Ngaba uyayithanda iMojito, umthanda njani? Ngaba wayebukela zonke iifilimu zejarmmusch? Ngaba wayekwi-bali? Yonke le mibuzo, kunjalo, ibaluleke kakhulu - ngakumbi ngexesha lemihla yokuqala. Kodwa ufikile kwakudala ukuba uyazi yonke into ngaye.
Noko ke, ukuba uqalise ukucinga ushicilelo kwi yakho yokundwendwela, iyavakala ukucinga - kwaye ingaba yonke imibuzo ebuzwa okanye nangoku ke kubaluleke, kodwa amathuba alucacanga?
Yeyiphi eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu?
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ngenye imini abanye kuni kufuneka bayeke ukusebenza ngenxa yonakekelo lwabazali okanye abantwana. Okanye uya kunikelwa ngumsebenzi kwesinye isixeko- ngubani na oya kushiya amathemba, okanye kuwe? Lo ngumbuzo ongcono ukuxoxa ngamazwi ngomlomo kwaye elunxwemeni, hayi xa ilayishwe. Ngenxa yokuba esinye isibini sikholelwa ukuba lo ngumsebenzi wakhe, kwaye iqabane lakhe, iqabane, elinokuthi litshintshe iplate yokuhlamba nangaliphi na ixesha ekuhlanjululeni kwivenkile enkulu.Siza kwenza ntoni ukuba usapho lufuna imali?
Ayisiyo iselfowuni yombutho wakho oselula, oyile usapho - umalume wakhe okanye umntakwabo, umama wakho okanye umzala wakho wesibini? Kwezinye iintsapho, kuyamkeleka, njengokuthengisa amagumbi kunye nezintso, nje ukunceda izalamane zegazi. Abanye baphelelwe lixesha ekukhuthazeni ikhadi leshishini lombutho we-microcredit. Ngubani kwaye ngawuphi umntu owulungele ukunceda?
Baza kubakhulisa njani abantwana?
Kwaye ubuhle bubalulekile?
Kuba ababingeleli, ngokubanzi, ubuhle bezixhobo zezinto zezezini buye nakuthambeka kwaye bube nobuthathaka. Ngokuqinisekileyo kangangeminyaka engama-20, kuya kubakho kancinci ukuyifumana. Kucacile ukuba namhlanje kubonakala kuwe ukuba awusoze utshintshe, kwaye uya kuhlala mhle, kodwa ujonge ifoto yabantu abasaziwayo be-1970. EHarrison Ford Jonga. Okanye ePamela Anderson. Kwaye ukuba uyathandana ngenxa ye-Belly ye-Belly kunye ne-chubby yomlomo, zinike ingxelo yokuba yonke le nto ayingomde kwaye sele inyamalale ngaphandle komkhondo.Nesondo?
Zininzi izibini ezizama ukwenza uthando kangangoko kunokwenzeka, nkqu "andikwazi" - kwaye zonke ngenxa yokuba i-sport yempumelelo yempumelelo yempumelelo. Kwangelo xesha, bobabini banokuzinyanzela. Ayisiyiyo intsingiselo yobuqu yintsingiselo yobomi nomtshato. Kwaye apha qokelela ingxabano: Umntu unokukholelwa ukuba kanye ngeveki sisiqalo sesiphelo, kwaye omnye unokungaziboni iingxaki kwaphela.
Yintoni esingaze sivume ngayo?
Sisinda njani ukuxoxa?
Lo ngumbuzo osisiseko, kwaye kufuneka uphendule ngokunyaniseka. I-Slonk engacocekanga yenzeka rhoqo kwimiphetho yehlabathi omnye. Ungacinga ukuba eyona nto inyanisekileyo kukuxelela yonke into, kwaye kukuba kungcono ukwazi into ngayo. Nokuba zithini na iingcinga zakho malunga nokuvukela, ziveza, hayi uLug-(kwaye okokuqala).