Xa ufunda malunga nomama kwi-Intanethi, uyayithenga emva kweembono ezimbini ezichaseneyo. Okanye umntwana ungonwaba ngaphandle kwemeko, kwaye ukuba iintsuku zakho azizaliyo zovuyo ebusweni bakhe, kukho into engalunganga kuwe. Okanye, ngokuchasene noko, umntwana waphula ubomi, wayiguqulela ibe yi-bratu engapheliyo.
Ngapha koko, ukhetho lukhulu ngakumbi. Ukuba awuvumelani nawo nawaphi na amanqaku (mhlawumbi ngezicatshulwa zohlobo lomibini), nayo yonke into ilandelelana. Ukuya kubeleka kunokuba yinto embi, intle okanye inxenye nje yobomi bakho, kwaye kuxhomekeke kwizinto ezininzi. Ukuba awunabo abantwana, ungayiqonda indlela "eyenze ngayo", ucinga ngezinye izinto.
Ngaba uthanda ukungcungcutheka kunye nezilwanyana ebuntwaneni nakulutsha?
Musa ukudlala nje kwaye ubale, kwaye ubakhathalele ngokwenene? Ukucoca iziphoso kubo, ubuze ngokucaphuka? Ukukhathalela ngexesha lokugula, ukushenxisa amanxeba okanye ukuqhubekisa amanxeba, yintoni oye wafumana into engaphezulu - ukuba ucanda okanye uchulumancile? Ngaba unokucwangcisa ithuba lokuhamba, ukudlala okanye ungakhange ucinge ngayo? Uyaqonda ukuba zeziphi iimpendulo abathethayo ngento oya kuba lula ukuzenza kwiminyaka yokuqala yokuba ngumama.Unomdla wokunxibelelana nabantwana
Iminyaka apho umntwana enuka njengomntwana, uyahlekisa ku-Aguca kwaye wena uliziko lendalo iphela, lenzeka kwiminyaka emibini okanye emithathu. Ke kuya kubakho iminyaka yokujika, ubudala xa umntwana bekude ehamba embizeni, kodwa kusafuneka ungakhathali kwibhulukhwe yakhe, kuba kufuneka aphule yonke indawo, ubudala xa igunya eliphambili ebomini bakhe yi Utitshala wesikolo wokuqala, iminyaka emininzi ozonwabisa apho ungayiboni nantoni na enomdla ...
Akwaba iintsana kuphela kwiibhotile ezicocekileyo ziyakuchukumisa, kwaye abantwana belinye ilizwe ababangeli i-telelo thando kwaye uza kunxibelelana nabo ngobunzima, ukusukela ubunye bunokuba luphuculo lwezinto ezingathandekiyo.
Ngaba ubomi bucaphukisa?
Kukho abantu abazolileyo okanye abakuyonwabisa ukutshayela nokuhlamba izitya, ukuvuya kwangaphambili, ukuvuya kwi-Order, ekonwabeni kwindlela ebonakalayo, emhlophe i-porcelain-ukusuka kulwalamano olubonakalayo kunye nokungcola. Kukho abo baqhuba bacebisa ukuba baphumle kwaye bacaphukisa ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo, ukusuka kwi-softlogical yengqondo. Ndikholelwe xa ungazange uphulaphule kwaye uphulaphule amabinzana afanayo kwikhathuni oyithandayo, olu lusizi luza kunyuka ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Ewe kunjalo, inokusindisa umyeni nomyeni onyamekileyo kunye nenani lezixhobo ezaneleyo zendlu, kodwa kufanelekile ukwazi ukuba ngaphandle kwabo kuya kukwenza ube ngumsindo nokuphelelwa lithemba.Ngaba ukhe wababona abantakwenu noodadewenu abancinci, umtshana kunye nabatshana?
Okukhona unxibelelana ngobuntwana kunye nolutsha olusemncinci kuye, kokukhona ndibonayo nendlela abakhulisa ngayo abanye, umntu othunyelwa ngayo uza kuqulunqwa kwezakhono zabazali.
Ngaba ukulungele ukuba bangaphi abantwana awahlukileyo?
Ukuba unokwenza ngokweenkcukacha ngokweenkcukacha, ngokubonisa ubomi bakho nomntwana ongahlangabezana neminqweno yakho, kwaye ungafumani uphononongo, uya kuba neengxaki zoomama.
Ngaba unaye umntu onokuthembela?
Kufuneka uziqiniseke ngenkxaso enokubakho kubantu abathathu ubuncinci. Okokuqala, akukho mntu unokukunceda ujikeleze iwotshi kunye nemihla ngemihla. Okwesibini, iyure yembeko unokufumanisa ukuba izithembiso zabazali zinceda ukuba uzala umzukulwana, iindleko njengoko izithembiso zabantwana bakho ziyayithenga; Abanye abantu abanothando, beqonda ukuba abantwana abakho lula, bayaqonda ukuba akufuneki bakwazi ukukhululeka kusapho; Kwaye oyena mhlobo ulungileyo akanakunceda kwaye akufuneki akuncede imini yonke. Nditsho olona nomama onothando nolusileyo ngaphandle koncedo kunzima kakhulu, kwaye, ukuba unyuke, unokufumana ukuba angakhathali uthando kunye nolonwabo.
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