Iyamangalisa, kodwa iyinyani: Abo kudala babenobudlelwane nabo babelana ngesondo! Ayininzi, kunjalo, njani ekuqaleni kwenoveli, kodwa kungcono kakhulu ... okanye akunjalo? .. Sibuze abantu abahlala kunye, kuyinyani ukuba ukhetho lwephepha lombala luyabulala sonke ngesondo kwi ingcambu?
Ngoku ngumsebenzi
Ngapha koko, le yimvakalelo engaqhelekanga - ukufuna umntu owubonayo yonke imihla ngaphandle kweyona nto ibonakalayo. Oko kukuthi, isixa semali sinqabile, kodwa umgangatho uye walunge ngakumbi. Okokuqala, ekugqibeleni sayedwa ngokupheleleyo kwaye sasingenakukhathazeka malunga nento enokuza nayo ummelwane, uMama okanye omnye umntu onokukhululwa ngokupheleleyo.Ukongeza, kupholile ukuba unokuba neentlobano zesini ngalo lonke ixesha ufumanisa ecaleni kwengubo enye. Ukwazisa ngeminqweno yakho, ubunzulu. Kwaye saqala ukusebenza ngakumbi kwaye silula ngakumbi.
Kwelinye icala, amaxesha anzima ngoku kuboniswe ngokucacileyo - akukho sini. Ewe, onjalo "ngesondo phantsi kwembophelelo" yavela, njengosuku lweValentine - ukuba awukwenzi oku, unokubeka umnqamlezo kubudlelwane bakho. I-ntle kamnandi yesondo, kufuneka ndithethe.
Ulwalamano lwasimahla yi-buzz
Senze enye indlela ngeenxa zonke: Baqala ukuhlala kunye ngaphambi kokuba ubudlelwane bethu buqale. Ndacinga ukuba ndimbongozeni uSofa egumbini lokuhlala njengommelwane, ndide ndizifumane izindlu, kodwa mna, ngandlel 'ijijekileyo, ndiye ndahamba ndaya kwigumbi lakhe lokulala. Sasisemncinci kakhulu, saphulukana neentloko, kodwa xa kudlula ubuhlakani bokuqala, yonke into igudileyo kwaye ithandana kakhulu.
Emva kweminyaka engama-2,5, yonke into itshintshiwe: kwavela izithuko, kuba sasingakwazi ukuba kunye njengoko sifuna ukuba sibekho ngenxa yeShedyuli yobomi. Isondo sajika indlela eyonwabisayo. Kodwa sasinda saka kwaye ngoku silala kunye kuba zombini ifuna, kwaye kungenxa yokuba ufuna kakhulu kwaye sihlala kunye.
Iresiphi yethu ibubudlelwane basimahla. Ewe kunjalo, kwakungekho lula ukuba isetyenziswe kwifomathi enjalo - ngakumbi isithandwa sam, unguthando olubi, kodwa, nokuba uncedwa kangakanani. Sisondele, sihamba sihamba sikude ngakumbi.
Siphila ngolonwabo lwakho
Sihlanganisene phantse ngoko nangoko, kwaye kulungile: besinesondo kakhulu njengoko besifuna. Onke amabali malunga nenkanuko yehlanyana, xa usabelana ngesondo kangangezihlandlo ezisi-7 ngemini, kwaye emva kwexesha ebusuku, - malunga nathi. Hayi, ngokuqinisekileyo, hayi kwezi zinto, kodwa bekukho isini esininzi.
Asisoloko sihlala sikunye - umsebenzi ucebisa ukuba uninzi lwezinto ezixhasayo - ke xa sidibana ngexesha kunye nendawo, kuhlala kukho into ekhethekileyo kuthi. Andazi ukuba kuya kuphela ntoni, ukuba asihlali kunye, kungoko sinokukhawuleza sihlukane, kwaye ke inika uthando olongezelelekileyo kulwalamano lwethu.
Ewe kunjalo, besinako kwaye amaxesha anzima, nangona kunjalo, kwinqanaba lesondo ayizange ichaphazele i-SPERE yesondo: Ndingumfundisi we-yoga, kwaye isithandwa sam yi-Acrobat kwi-Acrobat Guys, isini sethu asinakuba sibi!
Ixesha lethu lokugqibela lelona lilungileyo
Asicwangciswanga ukuba sihambe ngqo, kodwa inkosikazi yendlu yam yandibeka esitratweni ngaphandle kwesilumkiso, ndamfulathela kwangoko. Sasihlala kunye esingaphezulu konyaka kwaye yonke imihla ikopi ikhutyekiswa ngakumbi kwaye ikhutyekiswa ngakumbi. Silinde de kufike olunye utshintsho, kodwa akenzanga nto.
Isondo utshatele ngakumbi kwaye inqabile ngakumbi de kungekho mntu kwaphela. Ngaphezu koko, ndaqala ukubuxhasa ubudlelwane bezesondo oluvela kuluhlu oluvela kuluhlu oluvela kuluhlu oluvela kumehlisi: "Ndinomsindo, ndihlale ngaphandle kwesondo!". Ngoku ndiyaqonda ukuba oku kuyandisikizi.
Inqaku lokugqibela yayikukurhalela kangangeentsuku ezimbalwa eAmmsterdam 'ikhupha idangatye ", kodwa kwakungekho sikweni, kwaye ndandingenantlonelo ukuba ndiye kuye, hayi ndinentlekele kakhulu ndinabantu.
Kuyamangalisa, kodwa kwakamsinya nje ukuba ekugqibeleni siyekile kwaye sagqiba kwelokuba saye sahlukana (ndifudukele kwisofa kwigumbi lokuhlala), ukuba nesondo kwakusiphucuka. Kwaye okokugqibela, yayikukutyibilika kwaphela: undibizile ukuba ndibukele igumbi lakhe elitsha, kwaye kukho isipili ngokukhula ngokupheleleyo. Ke yena wandinyanzela ukuba ndibelane naye, kwaye ke wasijonga esipilini. Kwakushushu kakhulu! Ndizisole kancinci ukuba sahlukana. Kodwa incinci kakhulu.
Ngoku sinobalekayo
Bendihlala ndihlala nabamelwane abajikeleze igumbi, ke, xa sihlala kunye nathi amandla amakhulu okuphuhlisa: njengoko kunokwenzeka ukuba umntu angenelele kwigumbi lokulala (kodwa apha phi Igumbi lokuhlambela, ekhitshini, phantsi kwipaseji kwaye ngokubanzi kuyo yonke indawo.
Sihamba kakhulu ngokwahlukeneyo, ke xa sidibana kwindlu yethu, imvakalelo yokusondelelana iphuculwe izihlandlo ezininzi, kuba lixesha nendawo ekhethekileyo kuthi.
Chukumisa apha, i-lysni apho kunye neshishini kwisigqoko
Sadibana iminyaka emi-5. Kwiinyanga ezintandathu zokuqala, kuba babehlala kumazwe awahlukeneyo, emva koko wafuduka. Ndicinga ukuba lonke ubudlelwane luqala ngenani elikhulu lesondo, encitshiswa kuxhomekeka ekubeni uhlala kunye okanye hayi. Obu bubudlelwane bam obukhulu bokuqala nentombazana kwaye yayinomdla wokujonga ukuba ishedyuli yethu yakhiwa njani: yonke iveki ngokuzola ngoxolo, emva koko - iintsana! -Mgqibelo kusasa! IXESHA LOKUGQIBELA!
Isondo ihlala ipholile, kodwa ngokuhamba kwexesha, yaguqukela ekubeni sisibophelelo, indlela. Chwetheza ndenza ngoku, ulapha, kwaye siyaphela. Kodwa safumana iindlela zokwakha iindawo zethu zesondo, sikhangela iindlela zetektri, yayinomdla kakhulu.
Eyona nto iphambili- kufuneka uye kwinkqubo enobuchule kwaye ungathathi iqabane njengento ethile, kunjalo.
Sihlukane, kodwa ekugqibeleni kuphela ngenxa yokuba washukuma, kwaye akazange aphelelwe lixesha. Kwaye akukho sesondo apha.