Akulula ukusahlukana nokuthatha isigqibo. Nokuba umnyango uqalisa ukubonakala ungoyena ndoqo uphelile kule meko, siqala ukuthandabuza - mhlawumbi yonke into ilungile, kodwa ndifumene nje uhlobo oluthile lwempazamo kum? Abantu bahlala kunye iminyaka, bahleka ngeempazamo, kwaye akukho nto. Ukuba awukwazi ukwenza isigqibo, nantsi imiqondiso emi-6 ecacileyo yokuba lixesha lokutshintsha imeko kwinethiwekhi yoluntu kwi "Mahala."
Awungekhe uxole ukungcatsha
Le ayisiyo mbuso, nangona ihlala ihlala njalo - nguye. Kodwa ukungcatsha kunokuba nayiphi na imeko xa ekuphela kweekhonsepqe, kwafuneka eme ngecala lakho, kodwa wafudukela kutshaba. Isayiniwe kwaye ayikhange ibomvu. Wathembisa kwaye akazange. Ukuba uthe "Waqhuba"-kwaye waqhuba nyhani, ke akukho nto imbi. Kodwa ukuba uqhubeka unomsindo nasemva kweenyanga ezininzi, okanye iminyaka, kwaye uziva ngathi le nkalo ihlala ixabiseke phakathi kwakho, ungayidili irabha. Ingqumbo kunye nokuphoxeka kuya kuba netyhefu yonke imihla kwaye yonke into iza kuphela nge-neurosis enkulu.Awuzukwazi thina
Iingxaki zakho azibhanga
Iingxabano zakho zihlala zinesihloko esinye.
Kuyacaca ukuba ekubeni uhlikikile malunga nemali, umona okanye imikhwa emibi kwakhona, imeko ayitshintshi kwaye akukho mntu uthatha amanyathelo aphezulu. Ngaba ukulungele ukukhwela umzobo ofanayo iminyaka eli-10?Awucingi ngekamva
Unyangwe ngenkani
Ubundlobongela bunokuba yintshayelelo, kunye neemvakalelo. Ukubetha lugonyamelo. Udlwengulo lugonyamelo, kwaye ungazami ukusithethelela ngento yokuba unxulumene nesibini esitshatileyo, kwaye ke ngoko ukulala ngesondo nxamnye nentando akunakuthathwa njengogonyamelo. Ukuthuka ngokucwangcisiweyo okanye ukuthintelwa kwenkululeko-ubundlobongela obufanayo, kuphela kwiprofayili. Kwigama, ubundlobongela bathathwa njengento yonke apho iqabane liye lenza ntoni ngaphandle kwentando yakho. Kwaye le ayisiyontsimbi eyoyikisayo - kukugquma kwe-eirens yokhuseleko lomoya. Balekani, kwaye kwangoko.