Ukulungiselela ukuvela komntwana okanye ukupha, ubomi, uMama ubambe iincwadi, iiforamu eziza kumxelela indlela yokuziphatha engavunyelwanga kwaye engavunyelwanga, njengakwiidanda zentengiso.
Kwaye ngoko nangoko zijongene nenyaniso yokuba oochwephesha bezengqondo beziqithi, oogqirha be-MADS, kunye nabagqatswa okanye bahlalutyo, okanye basasaza ingcinga, nina niphela ngalo lonke ixesha, unawo onke amaxilongo obubi , Awukwenzi konke konke ukuba unqwenela ukwenza okungalunganga.
Ukukhwela ngokunganyangi, uyathanda ukuba ngumama ombi. Engagqibekanga.
Ngokudibeneyo kunye neengxaki ababejamelene nebhinqa, ubomi bungagqibekanga konke, kodwa, kunjalo, kunjalo kanye. Kubonakala ngathi xa ufuna uncedo, uya kuyinika kuphela ukutshintshiselana ngelungelo lokuqhutywa. Ngenxa yoko, ukuphuma kwencwadi entsha yencwadi ethi "Genesis" - "Umama uyathandwa. 9 Intsomi malunga nonyoko ", ngoko nangoko nangaphandle kwamathandabuzo uxelela umama wakhe, ndikwicala lakho, kwaye iqela leli lilungisa. Kwaye ungamangalisi! Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, yabhalwa ngoomama abafanayo-intatheli i-Elena Bezredova kunye ne-psychologist tatyana pospelova.
Kukho isidingo sesithathu esisele sinengqondo kumama-amandla okuba sincinci ngaphandle komntwana. Ndingathanda ukukukhumbuza ukuba umama wanamhlanje, njengomthetho, uzisa umntwana kuphela notata. Oko kukuthi, uninzi lwabo bahlala kude nabazali babo, kuba kwilizwe lethu elikhulu kukho abantu abambalwa bazelwe apho wazalelwa khona. Kwangelo xesha, utata unyanzelekile ukuba asebenze ngale ndlela, umthetho wenyanga yomfazi uchitha nomntwana phantse wedwa. Kwaye kunzima
Akukho sizathu sokuba, enyanisweni, ihlala ibangela ukudana kunye nemvakalelo yokuziva unetyala-amabali malunga nendlela endinokuthetha ngayo, kwaye unako konke. Ngokuchasene noko, uMama Lena noTanya baxela indlela abathabatha ngayo kwaye abakwazanga - baphile emva kokufika komntwana ubomi obudala, bezona zinobukrelekrele nobukrelekrele kakhulu kwaye lonke ixesha babhukuda kulonwabo lwe ubunyhakazi wabo.
Kwaye baxela ukuba kutheni le nto iqhelekile, ukusuka ekuphakameni kwamava abo (kwaye uTatiana uphinda-phindwe kathathu!), Ngokuxhomekeke kwi-tereotype ye-tereotype, ebonakala ngathi iveliswa Kwi-ofisi eyimfihlo elungiselela ukuchitha i-moms kunye nabantwana babo.
Kodwa ndandinexhala. Kakhulu. Yintoni ethandabuzekayo malunga "nentuthuzelo", i-corrodise, ndiyathandabuza kwaye ndihleke. Ngesiquphe, yonke le nto isebenza ngokwenene, kwaye umntwana wam ngenxa yesimo sengqondo sam semithulukudu ngokuza kuphuhliswa kwangoko ?!
Kodwa "Umama uyathandwa!" Ingayi kuba baxabiseke kangangesiqingatha ukuba, ngaphandle kokugcina nokuzolisa ibhinqa elinomntwana, alizange linikele izindululo ezinokusebenza nzima kwaye zingaqhelekanga nje kwiimeko zekhaya nabantwana. Ngamanye amaxesha alwenzi konke konke kujongile oomama abafanelekileyo ngendlela yokuba yinto efanayo, ngakumbi abuphambili. Ewe kunjalo, akukho lonwabo lweetalimu ze-spock okanye i-komirovsky, kodwa inikwa isiluleko esinjalo ukuba akukho lula ukufezekisa izalamane, abanye oomama nabacebisi kwi-Intanethi. Ke, linda iincwadi ngeencwadi zenkcubeko yesiFrentshi. Ukuba unomntwana-okanye umama otsha othinjiweyo kumhlobo - esinye sezona zipho zibalaseleyo emva kwesibhedlele seMagazini siya kuba "mama sithandwa!"
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