Kulula kakhulu ukulungisa umatshini wokuhlamba i-whisky kunokuba uncede umhlobo engxakini. Uninzi lwethu ngengozi luyasilela koviwo. Ke ngoko, sidla ngokubhala malunga nendlela yokunceda, ukuba umntu othandekayo wakho okanye. Kodwa ukuba uthe wasindisa umntu, khumbula kwaye malunga nendlela yokunceda ngokuchanekileyo.
Ayak
Oko kukuthi, ukuphendula izikhalazo zomntu kwinto efana ne "Le iseyinkunkuma! Mamela nje, kwaye ... kwaye emva koko wabelane ngamava akho axabisekileyo. Ngaba wawophula umlenze? Kulungile, inxenye ndaphuka bobabini, kwaye akukho nto, emva kwenyanga. Umntu utshintshile? Kodwa mna, naye, ngandlela thile, kwaye nodadewethu, kumtshato wam, kwaye akukho nto, yonke into ijongeka ngaphandle.Ngapha koko, uninzi alusenzanga ngenxa yeenjongo ezimbi, ngqo ngqo. Sifuna ukubonisa ukuba kukho iingxaki kwaye ngokukhawuleza, ukuba sikwicala lesikhephe esifanayo kwaye siyiqonde ngokugqibeleleyo. Kodwa enyanisweni, uAsakanny uyekiswa ngumntu owahluke ngokupheleleyo. Uyayiva "iingxaki zakho ziguquguquka ngokucacileyo xa kuthelekiswa namava am kwaye ungabizi mali. Masithethe ngam ngcono. "
Ingcebiso ye-Banal
Xa umntu egquma egxalabeni egxalabeni, ndifuna kakhulu ukuthetha into enobulumko nenentsingiselo. Njengokuba bephuma, akukho nto iyeza engqondweni, kwaye sithetha ezinye izinto ezingenantsingiselo, abazifundayo ngokugxothwa okanye beva kwiimuvi. "Wonke umntu uya kuba lapho," "Hayi kwimali ulonwabo" kwaye "ukuba uyathanda-uyeke." Enkosi ngengcebiso! Ngaphambi kokuba unike indawo eqhelekileyo, zibuze- kwaye ndiqonda ngokubanzi ukuba ndithetha ngantoni? Ewe kunjalo, xa sisitsho ngokumangalisayo okunjalo, siziva silungile ukufumana amagama afanelekileyo. Kodwa wonke umntu uyayiqonda into yokuba ezo zinto zisithi xa bengazi ukuba mabathini. Kwaye akukho mntu uluncedo.
Funa ingxaki ekhawulezileyo
Xa umhlobo engxakini nasebusweni, kwaye ufuna uncedo, sifuna ukuba yonke into ifane nemovie: Apha iqhawe liya kuba lusizi, iqhawe elilumkileyo limnika icebiso elixabisekileyo, iqhawe liyaqonda Yonke into, ingxaki iconjululwe, i-Epilogue kwi-pub, zonke zihleka, izishumi. Iyure enye enesiqingatha kuyo yonke into malunga nayo yonke into. Kodwa inyani yile yokuba usizi lokwenene alusonjululwa kwimizuzu engama-90 (kwaye nangaphezulu kwe-130, ukuba sithetha ngenguqulo yomlawuli).
Kwimicimbi emininzi, imiba emininzi inokuthatha iminyaka. Kodwa asivumi ukukholelwa kuyo kwaye sicaphuke ngononophelo ukuba kutheni sithunyelwa kwakhona phakathi kweencoko ezifanayo-sele sithethile ngale nto kwaye wangaphambili unokuqengqa esihogweni? Ke wenza ntoni kwakhona egxalabeni lam? Eli liqhinga elihle ukuba ufuna ukuqhuba umhlobo ukuze uxinezeleke kwaye uyamqinisekisa ukuba akanakukwazi ukujamelana nobunzima obuqingqi. Kodwa awuyifuni le, hayi?
Nyanzela uncedo
Ngamanye amaxesha uncedo luzonke kuphela ekuboneleleni ngeendlebe zabo. Abantu kufuneka bathethwe, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba ngoku unyanzelekile ukuba ubancede kwenye indawo - ngokuchasene nomnqweno wabo. Kwaye ukuba umntu uyala uncedo, ke onokwenzeka, hayi ngenxa yokuba enesidenge kwaye akasiqondi isibonelelo sakhe.
Mhlawumbi uncedo ocebisa ukuba ungafuneki. Okanye ikratshi lakhe aliyi kukukhokela. Okanye akafuni kuziva engenalungelo ngakumbi - oko kuya kwenzeka ukuba uqale nzima ukuze ufumane intombi yedwa kunye neentlobo zonke ze-Inquidid kwaye uye kutyelelo lweengxowa zokutya ezizeleyo. Ke gcina, nokuba ufuna ngokwenene ukufaka ubomi bomntu kwihashe elimhlophe kunye nepeyinti apho, ukonwabele indima yesabelo.