo ukuthatha isigqibo sokuba yintoni emnandi xa kufikwa emzimbeni wethu. Esi sisisombululo sethu kwaye kuphela.

Ndidiniwe kukuba yinxalenye yabo bonke obu buhlanya. Ewe, ngenye imini ndinokuba ngumama, kwaye, kuba ndayiqonda le ncoko, ke, ndiqala ukuba ngawo konke uya kufunda ngawo kum. Kodwa andiyeki ukuba umama wam, andiziva ndiphantsi njengoko usenokucinga ngokufunda iindaba kwisibini saseGlianz. Ndicaphukile ukuba ndinyanzelise imvakalelo eyahlukileyo yakho.

Umzimba wam uyatshintsha, kwaye / okanye nditye i-burger yesidlo sasemini okanye ndatsalwa phantsi kwekona engaqhelekanga kwaye ndakhawuleza. Zimbini kuphela iindlela onokukhetha kuzo: ukhulelwe okanye utyebile. Andithethi ngemvakalelo ebuhlungu, endivakalelwa ngayo xa ivumba leza kuvuyisa kakhulu kubahlobo, izihlobo, izalamane kunye namaxesha osuku (kunye ne-10 ngosuku).

Iminyaka emininzi yonxibelelwano kunye ne-tabloid indixelela ukuba kungekudala akunakwenzeka ukuba utshintshe into. Imeko inokubuyisela isimo sethu sengqondo malunga nezixhobo eziyingozi kumatshini, ophantsi kwesikhokelo samabali angenayo, inyanzelise iingcinga zobuxoki malunga nokuba ngubani. Nathi ke kufuneka sigqibe kwelokuba sithenge okanye singeyiyo into esiyinikelayo, kwaye, kunokwenzeka, kungekudala la magazini azokuyeka ukuhlawula nayiphi na into engeyiyo.

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