Ugonyamelo lutshabalalisa i-IDS njengentsholongwane okanye i-bacterium itshabalalisa umzimba. Funa unyango kwaye ufuna ukuvuselela. Baziva ntoni abafazi emva kokuhlukana neqabane lomdlwenguli? Yeyiphi eyona nto inzima kubo ekubuyiselweni? Thetha abafundi bethu abasindileyo esihogweni.
Kunzima ukufumana ukuba ndingumdala
Yeyiphi eyona nto inzima emva kokuba eshiya ubudlelwane obunobundlobongela? Qonda ukuba ndingaphila ndedwa. Ndimdala, ndizele ngokwengqondo. Ngokuqhelekileyo ndinalo ixesha elide kubudlelwane-kwakubonakala ngathi ndinohlobo oluthile lomntwana onesiphene, ngenxa yoko ndandiphatha kakubi. Ukuze ndikwazi ukuzinika ngokwam, ndingenzi emhadini kwangoko. Into endiyikwaziyo ukuyenza ubuchule obutsha, kunye nezo zifunekayo ebomini bam kunye nokusinda. Kwaye andikwazi kuthi gazi izinto ezintsha ezifuna, umzekelo, "umsebenzi wamadoda" wohlobo lokulungisa iingqekembe kwi-silator. Okanye ndingade ndingayifumana iteksi ngokwayo-ihlala isebenza ngaphambili. Kwaye ndisoyikisa ukuthembela ngokupheleleyo kwimali. Ndisafunda ukuyenza. Kwaye isoyikisa ukuba andinayo izindlu. Kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, ndiyoyika ukuba andikwazi ukuhlawula irente, kwaye wenze ntoni emva koko? Kunzima kum ukuba ndiqhela ukungabi namakhaya, kwinto yokuba ndirenta izindlu.Kwintsalela eyomileyo, kunzima kum ukuba ndiqhele ukuba ndingumntu omdala onako, ofuna ukuzikhathalela.
Ukwahlula nomhlobo osenyongweni
Kunzima ukuba inja yethu ixhaphakile, wahlala naye, kodwa kufuneka ndiyinyamekele xa kungenjalo, oko kukuthi, xa ihamba. Ngokubanzi uhlala ezixekweni ezimbini, amagqabi rhoqo kwiiveki ezimbini. Kodwa kwangaxeshanye ndisafika xa ekuyifumana, hamba naye, kwaye ekugqibeleni ndancokola naye. Kwaye le yingxaki enkulu, kuba unxibelelwano lunetyhefu kakhulu. Andikwazi ukuqhela into yokuba inja ayisenam, kwaye akukho thuba lokuyigcina.
Ayikwazanga ukuvuka ebhedini
Kungekudala emva kokuba ndisindile kuye (kulungile, kwakulapho, ndaba nendawo yam yeflethi ngaphambi komtshato), ndabaleka. Ngendlela efanelekileyo yeLizwi. Kwakukho iintsuku xa ndingakwazi nje ukuvuka ebhedini kusasa, ngoko ke ndaphoswa. Kwanangaphambi kokuba indlu yangasese yayiyingxaki.Ndinengxaki yokwenene
Phuma-sisiqingatha sokuphela. Ndifuna kakhulu ukuhlala rhoqo ... sele unyaka emva kokuhlukana nomyeni wam, phantse andilali. Ndilala ngokuhlwa. Kwaye emva koko ndivuke ezinzulwini zobusuku kwaye ndingasalali.
Ukususela ekuqalei
Kwafuneka ndifunde yonke into ukuba ihambe - ukunxibelelana, ukulala, ndicela uncedo, ndikholose abantu, akukho nto isoyikayo. Njengabantu emva kokulimala kakhulu komqolo baphinde bafune ukuhambisa izandla kunye nemilenze kwaye bahambe ukuze bangahlali baneziphene, kuye kwafuneka ndiphathe ukukhubazeka kwezentlalo.Ubundlobongela
Eyona nto inzima ukuza kuthi ga ngoku ndinokubaluleka kwam. Ixabiso lam aligqitywe ngexabiso (imali endiyifumanayo okanye engayifumani) kwaye inyani yokuba abanye abantu banokundihlonela nothando. Andifanele kwaye andinyanzelekanga ukuba ndibe nesimo sengqondo esihle, ndinelungelo lokuhlonipha imida yam, iimvakalelo kunye nayo yonke into ebalulekileyo kum. Ngokwenyani, kutheni kunzima kakhulu ukuphuma kwi-gadalala kwaye kwanasemva kokuhlukanisa kuthatha iminyaka-ukuba iphinde ibuyele phambili, uziva njani ngento oyivumelayo. Ityhefu kwaye ibongoze imvakalelo yokuzithemba, ukuzithemba nokuzithemba kunye nokuzisela.
Kufuneka uthele
Kwakunzima kakhulu ukufumana abantu abakhuselekileyo abanokuthi balibale ibali labo ngaphandle kokugwetywa kunye nokugculelwa. Kwakufuneka ndithule iminyaka eliqela, kuba bekukho abantu abanetyhefu ekufutshane. Kunye nokwenzakala kuthule cwaka kuphela
Kunzima ukuba yinye
Isizungu. Bendingazi ukuba ndikhetha idini sisiqinisekiso sabadlwenguli, oonobumba. Kwaye ke kwakothuswa, kuba kukho kuphela izihlobo zakhe ezindijikelezile, kodwa andibonanga nabahlobo bam. Okwalo mzuzu kunye noloyiko lwalunjalo, noxinzelelo.Akusoyiki?
Kholwa ukuba awunakusoyika, ungacingi ngalo lonke igama, ungabi semjikelezi-ndawo yokuzikhusela.
Yonke into ivunyelwe!
Khange ndivunyelwe imvakalelo yokusela inkululeko yokusela. Andikwazi ukuxela nabani na! Ndingachitha ixesha njengoko ndifuna! Ndiyakwazi ukulala, ngaphandle koloyiko lokuba ndiza kutsala umdla wokuphunyezwa kwetyala lomtshato! Andikwazi ukupheka! Kwaye uzenzele isaladi, kodwa abantwana bakaKishkash. Ndingathenga iimpahla kunye nezihlangu ezikhululekile kwaye njengam, ndedwa! Ndiyakwazi ukunxibelelana nomntu kwaye ndinganikeli ingxelo ngale ndlela! Ndingaya kwikhompyuter yonke ngokuhlwa! Ndingazikhetha ibhiya, ipitsa, i-sushi, ngaphandle kokujonga nakuphi na ubuso obudumileyo phantsi kokungqubana "kuyabiza kwaye kuyingozi kwaye kuyingozi kwaye iyingozi kwaye iyingozi? Ndingazisa ikhaya njengendoda xa kungekho bantwana, yeaeee !! UThixo, loluphi ulonwabo. Ndinethamsanqa ngayo ukuba ndimsusile.Akukho mntu uqengqeleka ngaphandle
Ndiyakwazi ukuzithenga ngokwakho abafana nam, ndingacingi ukuba bayamthanda. Kwaye ngokungafaniyo nantoni na. Kulusizi, le yifama ehlanganisiweyo, le yinto enomdla, yi-babshechye, le yindawo engcolileyo, ayingobudala, ngu "Wowu, ...
Ulonwabo
Ndandine-euphoria kwinkululeko kuqala. Ngokungathi kuqhekezwa kwiseli.
Ukhuseleko lolwazi
Ndisandul 'ukuphepha ukuphilisa ixesha ngalinye ndivuka ngenxa yenkampani. Kusoyiki ukuba uya kufunda.Ibingazukuba ngumama kamama
Xa ndazala umntwana, khange ndicenga ukuba ndimphakamisile. Kodwa xa indlela yokuziphatha yentombi katata kwifom enxilayo yayiyingozi kuthi kunye nentombazana, ndahamba. Umntwana okhenketho uhlala egula. Ngenxa yoku, andikwazi ukufumana umsebenzi osisigxina, ndisebenza ekhaya. Akukho mntu ufuna ukuthatha umfazi kunye nomntwana omncinci. Ukuba nayo kwaye imeko iza kuya esibhedlele. Sihlala kwimfuno, kwaye kunzima kakhulu.
Ngaphandle koTata ozolileyo
Ezona zinzima kum ngoku imfuneko isemdekile okanye kamva ukuqala ukunxibelelana nayo kwifomathi ethi "UTata uza kubantwana." Ngoku akazukuza eludlelweni iinyanga ezi-3, wazola endlwini. Kwaye kwimfuno yokuqalisa ngokutsha (unxibelelwano lwabantwana) ndiyayiqokelela "iNepaltki".I-Samadanovat
Okubi kakhulu ukuva kubonke abantu ababathandayo- ukuba ukhangele, ke unokuba tyala ngale nto. Ukuzahlula kwentlalo xa eveza ukuba angonelanga, kwaye abantu bayamkholelwa. Qala ukusebenza kunye neZenzo-umnqweno wokufihla phantsi kwengubo kwaye unyamalale. Izenzo zezobulungisa ziyakothusa, kuba Akukho zibonelelo. Ingca kwi-Intanethi kunye neenethiwekhi zentlalo, ezoyikiso, i-blackmail, ukonakalisa i-imeyile kunye ne-imeyile kunye nokuthumela kwi-imeyile yabathengi abaziintabalala zazo zonke iintlobo zeVyssazni ebusweni bam. Ndisendleleni. Icandelo elinzima lamagumbi kunye ne-alimony. Ukusuka ecaleni kwakukhangeleka ngathi kukothuka kukaTiran, kunye nexhoba labo liphuma emgwebeni, kwaye uya kukhwela onke amaqhosha ukutshabalalisa ixhoba. Nakuphi na ukusebenzisana nalo mntu ukoyikisa, kuyacekiseka kwaye kuyacekiseka. Yinto yokufa, ubulala incasa yobomi, amaphupha, amabhongo, izicwangciso. Ukuzisola ngokuba andiyigqibanga ngexesha lentlanganiso yokuqala. Sele iphume entolongweni. Yimihla ngemihla ukugcina imigodi yakhe kunye namagqwetha ukuba athathe igumbi lokuphumla ebantwaneni kwaye alondoloze kwi-alimony. Kuyoyikeka ukuba uqhubeka nokutsala emhlabeni wakhe ogulayo kunye namaxabiso e-curvature. Soyikisa xa unxibelelana naye, ukujija kwisiqingatha sencoko yababini yasekhaya, ungacingi utshintsho lweentsuku, ivumba lemvula, amagqabi ekwindla. Iyothusa ukucinga ukuba awusoze uphinde ubuye kubomi bakho babantu abadala.
Isoyikisa, imvakalelo yokuba ulilize, xa uqonda ukuba awufuni kwanto: Funda le ncwadi, bhala incwadi, yiya kwi-aricured okanye yenza nje i-maricure. Kuyoyikisa into yokuba le nto ingaphakathi iguqulwe ngokulula iguqulwa ngokulula ibe kukucaphukisa abantwana. Soyikisa xa kuninzi abacebisi ngamabhungane abangeyomfuneko kunye nezimvo zabo ukuba bajikeleze: ngenxa yabantwana babefunwa, wayenoBawo olungileyo, ngewayebe noBawo ongubani na Ngaba i-doors ezivaliweyo? Kukungazinzi kwezinto eziphathekayo, ukuziphindezela okubi kukaThixo wangaphambili- waqhawula umtshato, ke ngoko utyangulwa ngabantwana ngokwakhe. Kuyoyikeka ukunqwenela ukufa komnye umntu, kuba le kuphela kwento enokuthintela ngokupheleleyo unxibelelwano ongazange alufumane kulo umqalisi. Kuyabi ukuve ukuva lonke lonke ulwimi, ukuba akukho msi ngaphandle komlilo, umyeni wakhe - nguSathana, bobabini babeka ityala.
Inqaku lalungiselela uNatalia Kalashnikova
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