I-Blogger Olga Majorova yaphawula umdla, kodwa ingeyiyo imeko yolonwabo kakhulu kwiminyaka yakutshanje. Abafana, uyakholelwa ukuba, bahlala befumana uhlobo lwealfashoni kunye nobuqhophololo ekuthetheni komnye umntu. Kunye nokwamkelwa kwabo - njengabaphantsi kwemoto.
Ngokweziphumo zokufunda i-Enon Inani lezinto ezivumayo zabasetyhini kwi-Intanethi, kukho imvakalelo yokuba kule minyaka idlulileyo, kwasekwa uhlobo lwesixhobo sosapho, uphawu ikakhulu kumadoda aselula. Ayingabo abafana abancinci kakhulu banokuthintela kwakhona, bethatha ithuba lamava kunye nomtsalane, ukuba angabinamali kamama kamama, kodwa okokuqala kubalulekile kumadoda.
Ke, kukho umfana odingayo ukufumana umsebenzi ebomini ukuze akwazi ngakumbi nangaphantsi. Kwaye ngokufanelekileyo, njengoko uqondayo, ungaboni konke konke. Izenzo zakhe: Fumana intombazana. Kuya kuphumelela kakhulu ukuba ungumdala kwaye / okanye unomntwana. Nangona kunjalo, unokwenza ngaphandle kwayo, eyona nto iphambili kukuba ukuzithemba kuphele. Ukuthathela ingqalelo amachaphaza okukhuliswa kwamantombazana kwindawo yasemva kwesosi-soviet - eyona injalo isondele.
Ke, intombazana yafunyanwa. Thembisa ngomtshato wakhe, i-padavan eselula, kwaye uyenze kuye ukuba ndifuna. Oko kukuthi, ngokoqobo. Ithuba lokuphila liya kukunika, liqhubele phambili, kwaye iya kuhlawula ngamatyala, kwaye iya kuphosa, ifumane umsebenzi, kwaye lo msebenzi ngokwawo uya kwenjenjalo. Oku akubalwa inkonzo yasekhaya. Ngokukodwa phambili ekuseni ukubaleka ngaphezulu kwecuba kunye nebhedi yebhedi xa uqhuba inkosikazi. Kodwa nkqu nangenqanaba eliqhelekileyo lobulumko babhinqileyo, ngaphandle kwabo baxhomekeke kuzo, kuya kuba kuhle kakhulu ukuba uhlale phantsi.
Ukuba ngequbuliso ibangahamba kakuhle, kwaye "intandokazi" iya kubuza, bathi, xa umtshato ekugqibeleni, ngaba awunakukhwela i-sofa, ikhwaza izandla zakho, zikhwaza:
-Uyibhukuqa yonke into!
okanye:
Ewe, andizange ndilindele oku kuwe. Akwaba kuya kukhethwa!
okanye:
-Ndicinga ukuba uyandithanda, kwaye uyafana njengabo bonke ...
Unokukhulisa isihloko kwaye uxele indlela ophupha ngayo ngokumenza umnike abe sisinikeza izandla kunye neentliziyo ezikwiindawo ezinonxweme zolwandle lwaseAdriatic, xa uqokelela kwibhabhathane, amatikiti kunye ne-flevoranzh, kwaye Yena, umsele, kunye nombuzo wayo ongenamva, mna noSpaudis, bendihamba, kunye ne-cap, umnqweno wawungekho, kwaye ngoku ayaziwa xa ivela nini. Ukuphuculwa komgangatho wenkonzo kuqinisekisiwe. Ngokubanzi, iqhosha elinetyhefu liyinto enkulu yokufumana i-Dedagogragy. Kwelinye icala, utata noMama, iintombi, iintombi kunye nayo yonke into, engenalo i-nelinye ilizwe linefuthe lentlalontle) liza kufakwa kwiqela elinetyhefu. Kwipasipoti, xa, ekugqibeleni, bantwana, kwaye ufuna ukuqalisa iikati ezingamashumi amane. Ewe, xa kuthelekiswa nalo mhlambi ulungileyo. Ungumntu, kwaye ziikati.
Le meko ilula kunye notshintsho oluncinci inokuphuhliswa nangayiphi na imbambano. Bendifuna ukucebisa ukuba into enje "aziyi apho, apho sitya khona," kodwa enyanisweni! Yiya! UTHANDO-KUFUNEKA Uxolele. Ungathandi-Jonga kumhlathi apha ngasentla. Eyona nto iphambili kuyo nayiphi na imozulu, musa ukuqwalasela indoda "oyintanda". Rhoqo, thambisa, uyawatyela, osisidenge, ethandabuza, engasasebenzi, okanye "yonke loo ndlela yayingenguye kuphela Ngaphambili, kodwa ngoku ngasentabeni yelali, andiziva ndixolile. " Unazo iingxaki ezinxilisayo-umnyathele ukuba usele iglasi okanye ngenxa yokuba ukungaseli. Uyatshintsha? Yiya kwi-blider. Okanye kwifrijinity. IGosa elifikayo lokufika kwakhona linokufolala iba ngumthombo wokuhlaselwa okuncinci okungapheliyo kunye nocoluti. Nangona kunjalo, nkqu nesitya somonde wabasetyhini, le casicist ingenasiphelo, inepropathi yokugqitha.
Emva koko imicimbi inokuphuhlisa i-bico. Inketho yokuqala ixhaphakile: "Eyona nto uyithandayo iya kuvala kwaye iya kuqhubeka ikuxabisa. Okwesibini, ngokubanzi okuncinci: iya kubonisa emnyango. Apha eyona nto iphambili kukungaphulukani nobukho boMoya, ukubetha kunye noxinzelelo:
-Uyifuna phi, ngaphandle kwam?
"Eyona nto uyithandayo" ukutshayela impumlo yakhe, kuya kuqikelela ukuba nabani na, eneneni, uya kusukele, kwaye uya kuvalwa. Hayi, kukho ithuba elincinci kangangokuba kungekudala iza kutyhilwa. Nangona kunjalo, musa ukome. Kwanele amantombazana akho.