Kutshanje, kwakukho inqaku kwinethiwekhi, elalilandele lelona tyala linzima, oyena mntu ungenathemba ababhinqileyo abo bangenazingxaki kunye noMama Vaabsh. Hayi ukuba sivumelana. Kodwa, Yoha, iingxaki zikamama koontanga bethu zenzeka rhoqo kunemisi. Kwaye akukho buhlungu kancinci.
Kukho iingxaki ezingaqhelekanga ngokwesiko phakathi kwezizukulwana, kunye neengxaki zemveli ezinxulumene nento yokuba uninzi lwabasetyhini abafuni ukuzibona ngokwabantu abadala abangafuni kukhathalelwa ziintombi. Kodwa apha sisasoloko sijongana (eyongezelelweyo!) Kwaye ngenyaniso yokuba oomama bethu bakhula kwaye baphila ngandlela ithile, kunokuba sidlale ngakumbi ngemithetho. Ukubandakanya nathi nathi.
Kwaye ke, ungena emaqatweni ngezandla ezingcungcutheka, intombi ibiza, eyathi ibeke ecaleni ibhodi yebhodi, ofuna ukulinda ukuyiqonda kunye nokubanceda. Kwaye yintoni onokuyenza?
Mamela kwaye uphendule
Ngokwenyani, ukuba uyakubiza ukuba uxelele yonke le nto, ke sele inkulu. Iintombi ezingenayo umntu oza kunkqonkqoza kwi-Facebook kwaye ubuze "Mamela, Umama wathi ndinomfazi ombi ombi kwifoto yam. Ndixelele, intamo yenene iyoyikeka okanye ngumama nje ngokuhlwa nje? " -Ngaba ke hamba ngobuchule, nokuba umhlaba uphoxekile, okanye bona ngokwabo baphambuke. Kodwa ukuze ungaphenduli umbuzo onjalo - ukuze ubuze umbuzo onjalo, kufuneka ixesha elide, kudala, kuhlala kunolwalamano kunye naloo ntombi ndikwinyani. Noba kwenzekani.Xoxa ngezicwangciso zokhuseleko
"Yintoni oyenzayo xa usemva kwakho ulungisiwe ngasemva kongeza izithako?" "Yintoni omele uyenze xa umntwana eneminyaka emihlanu esithi utata wakhe uyi-schmick and arser?" "Yintoni omele uyenze xa umntu onesifo sakho obabuziweyo, ephelisa, xa ekugqibeleni umtshato?" "Yintoni omele uyenze xa ukhuphe kwingubo yempahla yakho kwaye waxhoma ezinye, njenganje?"
YINTONI into oyenzayo. Abantu abakhulele kwihlabathi elahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo phakathi kwezinye izinto, akukho mbono malunga nezinto ezihlekisayo "njengemida yobuqu." Bona ngokwabo babenxibe ukuba bakwazi ukuthenga, kwaye nokuba bakwazi ukutshintsha umama. Kwaye abasoloko benekhabhathi eyahlukileyo. Kwaye ayikho into efana nobudlelwane bakho. Ubudlelwane buhlala buyikhathalele usapho lonke - umakhulu, kuba yena enomntwana ukuba ahlale, abazalwana noodade - kuba kuya kufuneka banxibelelane ngokudibeneyo kwaye bajongana ngokudibeneyo nosapho lwale Intombazana leyo yayikhokelela endlwini ... kunjalo, ibakhathaza! Kwaye wonke umntu ngokudibeneyo wavavanywa. Apho umngcipheko ukhona inzala apho ukuya khona.
Ke akukho ngqondo ukumangaliswa kwaye yoyike, "unokuba unjani". Kuyimfuneko ukucinga malunga nokwenza isicwangciso sokukhusela into ebalulekileyo, kwaye udlule into engabalulekanga. Ewe, ewe, kuya kufuneka kunikwe into, kuba umntu ongazivanga imida yakho, ukuthuka kakhulu xa eboniswa kwindawo emhlophe. "Injani le nto ishishini lam? Yintoni omnye umntu ??? Kungcono kakhulu ukuba ungagxothi, kodwa uphinda wenze kwakhona. "Kwigumbi lokuhlambela akukho nto inomdla, siya kudlula kwigumbi lokuhlala, kukho ii-albhamu kwaye ziphatha."
Kwaye ungaza kunye, okanye umamele kwaye uxoxe, okanye kwenye indawo ukuze uphumle kwinketho enjalo. Ukukhusela okhuselekileyo kuye, kwaye umama akakhubekisi. Lo ngumsebenzi onzima, ucwangciso lobuchule. Iintloko ezimbini zibhetele kunenye. Kodwa siyagxininisa - uncedo kufuneka lube lincinci: okanye lube yingxaki, kodwa lufutshane kakhulu, kunye nemida yangaphambi kokuvalelwa, okanye ide kodwa ngokupheleleyo. Chwetheza, ukuba uhlala noMama, kwaye kwidilesi yakho yepasile yakhe kabini ngonyaka kuzisa-kwaye ibalekayo ikhupha.
Khala
Unayo efanayo. "Umzekelo. Kwaye apha, umzekelo. Kwaye yayinjalo. Hayi, watsho njalo, andiyithandi! " Sonke sicinga ukuba-kanjenjalo, zonke ii-moms zinjengemisi, enye yam yenye into kwaye isule. Hayi. Le ayisiyiyo intombi yakho intombi embi. Esi ayisosihogo sikamama wakhe. Kwaye umahluko nje oqhelekileyo oqhelekileyo. Yenzekile. Ayilotyala lakho. Kwaye ngasendleleni, uyazi ukuba intombi yam ibhubhile?Lungisa ingcali
Kwaye, ukuba lugqirha wengqondo. Ewe, thetha. Kuba inokuba ligqwetha. Okanye, musa ukuvumela iNkosi yethu, i-sedenie pedchier. Kodwa eyona nto iphambili kukuba ungatsho umhlobo- ukuba awunakunyanzelwa ukuba uthathe isigqibo ngayo yonke into eyahlukileyo, yedwa. Kwaye nokuba abahlobo bakhe banokumnceda - kusakhona iingcali.