Kungakuhle ukuba kungekudala uza kuqalisa ukujonga iivenkile ngeevenkile ezineevenkile kunye nephanyazo zifumanisa ukuba iintsana, ngokubanzi, izidalwa ezihle kakhulu. Akukho mntu ucime amandla e-mimi, kodwa isidima esinye emehlweni esityebi kunye neziphoso ayonelanga ukuba ngumzali olungileyo. Zibonelele kwaye ngubani okufutshane - mhlawumbi kukho intetho yabantwana babanye abantu, ukubeka ukuzalwa kwakhe ngelo xesha?
Ulungele ukuncama izilangazelelo zakho.
Emva kokuzalwa komntwana, bobabini uyema ngoko nangoko ukuba nguye ophambili apha. Oyena mntu uya kuba. Ngoku ayinamsebenzi into oyifunayo - nje le nto ayifunayo, kwaye nobabini kuya kufuneka bavumelane noku. Ngaphandle koko, ixesha elide, ubude bamashumi eminyaka baya kuqala, ingoma umntu ophume kwinto ayala ngenxa yosapho kwaye ngoku usapho malube lolo.
Unemali eyaneleyo
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I-Witict, iNecheBrodskaya kwaye izama ukuxoka isivakalisi malunga ne-bunny kunye ne-lawn ayisebenzi. Umntwana akazifumani, nokuba unayo ngaphandle kwe-swilk diapers kunye nezihlangu ze-oak. Uya kudinga iqhekeza lezinto ezinokuthethwa, ulungile (Kulungile!) I-inshurensi, imali ye-nanny, i-kindergarten, yesikolo kunye neyunivesithi. Masithi ungamaqhawe kwaye ulungele ukuzingazezela kwaye kuzo zonke uyala-ude wolula kangakanani kule ndlela? Umntwana ufuna uzinzo lwezemali, kwaye kungenjalo ngoku, kodwa bonke ubomi bakhe.
Unolwalamano oluzinzileyo
Mhlawumbi uyathanda ukuba uthando lwakho luyi-tick-n roll roll kwaye uphose ngenxa kaThixo. Kodwa ukuba kunjalo, le ayisiyondawo intle yomntwana. Oku, masithi ngqo, indawo yoususy. Ukuba isibini sasinengxaki, ukubonakala komthathi-nxaxheba wesithathu kubudlelwane kuya kubenza bubi kuphela. Okubi kakhulu. Ukuba ngumzali kufuna ukuba uthethathethwano, imeko ethe cwaka nenobungozi endlwini, intsebenziswano kunye, inqwenelekayo, izimvo ezifanayo ekukhuliseni abantwana.Nina nobabini abantu abadala
Hayi ngengqondo yepasipoti. Ngengqondo yentloko. Awuziphathi kakuhle kubantwana, wena uxanduva kwaye akukho mfuneko. Ukuba ufuna ukwenza into, oyenzayo ngaphandle kwezikhumbuzo, izikrelemnqa, i-blackmail kwaye ikhala "ndilungile?".
Iofisi yakho ye-Humane noomama abancinci
Le asiyondawo yokuqala eza engqondweni xa ukhulelwe, kodwa kuya kufuneka acinge ngayo. Kuyacaca ukuba ingakanani i-ofisi ye-Ofisi ekulungele ukukuvumela ukuba uye kwi-cradle kwaye uza kukuhlawula njani, kunokwenzeka ukuba uqhubeke ukusebenza nangona u-SITKI obonelela ngayoMAMS inkampani. Yonke le nto mayingavunyelwanga, kodwa ichazwe ngokucacileyo, nokuba wena nomphathi-wabahlobo-uthuli, umlilo wokugqibela, amanzi okuqalisa amanzi.Ulungele iBhodi yeBhodi kunye namaxhoba
"Owu, yinto yonke engenantsingiselo, ubuthongo bam bufutshane!" Kumnandi kakhulu ukuba ezinye ii-moms zinethamsanqa. Oku akuthethi ukuba uya kuba nethamsanqa. Iakhawunti yamama iwaka le-pindas enesangqa esiphantsi kwamehlo. Notata. Kunzima ukulala xa i-siren yenqanawa isebenza phantsi kwendlebe. Kwaye ukungabikho kokulala ayisiyiyo kuphela ukukhaba kwindawo yokuthuthuzela. Zombini kufuneka wazi ukuba uvuyo oluncinci lobomi-njengokulala kangangeeCawa, iithoyi ezithe cwaka kwindawo yeetanki kunye neendibano ezinkulu nabahlobo kwi-balcony kunye nexesha elidlulileyo, kunoko.
Unendawo eyaneleyo kwindlu yakho
Okanye wena ngokulula, ngaphandle kokuwa kwezemali, unokufudukela kwindawo engaphezulu. Kuba umntwana uya kufuna ngokukhawuleza indawo - okokuqala ebhedini, emva koko igumbi lobuqu. Andifuni nokuchaza ukuba kutheni ubuthongo bukwigumbi elinye legumbi, zahlulwe ziikhabhathi namakhethini-ayisiyo ndlela yokwenzakala kwengqondo kuwo wonke umntu.Awudingi uthando ngakumbi
Abantwana bahlala bezala ukuze bathintele uthando okanye bathathe indawo yomntu - abazali okanye ex. Kodwa ukuba ngumzali abukho "ukufumana", phantse ibe yi-100% malunga "nokupha".
Awukho mncinci kakhulu
Kukho isikere: Ugqirha uthi enye, oochwephesha bezengqondo - ngaphezulu. Ngoogqirha kwangoko, kunjalo, ukuba ngcono - iisihlunu zilula kakhulu, intliziyo yimoto enomlilo, umzimba ufane nomelele kwaye bunamandla. Kodwa intloko isayinto engafanelekanga. Kwaye ukuba iqwengiwe kwiinyanga ezimbalwa, ukwenzakala kwengqondo kunokukulandela kwibhodi yebhokisi. Abafazi abanike umntwana bokuqala ukuya kwiminyaka engama-23 ubudala, bahlala bethwaxwa ngokudakumba emva kwexesha, i-neurosis kunye nemvakalelo yokuziva unetyala, bayaphazamisa ngakumbi.Sobabini uyayifuna
Ukunyanzelisa ubuyeyona-into yokugqibela. Awunokwazi ukuba yintoni engcono kuye. Kwaye ukuba akafuni abantwana, ithuba lokuba emva kokuzalwa kwendlalifa, uya kuguqulwa abe ngutata ofanelekileyo, incinci - ibali lazi imizekelo eyaneleyo. Akukho mntu unelungelo lokuyicombulula enye, ukuba ngumzali okanye akunjalo.