Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba umshiye umntwana wesikolo ekhaya? Ngoba kutheni? Kwaye malini? Sicele isizukulwana sabhinqileyo esikhule "ngesitshixo sentanyeni", sibonisa uluvo lwabo.
Kwaye bacela ukuba nenxaxheba kubo bonke. Kubandakanya omnye owayengumnini-banikisi-womfanekiso opheleleyo.Kwishumi- ewe, ishumi elinantathu - hayi
EJamani, phantsi komthetho, ukuya kuthi ga kwiminyaka eli-12 akunakushiyeka, umzekelo. Andinanto yokuthetha nangakumbi ikhonkrithi. Yonke into ixhomekeke kakhulu emntwaneni ngokwakhe. Unyana wam ekuphuhlisweni kwezona zinto zazikukhaba kwaye ukhaba amakhaba, kwaye ngelo 13 bendisoyika ukuyeka yedwa. Emva koko ubonakala engqondweni into evaliweyo, ukusuka kwihomoni kunye noxinzelelo, izakhono ezininzi zentlalo zicinyiwe xa kudlula indlela, engakhange ijonge ngapha nangapha. Oko kukuthi, kwisibhozo, wabalekela evimbani, kwaye kwishumi elinesithathu kuye utata wakhe wemba phantse ngesandla.
Wigwam
Soloko ukukholelwa ukuyeka umntwana ekhaya yedwa. Yaba yinto entle kakhulu xa ndifunda ibali lentombazana: Wemka ekhaya kwintombazana eneminyaka elishumi elinesine nomtshana omncinci, kwaye nomtshana waqhumisela umlilo. Intombi ikwazi ukukhupha inkwenkwe kwaye iphelelwe yindlu, yonke into ibambe umlilo.Ukusuka ekuphakameni kwamava
Ndithi njengomntwana owayesakuba ngumntwana, utata kunye nomnye utatomkhulu. Bantwana, mhlawumbi, abayi kuba negalelo, kunye nabantwana abancinci basesikolweni - kutheni kungenjalo? Ukuba, kunjalo, bayangxowa kwaye abayi kuzitshisa kunye nendlu.
Umfazi uxelele indlela awayeza ngayo kunye nomntakwabo omncinci nodadewabo omncinci ukusuka kwi-Shift yokuqala, kwaye umama wahamba kwesinye isikolo, funda kwi-Shift yesibini. "Bantwana! .." - "Ewe, uMama, akasondela kwisitovu."
Ngokungabikho ixesha elide, yonke into ilapha. Kodwa ke into eza kumshiya umntwana iintsuku ezintathu, kungcono ukuyikhawulezisa umntu.
Kodwa abantwana kufuneka bakhanyiselwe ngokufanelekileyo. Njengoko ndikhumbula: Emva kweminyaka emihlanu ndidlale kwi-vacuum cleanere kumyili. Bazifaka kwisokethi, babambe izandla ezimbini. Ewe, i-voltage yayikuko ngelo xesha uVolts 127. Umama kaMama wayekho. Kwaye okwesibini, nakwesithuba esifanayo-safumana izibane ze-Bengal. Ikhanyiwe yedwa. Yehlile phantsi. Kwaye ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndithulule ulwelo lokuqala oluwela ngaphantsi kwengalo - cologne. Nangona kunjalo, xa kwaqhambuka, umlilo wawubandezelekile kwaye uphelile. Kodwa i-subpine kwi-parquet ihleli. Ngeli xesha kwakungekho mntu ekhaya.
Unyana onenkathalo
Intombi yam i-3 enesiqingatha. Umntu akazukunyuka naphi na kwaye angenzi nto. Kodwa inokoyika ... kwaye nokugula kumava. Kwaye okwangoku yayisele ishiywe ngokulula. Ndihleli ndihleli ndidlale, bendingcono ekhaya kunayiphi na enye indawo nomnye umntu.Umninawa wam washiyeka kwangoko. La mabali mabini ayephambi kokuzalwa kwam, oko kuthetha ukuba wayengeyiminyaka emi-2 ubudala. Wagqiba kwelokuba anyamekele usapho kunye namanzi onke okuhlamba (bekukho kuphela amanzi abandayo endlwini) kwaye iguqulwe kwi-boiler kwibhakethi engenanto ... ngelinye ixesha ndagqiba kwelokuba onke okhupha. Indlela. Yatshiswa, ekhitshini kwakukho ukoyikeka, kodwa ikuki, ngokwamazwi kamama, amnandi.
Imeko yam, ikhonza kumdala emihlanu, akukho nto isoyikayo, kwaye enye iyazola. Kwiminyaka emi-6 okokuqala ngqa ukuya kwindlu enye ihleli ebusuku. Umama wabadala waya eyokhulula "ebusuku kwimyuziyam," kwaye amancinci asekhaya, akukho ngxaki. Iphezulu enokuthi yenzeke- le yiqanda elitshisayo. Kodwa apho isitovu esikhusekileyo, kwaye umlilo awuyi kwenzeka.
Iipugs
Utata wazalelwa okwesi-38, yaba lusuku olungaphambi kwemfazwe. Okanye nangaphambi kokuba kufundwe, utata-Novemba. Elokugqibela yayiya kucacisa ukuba kutheni kungekho mntu wokujonga-omnye ukhathalelo. Ngokubanzi, kwiminyaka emithathu yayisele yedwa. Umakhulu wayenomsebenzi ngokuchasene noko, wabona ifestile nonyana wakhe kwifestile yakhe. Umntwana ushiywe ngamaqhosha, wahlala phantsi waza wabaqhubela. Ndide ndamboniswa kwi-maloyarosflaves, apho ezi festile zimbini zazikhona ...
Isonka samasi se-Cottage
Waqala ukuhamba intombi ukusuka kwiminyaka eli-9 ubudala (ngoku uneminyaka elishumi). Imizuzu yokuqala kangangemizuzu eli-15-kwivenkile kunye nemva. Ndixhalabile kakhulu! Kwaye emva koko kancinci kancinci ... kwi-United States yethu, imithetho ingqongqo, akunakwenzeka ukuba ihambe ixesha elide, kodwa inokwenzeka iiyure ezintathu ngokugqibeleleyo ekhaya - kwaye nakanye isidlo sangokuhlwa silungiselelwe Me! Kubusuku, ngendingekayeki - ngoyiki. Ndicinga ukuba kwiminyaka eli-15 iya kwenzeka, kodwa ndiza kubona okuphilayo apho.Ukusukela kwiminyaka emi-4 kwindawo ethile kangangesiqingatha ngosuku, ngasekhohlo. Enye yeenkumbulo eziqaqambileyo zobuntwana-Njengomama ngaphambi kokuba usebenzise iwotshi yealam kwaye ucacisa ukuba xa i-shooter enkulu ilapha kwaye incinci apha, itye itshizi itshizi.
Indlu enye
Intombi yabahlobo bam kwiminyaka eli-12 yayihleli yedwa ekhaya, yalala neAngina xa wonke umntu aye ebhiyozela kwi-cottage. Ibukele kwiikhathuni zebhedi kwifowuni ebumnyameni kunye nentloko. Umntu othile weza eflethini, kwaye waqala wagqiba kwelokuba aba bazali babuyayo, kodwa emva koko ndaqonda ukuba kukho umntu omnye umntu. Ubhale iSMS kubazali, ebamba i-Katanatity Katana eludongeni kwaye efihliwe. Xa umphangi kwigumbi lakhe bevela, baphuma kuyo yonke iDriri ngaphandle kwekhefu lokubetha intloko yakhe de wayeka ukuzama ukuphakama. Ngokubanzi, le ndoda ibotshwe ngamapolisa ezibangelwa ngabazali. Yintoni enokwenzeka ukuba le ntombazana ilele okanye yayingafunwanga, unokungenisa kuphela.
Ingcali yengcali
U-Anna S., utitshala, owayesakuba ngumhloli wabantwana
Bonke abantwana bahlukile. Umntu othile unokuhlala ngokukhuselekileyo ekhaya, umntu oqingqiweyo, oseleyo engenamama kwiklasi ye-1 kaSeptemba, ngosuku lokuqala lwesikolo. Ngeentsuku zobuntwana bethu (80-90s), ukuzimela kwabantwana kwamkelwe, nto leyo eyaboniswa kwinkcubeko enkulu (jonga incwadi ethi "Malume Fedor, inja" okanye i-radionnai " , "Nceda mama"). Abantwana ngokwabo elinesibini, yaye umntu kwaye ukusuka ekuqaleni waya esikolweni, wathabatha abazalwana okanye oodade abancinane ukusuka enkulisa, wanceda ukuba siphume apha ekhaya, waya evenkileni, waya ukusekwa imfundo engakumbi. Ngoku imeko itshintshile. Kwizangqa kunye namacandelo abantwana abakwiminyaka emincinci, kunye nesikolo, "amanzi". Inye into, xa sisiphelo sesixeko, okanye ngokuhlwa, ebumnyameni. Olunye - xa isikolo sikufuphi nendlu, kunye nekhaya labantwana okanye umculo sisimilo semihla emihlanu, kwaye umsebenzi ngexesha lasemini.
I-Autononney esempilweni yinto eyimfuneko yemfundo. Ukuzimela kukuvuma kuphela phambi kobuchule obuthile bokuziqhelanisa nokuzilawula. Ukuba uthatha umntwana usempilweni ngokwengqondo, ngaphandle kokuphambuka kuPhuhliso lwezoMzimba neNgenyangeni, ke iminyaka ukuyalelwa kwi-7 ukuya kwegama, idilesi yendawo yokuhlala, iindlela zokufumana izithuthi zikawonke-wonke okanye ezinyaweni ukusuka kwindawo yokufunda kwindawo yokuhlala. Kufuneka ukwazi ukuhlawula kwivenkile, ukubala ngoncedo lwekhasitha, uthenge itikiti lokuthuthwa kwezithuthi zikawonke-wonke kwaye ulisebenzise (kwiindawo apho umqhubi alahlekileyo).
Kufuneka ukwazi ukusebenzisa i-microwave kunye ne-kettle yombane ukuze kufudumeze isidlo sasemini ngokungabikho kwezindlu ezindala. Ngeegesi kunye nezitovu zombane, yonke into iyodwa, ngenxa yoko ngekhe ndenze nanye imigqaliselo okanye izimvo apha. Uyayazi indlela yendlela-, ayiyazi indlela - engayothusanga, iyakhula, iyakufunda, eyona nto iphambili kukulibazisa.
Omnye umntwana kufuneka abe nezakhono zococeko ngokupheleleyo, ngaphandle kwezikhumbuzo zokuxubha amazinyo, ukuhlamba kunye nokulwa. Ewe, intombazana ingakwazi ukuba ne-braid ye-braid ende, abathandwa ngabantu, kodwa susa iinwele emsileni ungazola. Umntwana kufuneka akwazi ukunxiba ngokuzimeleyo, acofe zonke izilolo aze akhaba onke amaqhosha.
Kwaye umntwana kufuneka azi apho afowunayo ukuba imeko kaxakeka yenzekile. Iifowuni zokukhusela umlilo, imeko kaxakeka, amapolisa kufuneka asoloko enomntwana ukuba akhumbuze, ngakumbi ngoku inani linye. Ngalesi sihloko kunye nomntwana kufuneka uthethe, ukoyikisa, kodwa uxela ngokunyaniseka, apho siphila kweli lizwe siphila khona.
Malunga nokuhamba ekhaya. Ukuba umama wam uya emsebenzini ebusuku, andizukukucebisa ukuba umshiye umntwana ongaphantsi kweminyaka eli-14. Ukuba kuphela kuba umntwana enokoyika, kwaye ufuna imvakalelo yokhuseleko. Kungcono ukucela umntu kubantu abadala. Ukuba umama uza emva kwexesha, kulungile, ukuba iya kubiza kwaye inike ingxelo apho ikhoyo, ngokunjalo neyakuba yimalini.
Ungahamba, njengoko ndicinga, iiyure nge-5-7 ngokuzolileyo. Ishiya umama womntwana omnye esikolweni. Ndifikile ekhaya, umntwana ufikile apho.
Kwaye malunga nenkululeko. Imeko. Umama weza emsebenzini nge-11 pm, kwaye uhlala phantsi kunye nezifundo eziza kwenziwa, kude kube ngentsimbi yesibini ekuseni. Unomntwana oza kufundwa, mama? Akukho nto ilungileyo ekugqibeleni. Ndikwixesha lokutyholo lomntwana ukuba ndenze izifundo ngokwakho, ukuze abazali bamvatshele kuphela kwaye abancedisanga wonke umntu owenziwe ngawo wonke umntu. Emva koko shiya kube lula.
Cinga nangoMntwana uya kwenza ngokungabikho kwakho. Ewe, izifundo ziya kufunda, ziya kwenza isandwich kwaye itshise amanqandi, jonga umabonwakude, emva koko? Oku sele kweyakho, nooms, ukuqonda. Uyabazi ngcono abantwana bakho.
Shiya abanye kwaye bahambe kwenye indawo yokuhlaliswa kwemali andibizi. Yonke into inokwenzeka nantoni na. Yinto: abantwana bahlala boyika ukuba yedwa. Kwaye emva koko kuya kukhankanya ukuba umama makavumele, kodwa ishiywe, wenze into oyifunayo. Kuthekani ukuba i-ambulensi iya kudinga? Kwaye ngequbuliso umntwana uya kuphakamisa ngengozi kubamelwane abo (i-pump yangasekuqaleni mhlawumbi, umzekelo), kuya kufuneka ungenelele ngokungxamisekileyo kwindlu kaxakeka- kwaye wenze ntoni emva koko? Khawufane ucinge ukuba luhlobo luni loxinzelelo mhlawumbi emntwaneni? Le yeyona nto ibalulekileyo.
Kwaye kwifama ukuba ihambe kwimida efanelekileyo kwaye uyafuna. Nangona isiqingatha semini.