Ilungisiwe, sithandwa, nawe kufuneka ukwazi. Ke ngoko, sacela uncedo kwi-psychotherapist yengqondo, i-Adria Izh (Mssu, i-migip, iincwadi ezi-3 ze-9 ye-9 ye-Psychology kunye neminyaka eli-9 yamava), kwaye wasixelela indlela yokuzonwabisa Zidibanise uthuli kwaye uqhube umtshayelo uye kwi-plinth.
Nguwo lowo umyalelo kwabo bathanda ukuthi: "Ukuba andikwazi kukhaba, andiyi kufumana nto." Kwabo babonakala ngathi bayathetha okuhle ngawo, lihlazo. Kuwo wonke umntu, ocinga ukuba akazange afezekise nantoni na, ungafikeleli kwaye ungayifezekisi.Ngokuqinisekileyo, sele uzama ukuzithoba, kodwa ukuba ucinga ukuba unento elungileyo kuwe, oko kuthetha ukuba akuyonto yako. Ewe, akukho nto, ngoku siza kulungisa yonke into, kwaye ungakutshabalalisa ukuzithemba kwakho.
Kwizicatshulwa ezikhawulezayo zeza ezizezo ze-goestaltists zimbini iintlobo zeenkqubo ezinjalo-zikhanyele kwaye zidlule. Ihlala ibalulekile, njengenzululwazi ngokwesayensi yenkqubo ebandakanyekayo? Ewe, ngoku uyazi.
Ukwala i-ego. Yeyam loo nto.
Oko yayingeyiyo mna. Unotshe. Bendingavalanga apho.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde - xa kuhle ukuhla kwexabiso, yonke into ilungile kufuneka ichazwe kwabanye, kunye nayo yonke into embi. Ngaba yayiyindawo yevasi? Ndilahle. Uphumelele ukhuphiswano? Yayingendim.
Unjani wena, igama lakho lokugqibela?
Ilula kakhulu. Sukuncama.
Okokuqala, ifani, ewe, yeyam. Kodwa ecaleni kwakho kufuneka ubhale igama likatitshala. Ungoyena mntu ulungileyo, lo ngumsebenzi wakhe, ngaphandle kwakhe andizukuma kufutshane.
Okwesibini, ijaji yayiqhelekile kwaye inovelwano. Kulungile. Okanye isidenge. Ndibeka amanqaku aphezulu abufaneleyo.
Okwesithathu, into ebendiyithetha ngequbuliso kwilizwi lam. Ngokwesiqhelo ndisisidenge, andikwazi ukudibanisa amagama amabini, ndiwela kwimidaniso, isidenge kwiMathematics. Kwaye ke indalo ithile ngandlel 'ithile ithongiwe kwaye isiqingatha seyure senza inkanyezi kum. Elinye ixesha aliyi kuba njalo.
Okwesine, yingozi ngokubanzi. UMashu naye kwafuneka ahlukane nolu khuphiswano, kodwa waphula umlenze wakhe, kodwa ngokubanzi mama uyanda kabini, kwaye ukuba iMama wayengazange azi, ngekhe ndazi.
Okwesihlanu, yonke mama notata. Ukuba abandihambisi kwii-mugs, khange babethe ifosholo entloko, abazange bandinge kwinkaba kwaye bengazange bakhwaze iziqwengana, bendiyenzile AKUFUNI funda indlela yokugoba ngokungxama, andizukufumana uthando olungenamiqathango kwaye azange ndilwe ngulo.
Kwaye ukhuphiswano ngekhe luphumelele.
Okwesithandathu, zonke ezo ziimfumba zonke. Hayi, andim. Imfuza. Oku kum, njengakwiimovie, uMakhulu Agraphen Arkadyevna. Wayenjalo ke ow. Kwaye, ewe, hayi. Kodwa i-5% yeAgraphenes yaseArcadevna kube kanye ngonyaka benza imimangaliso. Kwaye ngokubanzi, ingqondo ayisiyam, ndifumene kwiinkawu. Kwaye iinyawo ezivela kwiCaratia. Ke le ayisiyo, kunjalo.
Hayi uloyiso lwam. Kwaye unganikezeli, andizukuthatha.
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Kukho elinye elinye idolo, kubalulekile ukuba ungadideki. Apha kufuneka uchithe lonke ixabiso lento eyenzekayo. Ewe kunjalo, uthathe inxaxheba kukhuphiswano. Kwaye waphumelela. Kodwa lilize.
Okokuqala, olu khuphiswano lwalutshitshisiwe. Kwii-morons. Akunjalo nangokunjalo, ngokuba yi-superdlis. Ingakwazi ukuphumelela kuyo i-chrome chihuahua, kodwa akazange eze, ukuze uphumelele.
Okwesibini, abagwebi babezizo. Abazange baqaphele iVacasya eqaqambileyo, baphuma ekubeni engazange alungiswe kwaye walala enxitywe phantsi kwebhasitha, ngokubanzi, wanika umvuzo.
Okwesithathu, ewe, olu khuphiswano uyaphumelela, kodwa uhlala kummandla. Kwaye kukho sonke isiRashiya. Umhlaba. U-Allian. Ngokuchasene nemvelaphi yolu khuphiswano, kukukhathalela nje. Kwaye ukhona, ewe, uphulukana, akukho nto unokucinga.
Okwesine, kakuhle, uyaphumelela - kwaye yintoni? Uhlala phi le mbandela? Izindlu sele zilukiwe iindonga, zixhonywe kudonga, akukho mali yongezwe, ukuba ilindelwe yimali, akonyukanga, ingekacacanga, isizathu sukuba lungacacanga. Kungangcono kwi-porridge, ngokunyaniseka.
Okwesihlanu, apha, ngendlela, ewe-malunga ne-porridge. Ngelixa uthatha inxaxheba kukhuphiswano lwethu apho, umyeni ngaphandle kwesidlo sangokuhlwa uCursyy, umntwana ochazwe, kunye nomkhwekazi othandayo wathwalwa yipakethi yobisi kwivenkile. Oku, okokuqala, konke ngenxa yakho (bona inqaku lokuqala ukuba yonke into imbi - kuya kuba tyala), kwaye, okwesibini, endaweni yokutshintsha abantwana bakhe, ukutshintsha iphakheji ongumkhwekazi. Ewe, okanye ndikhuphe i-bulbs yokukhanya kwinkosikazi yayo kwaye kwakhona, ukutshintsha abantwana kwaye ndihlambe imigangatho yomkhwekazi. Kancinane, ngequbuliso uyinkwenkwe. Ewe, intombazana ifana neCinderella, inelungelo lokukhuphisana kuphela emva kokufezekisa uluhlu lwamaphepha kumaphepha amahlanu kunye nethanga elincinci.
Ngaba bafundiwe kakuhle, ababizi, bakhumbula, erekhodwe? Apha, ngoku nonke niyazi, kodwa ke, kunjalo, kubalulekile. Ungalibali ukuziqhelanisa "ayisiyiyo le" kwaye "yonke le yinkunkuma", nantoni na oyenzayo. Kwaye emva koko uyakuqinisekiswa ukuba uzithemba uphantsi, impilo-ntle engalunganga kwaye igqibelele, imvakalelo engapheliyo yokuba usisilele, kwaye sele usabelana.
Yonwabela.