Abantu bakho kubo bonke bathatha njani nabahlobo? Ewe, kuyaziwa, ukusuka apho-ukusuka kuluntu, isikolo kunye nokungasebenzi. Ngexesha leDiploma, sihlala sixhotyiswe ngokupheleleyo ngabahlobo kunye nohlobo.
Kwaye ukuba kude kube le ngongoma baqala ngandlela thile, emva koko bangene kwihlabathi elikhulu, abahlobo abatsha kunqabile ukuvela.
Kutheni le nto ivela?
Isizathu semozulu enjalo yemicimbi ilula kuneyona bhanyabhanya ye-paid: Kwibhotile yesanti, i-Camps yeyadi kunye nekadi yeYunivesithi kunye ne-University, isimo sentlalo, sinezinto ezininzi ngathi , kuba sikhathazekile malunga neengxaki ezifanayo-umzekelo, itshizi ngakumbi kwi-kindergarten okanye yum, indlela yokufumana i-ludmila polycarpovna kwaye apho singaveli khona konke konke.Kodwa kwihlabathi elikhulu, ukhetho lwabantu lubanzi - singqongwe bubuntu obuphambili, obuphantsi okanye abancinci, bathatyathwa njengepemeri yomvuzo, abanye bathenga umbala wezihlangu.
IntlalontleMaurka nayo iba nzima ngakumbi. Ukuba ngaphambili kwanele ukufowunela i-lenki ekhayeni lam ukuze idlale "Barbie-Packer-Tocker" okanye, ngaphandle kokukhulisa ibhiya kwipaki kuphela Ngokunjalo, ngoku ezo ndlela zilula, ngelishwa, hayi i-canvas.
Kwaye kwiminyaka engama-30, uninzi lusilela kubahlobo ngokucacileyo. Abanye batshisa, bafumana abantwana kwaye babamba endlwini ye-ndlu kanye ngonyaka. Abanye bashukumisela-okanye ndiqokelele i-manatki kwaye ndaphoswa kwenye indawo emva kwe-gypsy star nomadic. Uhlobo lwesithathu ecaleni, kodwa iindlela zakho zahlukane ngokucacileyo.
Oku akuthethi ukuba ngoku unesifo esithile kwi-vacuum yoluntu. Ujikeleze abantu abaziva nje. Kwaye unokufumana abahlobo abatsha nakweliphi na ixesha-kufuneka ukwazi ukuba ujonge phi na kubo.
Iofisi
Chip: Ukuba awonwabanga ukuqala incoko malunga nantoni na nabantu abangaqhelekanga, musa ukuzidiza-konke okufanayo nomthi wehlabathi onamandla awuyi kuphuma, kukho ubuchule noqeqesho. Ke ngoko, musa ukuzama ukuncokola nabalingane bemozulu. Ukukhangela amanqaku amancinci onxibelelwano-ungabuza malunga nemithetho yeshishini okanye uthethe malunga neeprojekthi osebenza ngazo, ubuze ukuba kudluliselwa njani amaqumrhu adlulileyo, okanye ukubuza ukuba i-latte ebhaliweyo ibhaliwe kwisithili .
Ijim
Ukuba utsibela kwi-zombie okanye i-sweat kwi-ross-fitness, sele isiqalo esihle. Ukudibana ngandlela ithile kusondeza. Ngokubanzi, naziphi na iiklasi zeqela ziluncedo kwisicwangciso sokukhangela zabahlobo-uyabona abantu abafanayo ngenye imihla. Ukongeza, emva koqeqesho, onke ama-Endorphin agutyungelwe nguwe, ukuze uya kunxibelelana.Chip: Ukuba ubonile intombazana entle okanye i-guy ecace kakuhle kumlingali okufuphi, bakubonayo - bayakubona rhoqo njengawe. Iiklasi ezimbini okanye ezintathu ezidibeneyo sele zikunike ilungelo lokufikelela kwaye wazise ngayo kwifom yonke-kulungile, uyithanda ntoni into engento.
Ukuvolontiya
Chip: Qala incoko kunye noogxa babo-amavolontiya kulula kunokuba elula- kufuneka ucela nje ukuba kutheni izinja okanye abantu abangenamakhaya. Akufane, ngubani onyula inkqubo yokuzithandela nge-chak eyimfama, ukuze wonke umntu abe nebali lomntu.
Iinethiwekhi zentlalo
Mhlawumbi, uninzi lwabahlobo bethu bafumanise emva kokuba iziko lafunyanwa ngqo apho. Eyona ndlela ilula yokujoyina amaqela ahlukeneyo anomdla kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe apho, ukusuka ekuthandeni izimvo kwimiyalezo yobuqu, khetha abo ufuna ukuba ngabahlobo babo.
Chip: Inethiwekhi yoluntu yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuphuma kwabantu abangenayo okanye abaneentloni, kukho eyona ndlela ilula yokugcina izinga lokwenene.