Ewe, kulungile, masithi sifikelele amanye amalungiselelo onokuthi onokuthi ungenziwa nabantwana bakho. Kwaye kuthekani ngabanye?
Abaphambukeli abantwana bakhulu kwaye bayayonwabisa xa bekwiifoto. Ngokufanelekileyo ukukhula, uhlala ufunda kakuhle kwaye ungaze ukhuphe izandi. Nika ezintathu. Hayi, nika ikhulu. Xa umntwana womnye umntu enomnquba phambi kwakho, i-nausees kwiibhutsi zakho kwaye inomdla ongxamisekileyo kwimixholo yeepokotho zikamama wakho, kuyabonakala ngathi umntwana ongomnye umntu ujongeka kanjalo. Hayi, hayi ubuso kwaye hayi iipakethi. Ngokucofa iziphumo- wena.
Kwangelo xesha, nasiphi na isenzo sakho, ngaphandle kokutyeshela ngokupheleleyo, ukubeka umngcipheko ukuzisa i-Mass.
Into esiyikhweleyo kwishishini lakho!
Ungubani apha? Ubuziwe?
Phakamisa eyakho!
Ewe, ngokubanzi, wena ucinga ukuba akukho nto inokwenziwa ekukhuliseni kwabantwana (ngakumbi, umzekelo, abantwana bakho). Ngokukodwa, ukuba ufikile kaninzi nabantu abohlukeneyo, abaphatha umntwana ongamaziyo ngokuzivala, ukuba bangenzi njalo i-ponaroshashka, emva koko bayazihlalisa zonke izinto ezivumelekileyo ekhayeni lakho. "Uya phi kwi-puddle ??? Ngaba uyafuna ukuntywila? " "Kutheni utya olu mbi? Ngubani oninike i-coca yasebusuku ye-coca? Uya kugula kwaye uya kufa! "
Ngequbuliso kuyavela ukuba nayiphi na incwina kwicala lomntwana lomnye umntu kukuzama ukufaka amalungelo abazali bakhe. Ubuchule ngokupheleleyo kunye nokuphulwa kwemida. Kwelinye icala, akukho mntu uyirhoxisile imida yakho. Kwaye abantwana babanye abantu, njengokwabo, baqonde ngokwaneleyo ukuba balandele imida yomnye umntu. Kwenziwe ntoni
Inketho 1. "Hee, lo ngumntu?"
Eyona ndlela ifanelekileyo yokulawula umntu ongamaziyo kukubhenela kubazali bakhe. Isebenza kakuhle xa kukho abazali kunokucofa. Nguwe womphathi katata okanye unompu ezandleni zakho. Ngaphandle koko, isiphumo sixhomekeka ekubeni uninzi lwezi, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, abantu (wazala umntwana omnye) ngokubanzi kukho ukuqonda ukuba abanye abantu banamalungelo kunye neminye imida. Ngaphandle koko, kwisikhalo "somntwana kabani emanzini aselwandle ??" Siza kufumana i-mavivivivivivie ", ungakulibali ukuhlamba iesile." Ukumangalisa (enyanisweni - Hayi), kodwa abantwana abanekratshi kwaye abangathandekiyo bahlala bengabazali abanekratshi nabangathandekiyo. I-Malf yegazi le-MARFEV, yonke loo nto.
Kodwa kunokuba yinto eyahlukileyo. Kwaye le hit inqabileyo, eyatywina kwaye itya i-ice cream yakho ayiphangeli ukuba iphile ngoncedo oluphambili, kwaye phantse umntu ophulukene noncedo sele ethetha, kwaye yintoni. (Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba ayithethi, i-ALO) ngelo xesha, ngakumbi, abazali baxolisa, bazakuze bakwazi ukulinganisa izinto ezinokwenzeka ukuze zibuyekezelwe ukuba kubi nomonakalo.
Mhlawumbi ingcaciso ethile yoxolo ngengxaki eyenziwayo. Abazali abaziisidenge abakwazi ukulandela into. Umntwana unokudideka kwaye wamkelekile. Okanye iinyanga ezimbini, njengoko yamkelwe ngakumbi kwi-mowgli. Ke ubongoza abazali-ngokubanzi, hayi ukhetho olubi.
Inketho 2. "Inkwenkwe, apha ndihlala"
Masithi abo banoxanduva lomntwana ababonakali okanye uncedo lwabo akufuneki balinde. Kwaye ngalo mntwana usanxibelelana nonxibelelwano. Lowo ungoyena mncinci kwisinki wakho, okanye ummelwane wakho kwigumbi lokuphumla, okanye umfundi ofunda naye. Musa ukusinda kwintsimi yakho, kodwa buyisela ngokuthe cwaka. Umama, uxolo, ulele. Okanye nasiphi na isicelo kubandakanya i-hubulka.
Ukongeza kumsindo othe ngqo okanye ngokungathanga ngqo, zimbalwa iindlela zokwazisa imida yemida engazange ifike apho. Umzekelo, i-protocol yendawo yokuzalwa. Ngentlonelo, ubuhlobo kwaye ucacisa ngokuzolileyo ukuba kutheni ungavumelani nento. Ngendlela efanayo, njengoko ndamcacisela umntwana wam. Okanye umntu osebenza naye. Okanye umama. Ukuba intombazana edlala nentombi yakho, ihlala ikucela ukuba unxibe iselfowuni yakhe xa uhamba kunye-wamnika ukuba aqale ipokotho okanye ibhegi yesandla. Kuba yonke into ukuba umama wakhe umbizela xa ejija kwi-swing, okanye ngequbuliso uyakuphazamisa kwaye ulahle le fowuni-unayo eyakho; Ewe, ekugqibeleni, wonke umntu kufuneka abenoxanduva kwizinto zawo. Nokuba umntwana usetyenziselwa eminye imithetho-kakuhle, yintoni, yintoni, yintoni, yintoni na, yintsimi yakho. Samkelwe apha.
Inqaku eliphambili apha kukho inkcazo yezolileyo. Awuhlaseli. Awuphakamiseli (ouzhas) yomntwana womnye umntu, uyalazisa nje ngemithetho esebenza kwisakhelo sakho. Ukongeza kuwe, ngubani onokwazisa lo mntwana? Ah, abazali abayithandi imithetho yakho? Banelungelo lokuthatha umntwana kunye nomda wakho, konke okuhle, bekumnandi ukudibana.
Inketho 3. "I-comrades, masilandele eyona nto inomdla"
Masithi kukhona amathuba okuba uthethathethwano oluncinci lwe-fucking ngokucacileyo lusezantsi, kodwa akukho bazali kufutshane okanye banyamezele kakhulu ukuba bahluphekile, ababangela ukuba bahlupheke. Ngokungaqhelekanga ngokwaneleyo, kula maxesha ukuba indlela esebenzayo ipapashiwe.
Isicatshulwa esivela kwi-FB enobuhlobo, ngemvume yombhali:
"Icala kumgca ekliniki, umgca mkhulu, kukho iindawo ezimbalwa.
Ecaleni kwam kuhlala inenenekazi elihlekisayo. Isondela kwithuba lakhe, uyaphakama kwaye intombazana itywina endaweni yayo, ngeminyaka elishumi, ishumi elinanye kwaye icacile:
- Ewe, enkosi uThixo, ekugqibeleni umntu ophakamisa i-esile yakhe ye-esile kwaye ndingahlala phantsi.
Nokuthula. Kwaye waneliseka ngumntu owonelisekileyo.
Ndijonge kakhulu kuye - nifiga, akukho mpendulo. Ndicinga ngokucacileyo "nangona kunjalo" kwaye i-milf iqala ngokukhawuleza - intambo yomtshato "yento ayindihlazisayo, ndicinge ngento abayithethayo," njl njl. Kodwa ngqo ngqo kucacile ukuba akanazintloni ngamagama ngokwawo. Unentloni ngenxa yenyani yokuba baviwe "
Asidingi ngqo ngoku ukuchitha isisu esifanelekileyo kwibhokhwe nganye, eyayisa indawo yoluntu. Kwanele ukukhumbuza inyani yokuba indawo leyo iluntu. Ngokomgaqo, le yeyona ndlela ininzi oogogo kwiibhedi isetyenziswa ngamanqanaba ahlukeneyo okreqo. Sonke sikhumbula bonke ubuntwana, yiphi indlela eyingozi - yonke into abayibonayo, abayi kucombulula nantoni na ngento.
Apha, njengakwiinguqulelo ezidlulileyo, kuya kufuneka uye kwi-razor blade-kwaye ungayi kunyuka kwishishini lakho (yintoni eza khumbula), kwaye ungavumeli ngokukhawuleza), kwaye ungavumeli ngokukhawuleza), kwaye ungavumeli ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ungavumeli ngokukhawuleza), kwaye ungavumeli ngokukhawuleza), kwaye ungavumeli ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ungavumeli ngokukhawuleza), kwaye ungavumeli ngokukhawuleza), kwaye ungavumeli ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ungavumeli ngokukhawuleza), kwaye ungavumeli ngokukhawuleza), kwaye ungavumeli ngokukhawuleza), kwaye ungavumeli ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ungavumeli ngokukhawuleza), kwaye ungavumeli ngokukhawuleza), kwaye ungavumeli ngokukhawuleza), kwaye ungavumeli ngokukhawuleza), kwaye ungavumeli ngokukhawuleza), kwaye ungavumeli ngokukhawuleza), kwaye ungavumeli ngokukhawuleza. Hayi, andichukumisi umntwana wakho. Ewe, ndinelungelo lokuxoxa ngento endinawo phambi kwamehlo am. Ewe, awunakundiphulaphula, nceda. Hayi, awungekhe undenze cwaka. Hayi, awungekhe undiyeke. Zitye? Ingaba. Umnqweno omhle.
Ngengaqhelekanga ngokwaneleyo, ayisiyongxaki (nangona abantu abaxoxwayo abayi kuvumelana nale nto). Indawo yoluntu yindawo - wonke umntu unelungelo lokuxoxa ngezenzo zomnye. Akwanelanga ukuba bangachukumisi imibuzo yembonakalo, ubukrelekrele, busenokwenzeka ukuba buze nexesha elizayo, kwaye ukugcina kuphela izenzo- kwaye uvumile. Njengaloo mgxeni ye-reindeer endiyibonayo, ndiyacula.
Ngendlela, abantwana - abantu baguquka kakhulu. Umntwana unokukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza ukuba kule meko kufuneka uziphathe ngendlela u-anti athi- kwaye ukuba imeko inomdla, emva koko ilandelayo kuwe ikhaya lakho ekhaya kunye nesilumkiso. Konke okudingayo kuyinto enomdla kwaye ngokucacileyo bachaze oko kuthathwa njengelungelo.
Isibhedlele, kwimeko esemgangathweni yentlalo kukholelwa ukuba umntwana ofundileyo ufanele aqikelele, ukuba angathandeka kangakanani na abantu. Yiza, nale nto kunye nabantu abadala, azifane ziphile, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka imiyalelo ngokuqinisekileyo. Sukunyamezela kwaye ugcine umsindo. Abantwana baziva bengavumanga na kuthi akunakumbi nangakumbi, kwaye njengomntu onkqonkqozwayo evela kwintiyo, ethe cwaka ngokuthe cwaka - sonke sazi yonke into ukususela ebuntwaneni.
Kucacile ukuba ingeyiyo yonke into esemhlabeni inokuvunyelwana. Kodwa ukuba ama-asshole othathu acela uxolo kwaye amiswe, umama uya kujongwa kwaye abathathu baya kudana kwaye bachukumiseke - emva koko umntu okokugqibela sele ekwazi ukujongana nazo. Umzekelo, ngokubiza amapolisa.
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