Ugqirha wezengqondo waseBelarusia wePavel Zygmanvich wabelana ngeziphumo zophando ngobomi bentsapho yezibini kwaye ucacisa ukuba bathetha ntoni.
Kwiipasile ze-yedleles, i-AM, isakholelwa ukuba umsebenzi wamadoda kwindlu zizikhonkwane, iikhreyithi kunye neekhabhathi. Inqaku lezikhonkwane, iikreyi ezilungisa, ziqhube iiwadi. Kwaye hlamba izitya okanye usule umgangatho - fu, hayi into eyindoda. Yithi, thabatha ingubo - uya kuba yi-rag, uphulukana ne-testosterone kunye ne-potency.
Kwaye ukuba indoda eyahlukileyo iyavuma ukusula umgangatho okanye uthuli, lwenziwa ngembonakalo enjalo ebusweni ukuba umfazi angabi yindoda enkosi-andifuni ukumjonga kwindoda enjalo.
Ngethamsanqa, kukho iindaba ezimnandi - unako, ungamkhuthaza umyeni wakhe ukuba enze umsebenzi wasekhaya.
Amandla eSayensi
Uninzi lwakutsha nje, izenzululwazi yaseJamani sele ipapashe isifundo se-dededinal (i-Elestimimic - i-Weituda) kumsebenzi wasekhaya kunye nezesondo (ekubhekiswa kuyo kuphando).Kwiminyaka emihlanu, baphawula izibini ezingama-1388 zamadoda nabafazi ababebubudlelwane bexesha elide.
Isiphelo esiphambili sokuphanda-xa indoda isebenza ngokujikeleza indlu, ukwaneliseka ngokwesondo ngawo omabini amaqabane kuyakhula.
Kuyinyani, ayisiyiyo yonke into elula kakhulu - ayisebenzi ngokwale ndlu loo nto. Njengamaxesha onke, kubaluleke ngakumbi kwisimo sengqondo salo msebenzi.
Eyona meko iphambili kukuvavanywa kokwahlulwa kweCandelo lomsebenzi. Ukuba amaqabane alo mbuzo anesivumelwano esipheleleyo, ke akukho ngxaki- wonke umntu wenza inxenye yawo yomsebenzi, emva koko ulala kuyo bonke abathathi-nxaxheba kwixesha elizayo.
Ndiyagxininisa: Isivumelwano soMculo kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba imisebenzi yasekhaya, iingxaki kunye nomsebenzi zisasazwa ngokufanelekileyo. Oko kukuthi, ukuba umntu ucinga ukuba unceda ngesisa encedisa endlwini yomfazi wakhe, kwaye ke akufuneki ahlambe izitya, ngoko ke ubulungisa apha, bungavumi.
Kodwa ukuba indoda icinga ngolu hlobo: "Eli likhaya lethu, ndihlala apha ngendlela efanayo, ngoko ke ndingumgangatho wam, ndilikhuphe uthuli. Ngumntwana wam, ndingumzali wakhe, kanye njengam, ngokunjalo, nditsho iesile lam, ndibuhluthile ubuso bam kwi-Apple, "enye into! Oku ikufuphi nokwahlukana kakuhle koxanduva.
Omnye umzekelo sisifundo sikaDaniel L. KSasson. Kwisampulu yezibini ezingama-487, babonisa ukuba xa umntwana esenza ikakhulu kumfazi - engachaphazeli ubomi bezesondo. Xa kuphela umntwana esenza ikakhulu kwindoda yakhe - oku akulunganga kakhulu. Kodwa xa imisebenzi iyasasazwa ngakumbi okanye ilingane, emva koko isini siba mhle (Jonga iinkcukacha apha).
Izenzo zakho
Okokuqala, kuya kufuneka ucacisele umyeni wam ukuba umntu otshatileyo ebomini bakhe ayonelanga kuba awumthandi, kodwa ngenxa yokuba ngenxa yemicimbi yakho yekhaya ongenamandla. Mxelele ukuba azithabathela le nto, kwaye yiyo loo nto, kwaye yiyo loo nto, yiyo loo nto, uya kuba namandla amakhulu, kwaye uya kuvela umphefumlo wakho.
Umzekelo, unokuthetha into enje: "Darling, xa ndilele abantwana, ndidiniwe ukuba ndidinwe ukuba ndibaqhube kwigumbi lokuhlambela kwaye nditshintshe kwi-pajamas ukuba i-pajamas ingahlali kwinethiwekhi yoluntu. Masilandele ukucocwa kwamazinyo, ukucoca iithoyi kunye nokunxiba kwi-pajamas, kwaye sele ndifundile intsomi ebusuku. Kwaye ke ndiza kuba yi-bodra kwaye ndiwa, kwaye ubusuku bothando lwenzeka kanye namhlanje. "
Ewe kunjalo, andiyonakalisi ngokuthe ngqo kolu candelo lwezi zinto zixhalabisayo - unokukhetha enye inketho. Umnikelo wam ngumzekeliso kuphela.
Ewe kunjalo, andikuqinisekisi ukuba umntu wakho uyavuma ngokukhawuleza, kodwa esi sicelo silungile, sinomtsalane. Ukuze itshise.
Ukuba iyasilela kwilungelo elinye, musa ukuphelelwa lithemba - gxininisa ukudinwa kwakho, gxininisa ukuba umtsalane wendoda yakho ye-sex kwaye uyenze yahlulwe ngendlela efanelekileyo yomsebenzi wasekhaya. Eyona nto inokwenzeka iya kusebenza.
Ukubhenela kubazalwana kwi-Y-chromosome
Guys, yintoni kanye? Isithsaba sakho asiyi kuwa ukuba uza kwenza umsebenzi wasekhaya. Kwaye hayi ekunyamezeleni, abafazi abaninzi basebenza emsebenzini kwaye basebenza ekhaya (kubizwa ngokuba "shift yesibini") kunye neqela ngandlela thile (nangona zinzima kakhulu).
Ke ubuye ekhaya evela emsebenzini, uhlambe izandla zam, inxila ngumqhubi kwaye yathatha ishishini lasekhaya. Banceda abantwana abanezifundo, uthuli lothuli, iintyatyambo ezigalelwe ikhitshi, impahla yangaphantsi yomile.
Ewe, kunzima - yintoni onokuyenza, bububomi babantu abadala.
Kwaye hayi, inyani yokuba umfazi ukwikhefu lokuya kubeleka lingathethi ukuba uphumle. Xa amaqabane anezikolo ezincinci (kude kuse esikolweni), akukho mntu uphumle kwaphela. Omabini amaqabane asemsebenzini iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku. Ke ngoko, kungekho "ndivela emsebenzini, ndidiniwe." Nobabini nidiniwe, kodwa uya kuba neholide xa uthumela abantwana kubakhulu kubakhulu. Okwangoku-kufuneka usebenze zombini.
Andithandi? Ke zintathu ukhetho-okanye zifumane ngaphezulu ukuqesha abantu abaqeqeshiweyo abaqeqeshiweyo abazalisekisa wonke umsebenzi wasekhaya, okanye abafuni ukuba baninzi kwinkosikazi yam, okanye abatshatanga kwaphela. Kwaye ukuba utshatile, yiya njengabantu abadala-sebenzani ujikeleze indlu kunye nomfazi wakho.
Iyonke. ICandelo elifanelekileyo lomsebenzi kwiNdlu kuphuma kakhulu kwisondo kwisibini. Ke ngoko, amadoda aluleke kakhulu ukuba athathe eminye imisebenzi yekhaya, athetha ngokubhekisele kwiCandelo labo elilungileyo. Kungcono oku kuya kuba yiyo yonke.
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