Abatshaba kuyo yonke indawo. Abaququzeleli bemitshato kunye nabathengisi baseMuslin ebusuku bahleka kwaye bahlambe kwimilibe yamatyala. I-Limousine ngerente ukuba ingafumani mali kuba bonke babhukishwa ngoMeyi. Kwi-chebbreichloya idlula ekrakra 'ekrakra "!". Ixesha lomtshato kwi-swing epheleleyo.
Mhlawumbi kudala watshata wonwabe kwaye ngamanye amaxesha usebenzisa i-crystad yesaladi inikelwe kwi-Aunting Antina. Kodwa masivume wena-ngoluvo lomtshato, kukho into engalunganga kwaye ukuba abantwana bethu bayamnqanda, baya kuba ngcono.
Sasingaphumelelanga
Nokuba yeyiphi na ababingeleli kunye noo-matarikhi kwii-ofisi zerejista zithi, umtshato awukho ngonaphakade. Ewe, oko kukuthi, ngesahlulo esikhulu kakhulu senokwenzeka engapheliyo ngonaphakade. ERussia, ngaphezu kwesiqingatha semibutho yemibutho yasemthethweni - i-53%, ukuba ichaneke. Abantu bakulungele ukuhlonipha amaqhina omtshato kuphela de umntu onentonga enamatheko, iPope okanye iPrinces Matkseevna. Kufanelekile ukulawula abasemagunyeni ukuba bayeke, kwaye abantu bayakhawuleza ukuya kuqhawula umtshato ngokukhawuleza njengoko into ingayi kwinkanyezi. Ipesenti yoqhawulo-mtshato kwilizwe lethu iphezulu, kodwa ingaqhelekanga - ePortugal, iSpain, i-USA, i-USA, i-Canada iphantsi, kwaye silandela nje imeko yeHlabathi .Ngapha koko, ayizukubangcono kuphela oosobhokinoloji babazali abaqhawule umtshato banziwa rhoqo kunabo bakhulele kwiintsapho ezomeleleyo. Kodwa kunye namandla anjengo-20 emva kweminyaka engama-20, engazange aqhawule umtshato, uya kuba kwindawo ecacileyo.
Umtshato-ucalucalulo lwazo zonke ezinye iintlobo zobudlelwane
Akukho zirekhodi zobhaliso iirekhodi zobuhlobo obusemthethweni. Ngeli xesha, kubantu abaninzi, ngowona mhlobo ulungileyo kwaye ngoyena mntu usondeleyo. Kwaye abaninzi bangathanda ukubabambe ngesandla ngokuvuselela phambili. Kwaye ezinye zinokukhetha ukwenza eyona ntombazana ibalaseleyo ngumgcini wesibini wabantwana - ngakumbi ukuba utata uzifune okanye engayimkeli kwaphela.
Kwaye wenze ntoni kwabo bangahambelani nesithembu kwaye bade? NgeZiko elikhoyo lomtshato, akunakwenzeka ukusombulula ubudlelwane kwimibutho yaseburhulumenteni - kulungile, oko kukuthi, ukuba awuhlali kumazwe ashushu kwaye unganxibi kwi-barge. Ngendlela, malunga ne-49% yabantu eyenzekanga engama-30 yenza ukuba ubudlelwane babo obufanelekileyo bunokuba yi-polygamy. Oko kukuthi, sithetha malunga nesiqingatha sabemi, kwaye hayi malunga neerheni.
Ukuba iziko lomtshato ligqitywe ekugqibeleni, kuya kuvela intsimi yezomthetho kwaye zonke ezinye iintlobo zemibutho yabasebenzi.
Umbutho womtshato uyahlanya
Akukho nto ingaqhelekanga ukuba i-steam engaphezulu iza kwi-ofisi yerejista kwi-jean kwaye iyala ukondla izalamane zesaladi. UBukhosi bomtshato fuseka kuzo zonke izikali ezifanelekileyo. Umtshato othobekileyo kakhulu "wedwa" uxabisa umyinge we-ruble yamawaka ali-180, umtshato ovela kudidi "awunazintloni ebantwini" - ukusuka kwi-1 yezigidi.Kwaye oku akubalwa iingubo - ii-salons zicebisa i-ruser iruble i-rubles njenge "hlahlo-lwabiwo mali". Ngokubanzi, yedwa, kuphela i-gestin kuphela eya kuphakamisa amawaka ngo-80. Cinga ngayo - ngomvuzo ophakathi wamawaka amawaka e-ruble (ebizwa ngokuba yiMveliso ePhakamileyo), umtshato ophantsi kakhulu kunye nomtshakazi ophantsi -umvuzo wezeNzulu. Akumangalisi ukuba umncinci uhlala ethatha imbuyekelo yomtshato - kwaye idla ngokuhlawulwa ngaphambi kokuba imali mboleko ihlawulwe. Yintoni kwakhona engamangalisiyo - kwizizathu zosapho oluselula lweengxabano kwaye ngaphandle kwamatyala. Kwaye izifundo zibonisa ukuba iidraphu zemali zangaphambili ziqala, ithuba lokuqhawula umtshato. Nangona kunjalo, kuyingenelo kubaququzeleli: Ukwahlukana kunokutshata elinye ixesha kwaye uphinde uchithe ilizwe elincinci kumtshato.
Kwaye ishishini elifanayo likhuthaza umtshato njengosuku olonwabileyo ebomini, ngokungathi kuphela emva kokutshintshiselana ngamatye oqala ukuziva ulungile kunye. U-fata uguqukela ekubeni ngumlingo we-pertisman onokuthatha inxaxheba naziphi na iingxaki kunye nokukhulisa kwingxabano.
Asisafuneki
I-monogamy rulit
Abathandi bokubhenela "kwindalo" banokucingisisa malunga nokuba yeyiphi inyani: izilwanyana ezininzi zithambekele kakhulu kwi-monogamy. Benza izibini ezizinzileyo ngaphandle kotshintsho, ixabana elikhokelela kulowo ukhokelayo kwi-kindergarten kunye neengcikivo malunga ne-insulvevecy yezemali - kodwa okwethutyana. I-penguins okanye iingcuka zihlala kunye, zisake incinci kwaye zincancise impumlo, kodwa xa amancinci akhule, athathe isigqibo sokuqhubeka nokufumana amahlakani amatsha - kwaye yonke into iphindwayo.
Ukusuka kwindawo yebhayoloji, kuyanceda ukugcina ukwahluka kwemfuzo, ukusuka kwimbono yentlalo, oku kukuthi, ngokubanzi, akulunganga - ngakumbi ukuba wenza inkqubo kwizidalwa ezinzima njengabantu. Sihlala ixesha elide, kwaye bambalwa bakulungele ukuchitha ubomi bonke ukusuka kwi-16 ukuya kwi-86 ngomntu omnye - umngcipheko mkhulu kakhulu ukuba siza kuphuhlisa ubudlelwane. Akukho mntu ucinga ukuba kwinxalenye yabahlobo bomntwana, tshintsha izixeko kunye nobungakanani bomsebenzi kwaye uziphethe kakubi. Kodwa ngenxa yesizathu esithile, yonke into iyatshintsha, ayinakutshata. Nangona into enomdla kwi-20 inokuphoxeka kwi-30- kwaye ingaphezulu kwesiqhelo. Kungcono ukukhwela indoda evuthayo kunye ne-Artem, nge-40 ukuya kuhambo lwe-vitaly, kwaye ekukhuleni kwe-70 elizweni igorha nge-igor kune-GARY kwinyaniso yokuba akazange ahlangane namathemba.