Ayinamsebenzi ukuba kwenzeke njani - umsebenzi kukugxeka, umbuzo wezezindlu ubuyeyona imali, impilo ayivumeli okanye kukho into eyodwa. Kodwa kwenzeka nje ukuba umntwana wakho akahlali nawe, kodwa nogogo, umakazi okanye utata.
Kwaye uze kumbona kuphela ngeempelaveki, eneengxowa eziphelileyo kunye nemvakalelo yokuziva unetyala. Ungahlala njani umama ndikwimeko enjalo kwaye ungaphulukani nonxibelelwano nomntwana?
Yenza izithethe
Ngamana wena kwaye umntwana abe sisiko sakho - kuphela kuwe ezimbini. Umzekelo, funda ngokuhlwa, zoba kwi-Giant Waint yeZixeko ze-Watman ezicinga okanye zilungiselele kunye ngeempelaveki.Ezi zithethe ziya kuba yi-ankile, isibizi esomeleleyo, kwaye umntwana makazi ukuba isibhakabhaka sithathe emhlabeni, kodwa abapheki bakuvunyelwe babonakale, kwaye ubabenzela kuphela.
Sukukhetha uNxibelelwano
Ngethamsanqa, kulula ngoku - iifowuni, iSMS, imiyalezo kwi-Facebook kunye neeleta zelizwi, kodwa- yonke imihla. Myeke avakalelwe kukuba phakathi kweempelaveki ongayi ndawo-ulapha, ubalulekile kuwe kwaye uhlala ukulungele ukunceda. Hayi, ngokukhethekileyo ngokuphila kakhulu ukukhokela ukuthetha ixesha elide ngobomi. Nokuba ubusuku obulula "obuhle", kodwa yonke imihla iya kwanela.
Gcina Izithembiso
Ukuba uthe wathembisa ukuba uza kuya kwi-zoo kule mpelaveki, wenzakalise ikhekhe, kodwa i-zoo iya kubonelela. Akukho zizathu zakho zenjongo yokuba umntwana akabonakali. Iya kuba yinto enkulu yokuphoxeka kwaye ithuka.
Sukuyithenga
Oku, okokuqala, okungenantsingiselo ekuhambeni kwexesha. Umntwana xa ekhula, uyakulibala zonke ezi zethoyi kunye nempahla eyamchukumisayo ngeempelaveki, kodwa kodwa uya kuyikhumbula loo nto ngempelaveki.Okwesibini, kuyingozi kwixesha elifutshane. Kukho umngcipheko oya kuthi ujike kwizipho zakho jikela kwi-santa yeveki, apho akukho nto ingafuneki ngaphandle kwesipho.
Bonisa kunokuba uhlala
Ukuba umntwana sele ukhulile, zama ukumcacisela ukuba kutheni uhlala ngokwahlukileyo, kodwa - ngononophelo. Ukuba umxholo emsebenzini, uyikhangele e-ofisini yakho, bonisa into oyenzayo,-makangawuqondi umsebenzi wakho njengomntu onokhuphiswano olungaziwayo.
Hlala wehlile
Ungaze uzivumele ukuthoba imeko embi emntwaneni, nokuba udiniwe, njengeSavra, kwaye ngokubanzi evekini yayilingulo. Ubona kanye ngeveki, okanye nokuba ungaphantsi, ulinde, uyaphoswa, kwaye apha ubonakala, yonke le nto ikwimpuma kunye nomsi ovela kwimpumlo.
Kunzima ukujamelana nawe - cwangcisa indawo ye-buffer phakathi komsebenzi kunye nosapho. Beka isizungu seyure, ulale ebhafini, funda incwadi, ekugqibeleni. Ewe, iqatha iyure yokunxibelelana nomntwana. Kodwa kuya kukubona ukhulule kwaye chwayita, iiyure ezisele zezakho nezayo, hayi ukucaphukisa kwakho.
Sukufumana abahlobo
Akayi kuzithemba iimfihlakalo zakho. Uya kubathemba nomntu osoloko esikufuphi - umakhulu, okanye utata, okanye u-Aunt, kodwa hayi. Ukuzibophelela ngale nto kwaye awutsali nantoni na ephawula kuyo. Intembelo iyafundwa iminyaka kwaye ayikhonzwa kwimfuno.Sukufundisa kwakhona
Mhlawumbi awuyivuma into ngeendlela zemfundo kumakhulu. Kodwa ke kuya kufuneka uthethe nonyokweni wam, hayi ngomntwana. Wayenomfanekiso wakhe wehlabathi entloko, eneengcinga ezicacileyo malunga nokuba akukho mfuneko yoko.
Kwaye ukuba umakhulu uyakuvumela ukuba unyuke emithini kwaye ungayidli isuphu, kwaye ngequbuliso ungavumeli, kwaye nawe ukhwaza, oguqukayo ungenelele kwi-Acestor of World Order. Indlela ebi yokuhlala kumntwana kufutshane.