I-Lesbians kufuneka ijongane nemicimbi efanayo kunye neemeko kwisangqa. Kungangcono ukubacacisela kwangaphambili, ukuze naziphi na izinto ezisixhenxe ezithanda ukuba abantu abathandanayo abathanda ukuxelela okungenani iintombi zabo ze-heterosexual.
#Nye
Xa usitsho ukuba ayisiyonto yonke into enjengathi, singayi kukuphumelela, kuthetha ukuba: ungayiva intanda yakho kwisitishi, kodwa andinamntu omthandayo; Unganga ngomhla epakini, kwaye i-hayi; Ungafika kwiqela elihlanganisiweyo, apho umenyiwe kwisibini, kwaye wonwabe khona kunye nomntu omthandayo, kwaye andinawo oyithandayo.Ubiza ukuthanda izinto eziqhelekileyo ezivumela wena buqu, kodwa andiyenzi. Ayibonakali ngathi "andichasanga". Ijongeka ngokuthe ngqo. Ngaba thina Ngabahlobo bethu nje?
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Andiqondi ukuba kwakutheni, ukuxubusha umtshato wesini esifanayo, uthetha kuphela ngesini sendoda kunye nenyaniso yokuba abazali abafumanayo banokuziphindezela abantwana. Abazali befilimu kwaye ngaphandle kwetays amaxesha ngamaxesha anamathela kubantwana (kwaye oku kubizwa ngokuba nguPedophilia, kwaye hayi uthando lwesondo olufanayo), kufuneka balandele iinkonzo zentlalo. Kunye nomtshato wesini esifanayo, okokuqala, hayi malunga nesondo lendoda. Umalunga namawakawaka abantu abatshatileyo abakhulisa kunye abakhulisa abantwana abasele bekho kwaye bafuna ukuba kulindelwe ukuba bangasonjululwanga nabo ekwimeko ebaluleke kakhulu. Umalunga nokugcina omnye komnye ngesandla sakhe, uvelise uvelwano emngcwabeni (kuba unelungelo!), Musa ukuchaza amagosa ukuba umzimba ufanelekile ukuba ungapheli ngokwamagosa ukuba loo nto. Abantu basesondo bangabandakanyeka ngokugqibeleleyo ngaphandle komtshato, ukubala?
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Kwisibini sethu, akukho mntu, vula amehlo, kubizwa ngokuba singoobani abafazi. Rhabaxa okanye obuthathaka, owomileyo okanye ngokweemvakalelo, eyahlukileyo okanye eyahlukileyo okanye ifana kakhulu. Yintoni enokuphembelela ngokubanzi, ukujonga abafazi ababini, babuza ukuba ngubani kubo indoda? Amagama "ANA" kunye "neLena" kubonakala ngathi ungenax?#four
Asipheleli ngokuchasene nexabiso losapho. Xa sifuna ukutshata, ngokuchanekileyo kuba sikwimilinganiselo yosapho. Ubuhlobo ziintsapho, umtshato ngemhlophe, ukhulisa abantwana.
#Ntlanu
Ukuba sithanda abafazi, oko akuthethi ukuba ndidlwengule elowo, endiza kutyelela kuwo. Oku kuthetha ukuba ndiyakhathalela indlela abantu abaqhelekileyo. Kuyoyikisa ukucinga ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kwi-heterosex lob i-heterial ukuba unembono eqhelekileyo ukuba udlwengule umntu kuba inomtsalane. Ndiyathemba ukuba ayiyi kuba yinto yesiqhelo.# 6.
Andikhathali nokuba wena nomyeni wam babone kwi-portal kwicandelo "Lesbians", umnikelo wokubandakanya ukuba ngesondo kunye nawe (apho i-I) indoda eyongezelelweyo ayikho malunga ne-Lesbiaus .
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Ukuba yi-Lesbian ayikho malunga nefashoni hayi ngelaphu. Akunjalo apho ungadlwengula khona, "ukuze niyiqonde into umntu ayo, kwaye uphosa isidenge sakho," okanye ubetha phambi kwabantu obathandayo ukuba kunye naye. Akunjalo, apho ibinzana elithi "i-lesbian enesibindi kwi-heterosexual ayifani" ithathelwa ingqalelo kwaye ibalulekile.
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