Xa indoda ikwenza utshintshe umhlobo wakho: amabali okwenyani

Xa intombi ithathe kwaye yathwala indoda-le, ukuba ithethe ngokunyaniseka, nangona idanisa kakhulu, kodwa icacile. Silungiselele ubomi bam bonke: Zombini i-binema, iincwadi kunye neemagazini.

Kodwa malunga nento esingazange isilumkisileyo - kukuba le ndoda ifuna ukusahlula-mbini. Siqokelele amabali okwenyani yabafazi abaBini babugqume ubuhlobo.

I-lovelace

Nje ukuba ubambe umyeni wam wokuqala ukuba athandane nentombi yam. Khange ndibone nantoni na, ndaye ndikholelwa ukuba umqalisi wayesoloko esengumfazi - "imiqondiso ikhonza." Ndayeka ukumema ukuba ndityelele kwaye ndinciphise unxibelelwano ngokubanzi.

Ke amaxesha ambalwa ndayibamba umyeni wam ngokuthandana nabahlobo bam kunye nodadewethu. Ngenxa yoko, xa waqhawule umtshato, waya entlango. Ndandixhasa, ndibulela kuye uThixo, umntu osebenza nabo emsebenzini. Ngoku kude, kokukhona kuyabonakala ukuba umyeni wangaphambili wayethandana naye ngabom. Kukundinceda kwiintombi. Nangona kunjalo, ndicinga ukuba baphendule kwi-Flind, ukusuka kwezothando ecaleni kwecala akazange avume.

Thabatha iminyaka emibini

Ndichithe ubusuku ngandlel 'ithile nomntwana kwigumbi lomhlobo wam osenyongweni. Ayisiyonto ilungileyo, kwaye kakhulu, intombi yabo bonke ubuntwana. Ngelo xesha wayetshatile, kwaye ndiqhawula umtshato kuphela. Kwaye kwavela ukuba unyana wam unyana ka-One wakhumbula umfanekiso wentengiso ngokungacwangciswanga. Intombazana yentombazana yandinika isigculelo. Kwaye intombi yakhe yamxhasa ...

Ndakhubekiswa kwaye asizange sinxibelelane nakwiminyaka emibini ngelixa engatshatanga. Emva koko sadibana, saxolelanisa, saxoxa, saxolelana. Kwaye kwiiveki ezimbini wasweleka. Kwaye ndisakumkani ngokuphulukana nayo yonke iminyaka emibini, esinokuba ngabahlobo kwaye sinxibelelane.

Ngelixa siphila

Ndandingumhlobo nentombazana emnandi kakhulu, elumkileyo, entle, yahlulahlula umdla wam. Ngandlela thile watshata. Saqala ukuba ngabahlobo, njengoko besitsho, iintsapho.

Kodwa ndakuba ndiphikisane nendoda yakhe, imbambano yaya kwingxabano, wachitha izithuko ezimbi nezicekiseka. Intombazana ikhethwe emva kokungxama oku cwaka ngokuthe cwaka kunye naye.

Andiyitsali ebomini. Asinxibelelanisi ngoku, kodwa ukuba ufuna ukubuyisela ubudlelwane, ndiyavuma. Ngenxa yokuba ubuhlobo kunye neenkumbulo eziqhelekileyo zibiza kakhulu, kwaye ngelixa siphila, yonke into ingalungiswa.

Hoochickle

Indoda yam yangaphambili ihlekisa ngezinto zokuzonwabisa kunye nembono yeentombi zam. Ayikaze yenze ngqo. Ekuqaleni, ivele kufutshane nam nomhlobo onengxaki engathathi hlangothi kwaye kubonakala ngathi ndikwigumbi lokuhlala (ndiyakuthanda ukuhlala nomntu ekhitshini). Kodwa emva koko kwavela ukuba wayemamele ngononophelo kwiincoko zethu.

Kubonakala emfanekisweni, akukho hlahla, icocekile ukuba ivule, yaqalisa ukuva abantu abangayityiweyo inyama / boyika ukuthunga kunye nokuloyika iibhabhathane zokuthunga. Ndiyenzile ngeyona nkalo ingenatyala, ngokungathi andizazi ukuba yayingunobangela wethu wokuthunga. Incoko encinci kunye nathi ngale ndlela kwaye iphinde ihambe.

Iintombi ezingenamfanelo ukuba zize kum, kwaye andizukushiya naphi na ekhaya, ndahlala ngalo lonke ixesha ngamawele am amancinci. Ngasekupheleni ndiye ndaqala ukuqhuba ngaphandle konxibelelwano, kulungile, kungekuphela nje, umyeni yile, amacala angathandekiyo afunyanwa.

Ngethamsanqa, intombi yam ekugqibeleni ayizange ilibale ngam, ngoku sinxibelelana kwakhona kwaye xa siqhawule umtshato wandinceda. Savuya kakhulu kuba ndihlukane nomyeni wam, kwaye ndiyabaqonda ngokupheleleyo. Ewe kunjalo, uyandigculela ngale ndlela.

Ngethamsanqa, ayizanga!

Nentombi yethu, iphantse yahlulelana ngenxa yamadoda. Okokuqala, sonke sinezine njengabahlobo. Kwaye kwi-riprurate, ezintabeni, ukusuka kwimpucuko kunye noxinzelelo, intombi yomyeni iphantse yankqonkqoza iliso lam.

Bona, kunjalo, bawa. Sasinomfana ukuba siphazamise ukuphumla siye esibhedlele. Emva koko, akunakwenzeka ukuba ngabahlobo nezibini. Intombi ide ivule ukuza kumhla wokuzalwa kwam, kuba umyeni wakhe wayengakwazi ukuhamba naye, kwaye ngaphandle kwakhe wayengafuni ukuya. Ndakhutyekiswa kakhulu.

Unxibelelwano lwethu ngandlela thile luza kulo, asibonanga ngokwaneleyo. Kodwa emva koko, nangona abafana bengenzanga, nomhlobo wam sabuya sahlala sinelamano. Madoda, ewe, abahlali bonwabile, kuhle, nezidenge.

Vele ukholwe

Intombi yayinomyeni. Kwaye ndaba nendoda. Intombazana yayingumhlobo nomyeni wam, kwaye mna - naye. Kwaye iminyaka emihlanu ndacinga: iyimfuneko, into elungileyo endinayo, inomtsalane kakhulu, uyazi ukuba inyani, ayisiyiyo into engazange iphele ubuchule bam.

Emva koko ndaphupha ngendoda yam. Intombazana iqhubekile ukuba ngumhlobo kunye naye, ingaqondakali into awayengasonjululwanga, kwaye ndaqhubeka ndingabahlobo nomyeni wakhe. Kwaye bona, banomhlobo nomyeni wakhe, abakho. Abakhange badibane. Ngokungathi kukho umntu ophezulu emva koko udidekile. Bobabini bakhalaza malunga nomnye ... kakuhle, ngokubanzi, ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiqhawule umtshato, andikayiqondi loo nto, ndiyamthanda.

Ndayithwala. Kwakuyiminyaka eyiseko: ukulala, ukutya. Kwiveki kamva, ipeyintwe kumbundu wezinto. Ndikunye nomhlobo wam ndadibana. Uye watsho ngokubuhlungu: "Phulaphula, uneenyawo ne-asshole! Yiphose, ayiyondoda, akukho babalo banokuba nguyise. Makhe sihlale nawe ngokubanzi! "

Ndala, ubuhlobo buye baphela (asizange sixabane, bayeka nje unxibelelwano). Kwaye yena umyeni wam waguqukela ekubeni yi-asshole, owashiya ekugqibeleni ngaphandle kwendlu kunye nokukwazi ukuthemba abantu. Ewe, kunjalo, okona kuphezulu.

Kwaye intombi yaleyo yangaphambili ihlala nomntu obhinqileyo. Kwaye ndihlala nomfazi. Bonwabile bonwabile. Kwibali lonke, ndiphethe kuphela isimilo: Kufuneka ukholelwe ngabahlobo bam, kholwa, ukuba uthi i-asshole inokuba i-asshole.