Abazali babafundi besikolo samabanga aphakamileyo ngo-Evation weholide yehlobo baqala ukucinga malunga nento eyenziwa ngumntwana wabo ehlotyeni. Bhalela umakhulu ukuba anike ubuncwane oneminyaka eli-14 kungekuphela nje ngenkani, kodwa ingozi- ngekhe wazi ukuba iya kumenza intloko ukusuka kuMaluta Horedom? Kwaye ushiye esixekweni, ukuyifumana kwithoyi ye-intanethi-nayo ayiphumi. Yiya kwenye indawo nabazali bam - kuhle, ngaba ngenyanga, kwaye abanye babini? Kuya kuba kuhle ukuthumela emsebenzini ... kwaye phi?
I-Neurosurgeon kunye ne-Destital Affitect, kunjalo, ubuqhetseba obuhlawulelweyo, kodwa bunokubakho ukuba umphathi welithoba unokufumana umsebenzi omninzi wehlobo-iphantsi kakhulu.
Isicoci senkunkuma kunye nomsasazi we-spam kwindawo engaphantsi - umsebenzi apho unokwenza lula kakhulu. Kodwa lo msebenzi ayonelanga, ihlawulwe kakuhle, iyadinisa. Umgcini weJenato unokuzincoma izandla zezandla zakhe (kwiliso lokuqala, abakhweli abashiyiweyo), kwaye baphule intengiso, kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba kuphando ngomnxeba kunye nokuthengisa kwefowuni. Uqinisekile ukuba umntwana wakho uyafuneka ngamava "kuba namhlanje ndikhutshiwe kubantu abalishumi elinesibhozo?
Kuhlala kukho umngcipheko wokuba umntwana ofikayo aya kunikwa emsebenzini ngaphandle kwengqesho yaseburhulumenteni kwaye ekugqibeleni aya kukhathalelwa imali. Kwi-Intanethi, imbali yamanqanaba ahlukeneyo ihamba kwi-Intanethi: Ukuncitshiswa okungekho mthethweni okwenziwe ngokubala ngexesha lokubala, ukwala okulula ukulungisa iintsuku ezimbalwa ze-tits zeklabishi.
Kunye nokucwangcisa ishumi elivisayo ngokusemthethweni, ukuba umsebenzi awuhlawulwa ngeyure okanye ngokuyinxalenye - bambalwa abantu abavumayo, kuba ngokomthetho, umntwana oneminyaka eli-13 ubudala unokusebenza kumqolo kuphela o-6 kuphela Iiyure, kunye neminyaka eli-15-16-oneminyaka engama-15-16-akusekho ngentsimbi yesi-7. Kwaye ngubani oza kuma phambi komntwana ofikisayo? Ngokwemvelo, abaqeshi abalufuni ngokwenene iintloko zentloko.
Okokugqibela, ikho enye ingxaki. Kukho ichibi elikhulu elifanelekileyo lemisebenzi engafuni iziqinisekiso eziphezulu ezinxulunyaniswa neentshukumo. Sonke sabona la makhwenkwe e-carclists kwi-cyclists kwiifilimu zaseMelika. Kuhle, uqhubeka ne-Gree Sabubia, umoya wokuphefumla, ubeke amaphephandaba kwiziqu ezivela kwiingcingo. Kodwa ukubaleka ngebhegi enzima yokungena ezimnyama (isiqingatha seso sitshixo kuphela) kwi-pervmiaiskaya ye-pesenti, kwaye ayizizo zonke iintlobo zabazali ziya kubavumela ukuba bathathe inxaxheba kwinkwenkwe yakhe (asithethi malunga namantombazana). Umsebenzi wekhuriya kule ndlela ayisiyonto ilunge kakhulu - kulungile, ukuba ishishini liza; Kwaye ukuhambisa iipayi kumagumbi akusoloko kukhuselekile.
Yintoni enokwenziwa ngabazali, ngakumbi inyani yokuba phantse iinyanga ezintathu zishiywe ngaphambi kwehlobo?
1. Dala ebantwaneni, ngaba bafumana izicwangciso zobungcali ezikude. Siyayazi intombazana eyakhe sakha ihlobo satsala ibhegi yamakhadi amakhadi enkcubeko (yemali, kwaye siyayazi intombazana esebenza inyanga kunye nomncedisi welebhu kwiZiko loPhando (elimnika khona, Ngaphandle kwenyanga ye-fan kunye nomvuzo othobekileyo kakhulu, ukufikelela okungenamkhawulo kwii-alstatorhes zabadanqile - ezinye iingcali zelebhu).
Siyazi ukuba inkwenkwe eyayisebenza ngaphambi kwebanga le-11 ihlobo lonke nguSanitar kwi-ambulensi, yatshintsha ingqondo kuye, yadlula kugqirha, yadlula enye iimviwo kwiyunivesithi eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo yaza yaba lintatheli eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo. Uye wahamba kakuhle amabali kulo hlobo "endikubonayo." Kwaye enye intombazana isebenze iminyaka emibini ngokulandelelana, kwaye ngaphezu kweminyaka elishumi esondele kakhulu ekuthiniyo, kodwa kukhuphiswano "kunye ne-night" iguqule umntwana ophilayo kuyo yonke into entsha ngaphakathi Imizuzwana engama-32, engayothusinga kwaye ayisoyiki.
2. Dlulisa ngawaphi amathuba emsebenzini wakho okanye emsebenzini kunye nabahlobo bakho, kodwa hayi ngqo phantsi kolawulo lwakho (okanye lwabahlobo). Okokuqala, umntwana okwishumi elivisayo akakuthandwa apho, apho abadala bakhe baziva kufutshane. Okwesibini, ukuba ngabasemagunyeni bangumntu owongezelelweyo, unokuthetha ngokwahlukeneyo nalo mntu, kwaye unike ukuqonda oko ukwenze lo msebenzi-ukuze uqaphele ukuba imali iphakathi Akanatyala.
3. Ukuba umntwana ujonge indawo ukuba asebenze, apho ungafikeleli (okanye nabani na ovela kusapho lwakho akukho xesha lokujongana nalo mbuzo - kwaye uyenzeka), kodwa ukuqokelela inkampani yabahlobo. Ukusuka kwimfumba yonke yabazali, umntu unokuhamba nabafana ukuba baxoxe ngeemeko zokusebenza, umntu uya kubonakala ehlolwe phakathi kwinyanga - kwaye inqanaba elilawulayo liya kunciphisa amathuba okuba balahlekiswe ukuba ngaba bafana banciphise amathuba okuba balahlekiswe ukuba aba bantu balahlekile. Ukongeza, abafana bakhuselekile ngakumbi. Kwaye nokuba umntwana okwishumi elivisayo akayi kufumana mali eninzi ekuhlaziyweni kwendawo yedolophu - uya kuba kwinkampani elungileyo. Kumazwe athetha isiNgesi, umbutho wolutsha (ulandelwa kukuphumla kunye nolonwabo) ngokwesiko-ngokwesiko - izicaka - abazali ngokuzolileyo bakhulula abantwana apho, abo ngokwabo babekhe badibana nabo.
4. Mhlawumbi umntwana weza nomsebenzi onjalo apho kutyalo mali lokuqala lwemali. Ukuba oku akuyo "ukuhlawula abafowunelwa bakho kwiziko ledatha", kodwa, umzekelo, ukuthenga umatshini wokucheba-ke iimeko zetyala lomzali (kwaye oku kunokuba yimali mboleko kuphela.) Kunokwenzeka ukuba uxoxe. Kwaye ukuba ufuna ukuba umntwana anqumle ingca ukuya kumchwepheshe wakho kweli lizwe, ukuxoxa ngemiqathango yale ngokwahlukeneyo, kuba i-cottage yeyakho, kwaye lo matshini.
Inkwenkwe yethu eqhelekileyo yanika uYise kumatshini phakathi kuJuni. Kwaye phakathi ku-Agasti, kunye nabazali batyalwe kuhambo oluya emazantsi. Yenze esinye isithathu. Lo nto.
Kwaye ngaphezulu. Ukuba uxoxa ngezicwangciso ngoku, ngoMatshi, emva koko unokuba namaxwebhu ayimfuneko okwenza umntu okwishumi elivisayo (umzekelo, yincwadi ecocekileyo, engakhange athathwe ngumlindi, i-saritar, i-nitar, i-nornychka). NgoJuni, kusoloko kungabi nantsingiselo yokukhathaza ngesi sihloko.