Ngesiquphe uyazi ukuba umhlobo wakho nomntwana uyavuya esibhedlele. Kuya kufuneka wenze okuthile! Uthatha ifowuni kwaye uxhome. Ngaba kufanelekile ukuphazamisa? Apho, mhlawumbi, kusenokuba kukho iinkqubo? Kodwa ungabizi-ngandlela thile. Yintoni oza kuyithetha kuye? Ndingakunceda njani?
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Ukuba umhlobo wakho usesibhedlele kunye nomntwana, emva koko ii-orenji ikakhulu azifuneki (abantwana zihlala zilungile kubo), kwaye kumbuzo "uya kuphendula uthi:" Ewe ungaphendula uthini Nceda ...". Ukuba, kunjalo, ukuba makaninike, musa ukunika igazi.
Kwaye oku akunjalo kuba kulungile kwaye kuyamangalisa. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba ukuthatha kunye nokufumanisa ukuba unjani kwaye yeyiphi imingxunya om, kwaye yeyiphi kule mingxunya ungayivalelayo, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ngoku unikwe amanqaku apheleleyo! Ke ngoko, ibhunga lelolona lowokuqala:
Chaza imibuzo ofuna ukuphendula ngokuthi ewe okanye hayi
- Ngaba akufuneki ayizise okanye athathe uxwebhu? Kwikhadi labantwana lePolyclinic? I-flooography yakhe yekliniki yabantu abadala? Ngaba iimvavanyo zakhe ukuba zikwazile ukugqitha, kwaye isiphumo siyimfuneko ekuthandeni imilenze? Mhlawumbi emsebenzini kufuneka uthathe into ukusuka kwinqaku kwaye uqonde b, kwaye konke oku kuyaxhonywa?
- Awudingi ukumqhuba omnye umntwana wakhe naphi na (abantwana?) Utata emsebenzini, emva koko esibhedlele, kwaye umculo kunye nokuzoba kudla ngokuba yi-PS phantsi komsila. Mhlawumbi ukuhamba ngeempelaveki kwenye indawo kwi-zoo? Kwaye mhlawumbi, ngokubanzi, ukuba uthabathe umakhulu kwisixeko, okanye uthathe iveki kum - nantoni na eyenzekayo.
- Ukuba kukho amarhamncwa asekhaya, afumanise ukuba ngubani osele enoxanduva kubo. Mhlawumbi unekati yekati yosuku lwesithathu elinye elihlala, iintlanzi azisebenzi kwaye iintyatyambo azizopolitiki.
- Ngaba uyayifuna ikhaya, hayi esibhedlele, kodwa awuthengi, ukutya? Umzekelo, isobho senkukhu entsha. Kwaye kwenzeka njani rhoqo? Ukuba uhlala kunjalo-kuyavakala ukwenza iqela kwaye usasaze upheke emideni phakathi kwabo bonke abahlobo nezalamane, kwaye emva koko yenzeka ilize, emva koko ubumnyama.
- Ukubuyisa abantwana esibhedlele kuyadinwa kakhulu kwaye simahla. Ngaba umntwana ufuna ukutya-iplasitine, iLegi, iincwadi, iiDidapers? Yintoni engcono yokuthenga entsha okanye igoduke ekhayeni lakhe ixabiseke ngakumbi?
- Ngaba uyayifuna ngokwayo? Iirhasi zemihla ngemihla, uMiellek oqhelekileyo, olahlekileyo ekuKhawulezeni? I-shampoo encinci?
- Mhlawumbi khetha umdaka, kwaye ngemini elandelayo icocekile kwaye yomile? Ewe, ukuba utata okanye umakhulu yenza le nto. Kwaye ukuba akunjalo?
Sukubonelela kwaye akuvumelani, nokuba uyabuza
Nye. Yondla, usele kunye nomgudu umyeni ohlelelekileyo.
Okokuqala, ngabo amadoda angakwaziyo ukuzinyamekela kubomi bemihla ngemihla, uninzi luqala ngokungahambilanga umfazi wakhe oqengqelekayo kuye ("Isondo-olu luhlobo lwenkonzo. Kutheni le nto? Njengawe? ")
Okwesibini, usenza yonke into ephosakeleyo.
Okwesithathu, ubufazi awenzi ukuba kunyanzelekile ukuba baphathe umntu njengesilwanyana sasekhaya - kuyakhubekisa, kwaye isidalwa esifanelekileyo siya kuba sengqayo.
2. Yenza umsebenzi wakhe ophambili.
Nje ukuba into ithathe okanye isebenze into yokutyikitya into - inokwenzeka. Kodwa ishishini elinobungozi kakhulu lihlala lukhula ngokupheleleyo. Ngaphandle kokuba, kwimeko ebaluleke kakhulu, xa bephila ngomhla wokusukela kwanto kwaye nangaphezulu nakwento, kwaye konke kuya kuwa uthethathethane nobathengi kunye nabaphathi malunga nentombazana yakho, njengoko kufanelekile Isibhedlele esikhutshiwe.
Kuba umsebenzi awudingeki ukwazi ukuba umhlobo wakho utshintshiwe.
Kuba awukawenzi njengoko kufanele.
Kwaye ngubani oza kwenza umsebenzi wakho ngeli xesha?
Ithunyelwe ngu: I-Aya mikheeva